Most normies with a gf don't really "have a gf" in terms of what we would expect from a relationship

[Deleted member 31869]

Ik the title is confusing but hear me out. There's this sort of cognitive dissonance in the incel community sometimes, regarding the vast amount of normies with gfs vs our "chad only" and 80/20 rules.

Well let me explain. They "have a gf" on paper, so to speak, but that's nothing like what having a life partner should or could be like, or the way it is for chad.

You only really have a girlfriend if she is in love with you. Otherwise might as well be alone. If you're betabuxing, or average but she's with you just to not be single and on the lookout for a Chad, or cucking you, you don't really "have a gf" bc thats not a real relationship, emotionally. And that's what it's like for like over 4 out of 5 normies, I'm sure. Just look at most normies and their gfs. She is tired of them, treats them like her plaything, like she knows she could dump him and find another normie or even a Chad within the day. That's not a relationship.

A real relationship with a woman is a very deep connection and something that's very good but also very rare for a man to have, as it's chad only.

 

[Uglyme]

Only the normie has a gf, the foid is always single and available for Chad.

 

[coldmachinery]

Normal guys are a few missteps from never getting laid again. Not a very enviable position. I think it's partially why the incels who perhaps aren't too far gone looksmaxx so hard as it's Chad or nothing for the initiated.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

Only the normie has a gf, the foid is always single and available for Chad.

Normal guys are a few missteps from never getting laid again. Not a very enviable position. I think it's partially why the incels who perhaps aren't too far gone looksmaxx so hard as it's Chad or nothing for the initiated.

 

[Over_this_Life]

Sometimes you see normies with foids but just because they are together doesnt mean the normie is getting any, at least not regularly. If anything its a betabuxx situation most of the time, with the foid routinely hooking up with chad on tinder while beta billy has to masterbate and finish in the toilet. Foids have all the power in relationships nowadays and society enables them its sickening

 

[Loner94]

Ik the title is confusing but hear me out. There's this sort of cognitive dissonance in the incel community sometimes, regarding the vast amount of normies with gfs vs our "chad only" and 80/20 rules.

Well let me explain. They "have a gf" on paper, so to speak, but that's nothing like what having a life partner should or could be like, or the way it is for chad.

You only really have a girlfriend if she is in love with you. Otherwise might as well be alone. If you're betabuxing, or average but she's with you just to not be single and on the lookout for a Chad, or cucking you, you don't really "have a gf" bc thats not a real relationship, emotionally. And that's what it's like for like over 4 out of 5 normies, I'm sure. Just look at most normies and their gfs. She is tired of them, treats them like her plaything, like she knows she could dump him and find another normie or even a Chad within the day. That's not a relationship.

A real relationship with a woman is a very deep connection and something that's very good but also very rare for a man to have, as it's chad only.

Well going by that definition most guys have never had a girlfriend which is quite ridiculous.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

Pretty true. Normies don’t necessarily have things the best either. They just get cucked by their “gfs” and hardly get too much sex when in the relationship. They also have to put a lot of effort just for a little bit of sex. Not even worth it. Better to just escortmaxx or even rapemaxx at this point

 

[Deleted member 27495]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

 

[WizardofSoda]

Pretty true. Normies don’t necessarily have things the best either. They just get cucked by their “gfs” and hardly get too much sex when in the relationship. They also have to put a lot of effort just for a little bit of sex. Not even worth it. Better to just escortmaxx or even rapemaxx at this point

When i look at the huge and constant effort my normie friends have to put in, it just wouldn't be worth it for me. And even those normies who are putting in so much time and effort constantly, the girls still monkey branch to taller, bigger men.. so the normie then has to spend months of trying to find another girlfriend.. who then treats him the same way.

A lesson in life: if anything feels like work/effort for you don't do it. For example a natural carpenter can't wait to get out there and carve and cut wood and build things.

 

[Lebensmüder]

When i look at the huge and constant effort my normie friends have to put in, it just wouldn't be worth it for me. And even those normies who are putting in so much time and effort constantly, the girls still monkey branch to taller, bigger men.. so the normie then has to spend months of trying to find another girlfriend.. who then treats him the same way.

A lesson in life: if anything feels like work/effort for you don't do it. For example a natural carpenter can't wait to get out there and carve and cut wood and build things.

This tbh. I am not even sure whether I would want this life. Better not to try at all then try in vain, the effort is too small to make the price seem worth it. A normalfag is one dismissal from a job away from our life and constantly on the watch to keep his life in order, so much effort for backstabbing GFs/friends that would leave him at the first sign of trouble.

Pretty true. Normies don’t necessarily have things the best either. They just get cucked by their “gfs” and hardly get too much sex when in the relationship. They also have to put a lot of effort just for a little bit of sex. Not even worth it. Better to just escortmaxx or even rapemaxx at this point

Completely true.

 

[Deleted member 10124]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

Its the truth though.

Normal guys are a few missteps from never getting laid again. Not a very enviable position. I think it's partially why the incels who perhaps aren't too far gone looksmaxx so hard as it's Chad or nothing for the initiated.

