I’m not sure if you fully understand the blackpill then.
Simply trying is a blue pill comment. Understanding the underlying distribution of probabilities and expected outcomes is the blackpill.
As a thought experiment, if you are 5 6 or under, 90% of women won’t talk to you. A false fallacy is that you can max other items and improve your probability of success beyond 10%.
The reality is your overall probability of success is the multiplication of all of your different traits and the associated probabilities of success then multiplied by the effort or number of chances you give your self (a gamblers paradox application).
So if you are short and then everything else is perfect (intelligent, rich, blah blah blah) you are starting at .1 in theory. Add moderate intelligence making 50k etc etc and it’s .1*.1*.1 (just as a thought experiment) so you are looking at 1/1000. Add in the mental factor, add in the situational timing and chances that you are concurrently in the right place in time as that one person.
Then add the hypergamy curve associated with online dating if you meet them in that forum (each forum is different, closed social circles etc.)
What you find is that effort maxxing does not make a massive difference. While it does improve your chances (anything with a nonzero probability with infinite attempts approaches 1)It doesn’t move mountains.
The blackpill recognizes it’s essentially luck and a lot of your expected outcome is dictated by genetic expressions you have little to no control over.
Redpill is some type of projection that a 5 foot 5 guy can increase his odds by gym maxing to 30%, but no, he is still bottle necked by the 10%, then multiplied by the 30% from gym max. So you are bottlenecked at a minimum by your worst trait, and help isn’t coming.
I don’t view the black pill as nihilistic , I view it as realistic and I think that is a great first view of the world to start taking the best advantage of your life- being realistic and optimizing within your boundaries.