Is it even worth it. Escortmax & surrogacymax.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

IT is already seething

 

[Deleted member 27204]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

IT is already seething

We're talking about normies here though not them kek.

 

[agingmentalcel]

Pretty true. Normies don’t necessarily have things the best either. They just get cucked by their “gfs” and hardly get too much sex when in the relationship. They also have to put a lot of effort just for a little bit of sex. Not even worth it. Better to just escortmaxx or even rapemaxx at this point

I think that pretty much just doing whatever you want as a man and maybe budgeting for a semi-regular escort is the true ascension at this point.

 

[Deleted member 27159]

When i look at the huge and constant effort my normie friends have to put in, it just wouldn't be worth it for me. And even those normies who are putting in so much time and effort constantly, the girls still monkey branch to taller, bigger men.. so the normie then has to spend months of trying to find another girlfriend.. who then treats him the same way.

A lesson in life: if anything feels like work/effort for you don't do it. For example a natural carpenter can't wait to get out there and carve and cut wood and build things.

Facts. This is why I would rather pay a prostitute instead. Even if I were to suddenly become normie tier I refuse to go through the effort of it even if I could get laid. It’s not worth the hassle whatsoever. Also wanting relationships is stupid as you are 1000% going to get cucked. Even chads gets cucked

I think that pretty much just doing whatever you want as a man and maybe budgeting for a semi-regular escort is the true ascension at this point.

It is the most non-cucked way of living. That is what my plan will be when I grow up. I will try to have a job which will make me financially secure and probably escortcell once every 2 weeks or so

 

[Byronic Incellino]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

I think that pretty much just doing whatever you want as a man and maybe budgeting for a semi-regular escort is the true ascension at this point.

Facts. This is why I would rather pay a prostitute instead. Even if I were to suddenly become normie tier I refuse to go through the effort of it even if I could get laid. It’s not worth the hassle whatsoever. Also wanting relationships is stupid as you are 1000% going to get cucked. Even chads gets cucked

It is the most non-cucked way of living. That is what my plan will be when I grow up. I will try to have a job which will make me financially secure and probably escortcell once every 2 weeks or so

cope, that's borderline MGTOW

 

[cvh1991]

Ik the title is confusing but hear me out. There's this sort of cognitive dissonance in the incel community sometimes, regarding the vast amount of normies with gfs vs our "chad only" and 80/20 rules.

Well let me explain. They "have a gf" on paper, so to speak, but that's nothing like what having a life partner should or could be like, or the way it is for chad.

You only really have a girlfriend if she is in love with you. Otherwise might as well be alone. If you're betabuxing, or average but she's with you just to not be single and on the lookout for a Chad, or cucking you, you don't really "have a gf" bc thats not a real relationship, emotionally. And that's what it's like for like over 4 out of 5 normies, I'm sure. Just look at most normies and their gfs. She is tired of them, treats them like her plaything, like she knows she could dump him and find another normie or even a Chad within the day. That's not a relationship.

A real relationship with a woman is a very deep connection and something that's very good but also very rare for a man to have, as it's chad only.

Correct, most normies/non-Chads in relationship/marriages and what have you are actually Betabux who probably only get sex rarely while footing the bill for most stuff.

Many will later get divorce raped then become MGTOW or some shit.

Sometimes you see normies with foids but just because they are together doesnt mean the normie is getting any, at least not regularly. If anything its a betabuxx situation most of the time, with the foid routinely hooking up with chad on tinder while beta billy has to masterbate and finish in the toilet. Foids have all the power in relationships nowadays and society enables them its sickening

Based and well said

 

[Mainländer]

High IQ. The world is not a Chad x incel dicotomy like some people here think, it's more like a minority of truecels who get nothing, a tiny minority of Chads who get everything they want and a huge majority in-between that does get sex, gfs and whatnot here and there (or very, very rarely at least) but it's mostly only bad deals. Getting shit, abuse, being cucked, being left for no reason, frivorced, given the dead bedroom treatment, etc.

That's why I personally like the terminology "semi-incel". That's what normies and especially low-tier normies are nowadays IMO.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

High IQ. The world is not a Chad x incel dicotomy like some people here think, it's more like a minority of truecels who get nothing, a tiny minority of Chads who get everything they want and a huge majority in-between that does get sex, gfs and whatnot here and there (or very, very rarely at least) but it's mostly only bad deals. Getting shit, abuse, being cucked, being left for no reason, frivorced, given the dead bedroom treatment, etc.

That's why I personally like the terminology "semi-incel". That's what normies and especially low-tier normies are nowadays IMO.

Based

 

[steadyCoping]

There is always a heirarchy and a normie can always be upgraded.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

If you are a normie and have a gf. Then it’s just a matter of time before she cheats.

clock is ticking

 

[Dregster]

posts like these make lurking normies seethe, they cant cope with us trivializing their mediocre relationship and dry sex life.

To be fair, most of us have never been in a relationship, so it isn't difficult to disregard us on this matter.

Imagine a basketball team that's never won a championship trying to tell a championship team how to win one.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

To be fair, most of us have never been in a relationship, so it isn't difficult to disregard us on this matter.

Imagine a basketball team that's never won a championship trying to tell a championship team how to win one.

we have more emotional awareness than normies, otherwise we wouldn't know about the blackpill and would be naive like them

sure, i wouldn't go lecturing a chad about how foids think. he would be a lot more knowledgeable than me, just by virtue of his vast experience. but an average male?

 

[Dregster]

but an average male?

Cant really argue with someone who's gotten more done tbh emotional awareness is cope.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Cant really argue with someone who's gotten more done tbh emotional awareness is cope.

they're just betabuxing and getting cucked though

 

[Dregster]

they're just betabuxing and getting cucked though

Except most guys arent rich enough to have stay at home wives. Good luck finding a foid that doesn't have a job. You cant really betabuxx someone who makes their own money.

 

[Deleted member 31869]

Except most guys arent rich enough to have stay at home wives. Good luck finding a foid that doesn't have a job. You cant really betabuxx someone who makes their own money.

you can if she's like a cashier or something and you're stemmaxxed, that's how most cases of "400 weeks vs 1 meeks" work

 

[Deleted member 31869]

There is a normie in my workplace that often talks about his GF.
The days went on and slowly he would spill more and more info about their "relationship".

"Ah, I bought it for Hole last week."
"Hole hates when I ask anything of her, haha."
"I better get home early today, I need to buy more soy milk."
"Nah, Hole will spend Christmas with her grandmother in California, she even sent me a photo, see? Tyrone drove her all the way there! God bless him."

He pays her rent, groceries, bills, takes her to dinner, buy shit for her. And as far as I know the only thing he gets from it is the privilege of saying that "they are together", "going out", "she is my gf but our relationship is pretty open you know, I am not one of those control creeps *sips his soy latte*"

90% of all normies with gf's and even wifes, are just in cucked up shit. Where they don't even get a handshake from the foid but pay all her bills.

 

[Tenshi]

I agree with you. I've been noticing the same recently, and the sad thing is that those guys don't even imagine that their beloved gfs would act completely different if they were chads. They think the cucked treatment they get from their partners is "normal".

 

[slavcel11]

If "your" girlfriend doesn't give you anime girl experience then you might as well not have a girlfriend. And mind you, this means she doesn't simply simulate an anime girl for you (in fact, she could do it for everyone for money just as well). She doesn't even do it of her own will but rather because your mere presence puts her in an ecstatic awe every time she looks at you and reduces her to a blissful infantile.

 

[Tenshi]

If "your" girlfriend doesn't give you anime girl experience then you might as well not have a girlfriend. And mind you, this means she doesn't simply simulate an anime girl for you (in fact, she could do it for everyone for money just as well). She doesn't even do it of her own will but rather because your mere presence puts her in an ecstatic awe every time she looks at you and reduces her to a blissful infantile.

you're just not the same once you see how foids simp for chad. Normies think were joking, but they would kill themselves if they knew that this is legitimaly how foids act when with chad.

 

[andinocel]

Foids enjoy having boyfriends for the attention and financial support (or in the case of high earning foids, extra money); they are always on the lookout for something better, the way people keep their eyes peeled for better job opportunities.

Red pillers state it nicely: "She's not yours, it's just your turn"

 

[Deleted member 31869]

you're just not the same once you see how foids simp for chad. Normies think were joking, but they would kill themselves if they knew that this is legitimaly how foids act when with chad.

tbh

they think its normal that they have to earn sex with their wife, that she's no longer "a very sexual person", that she seems to be lowkey sick of them all the time, etc. if only they knew

 

[radishman]

Only the normie has a gf, the foid is always single and available for Chad.

JFL so true. Every normie is basically in an open relationship, they just choose to ignore it for fear of being us.

 

[VindalooCell]

tbh

they think its normal that they have to earn sex with their wife, that she's no longer "a very sexual person", that she seems to be lowkey sick of them all the time, etc. if only they knew

This is why some of them are so obsessed with incels, even though technically they shouldn't even have to pollute their minds with the thought of our existence, they know that they are borderline us and in any case are not living the ideal life, as seen in Hollywood.
I knew something weird was up early on in high school where kids would have relationships and then break up in a few months to move onto someone else. What kind of living is that?

 

[Deleted member 31869]

JFL so true. Every normie is basically in an open relationship, they just choose to ignore it for fear of being us.

extremely based

 

[SlayerSlayer]

the foid is always single and available for Chad.

 

[Deleted member 24272]

Most normies ı know have ugly ass gfs they keep for like 5/6 months and then break up
No sex or anything whatsover
And it usually ends up with their ex spreading rumors about them afterwards
Plus normies dont have sex,they just use foids pussy as a fleshlight as she is busy thinking about how better this could have been ıf he was a Chad.