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Venting My father insists on me pursuing a PhD. He didn't even know what a PhD was a year ago...

Babica Yaga

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Soon to finish my master's and now my father keeps fucking hammering on me with this retarded bullshit. "You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!" Yeah accomplished everything apart from the sole purpose in life which is to breed and produce offspring... I care so much about pursuing academia that I did not even attend my bachelor graduation ceremony. Why would I attend an event where everyone willjust lifemog me to oblivion and make me want to kms? I will not attend my master's graduation either.

All the motivation I had in high school to pursue an academic career has been long gone. I just want the fucking paper to finally get it over with and start wagecuckign while doing crypto on the side to make some extra money. If I was still bluepilled I probably would have considered doing a PhD. Now it is just a joke to me. How can one possibly want to spend the next 4-5 years of their life pursuing a PhD after seeing this:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uW0_C8FqVGg&ab_channel=TatsuhiroSatou


Imagine seeing this as a 24, almost 25, year old virgin and thinking to yourself enthusiastically "oh yeah a PhD is definitely good idea!" Meanwhile, a criminal scum like Jeremy Meeks can become a billionaire after leaving jail just because of his facial bones. Just fucking lol. A PhD is about contributing to soyciety by pushing the frontiers of knowledge. I don't see the point in doing this anymore for a soyciety that I believe is doomed to collapse.

At least my mother is not as bluepilled regarding this. "It is a bad idea he will never find a girlfriend and have kids yadee yadee". For once she's right... for once....

/rant

@Total Imbecile Thoughts? I remember u said something about considering doing a PhD
 
Brutal. Wish you good luck, also have the same problem with my parents. Didn't even want to go to uni and was forced by them, wanted to make a simple vocational training, but my parents wouldn't let me. They also forced me into subjects I didn't want in uni (especially one that is far too hard for me/fucks me up).
 
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What are your degrees in. If it's in some shit-tier social science field, then don't waste your time.
 
What are your degrees in. If it's in some shit-tier social science field, then don't waste your time.
Biomedical field. But yeah anything other than STEM is just a meme

Brutal. Wish you good luck, also have the same problem with my parents. Didn't even want to go to uni and was forced by them, wanted to make a simple vocational training, but my parents wouldn't let me. They also forced me into subjects I didn't want in uni (especially one that is far too hard for me/fucks me up).
Thanks man u too, having stubborn parents can suck sometimes, but it is what it is...
 
Biomedical field. But yeah anything other than STEM is just a meme
Am from the same field. A PHD is most of the time necessary for more money.
Thanks man u too, having stubborn parents can suck sometimes, but it is what it is...
Yes, sometimes so fucking annoying. Especially when they choose hard fields and not the ones where you get participation trophies. And the worst thing: It doesn't even give money anymore what they forced me into.
 
i just failed the 3rd semester of my BSc lol
 
Am from the same field. A PHD is most of the time necessary for more money.
True, but it is not by that much I think on average, especially here in the Netherlands where wages are dog shit anyway compared to US. Though biotech/pharma companies often require a PhD for their positions

i just failed the 3rd semester of my BSc lol
Over
 
Biomedical field. But yeah anything other than STEM is just a meme
Then weigh your opportunity costs (if you haven't already), and make the best decision for you. Computational biology and bioinformatics - basically any field sprinkled with a bit of programming - are growing fields. Career-wise, a PhD is probably not the best plan, so if you're in a good spot with a career plan, fuck the PhD. PhD is mostly worth it for your own personal satisfaction of knowledge and if you really love research, because you're wasting so many years of your life into it.
 
True, but it is not by that much I think on average, especially here in the Netherlands where wages are dog shit anyway compared to US. Though biotech/pharma companies often require a PhD for their positions.
Am from Germoney. Here you need a Master's degree at minimum, with a Bachelor you are treated like a Bimbo and nobody takes you seriously. With a Master's degree you get mediocre payment, but with PHD you get enormous payment.
 
Then weigh your opportunity costs (if you haven't already), and make the best decision for you. Computational biology and bioinformatics - basically any field sprinkled with a bit of programming - are growing fields. Career-wise, a PhD is probably not the best plan, so if you're in a good spot with a career plan, fuck the PhD. PhD is mostly worth it for your own personal satisfaction of knowledge and if you really love research, because you're wasting so many years of your life into it.
Yeah I actually do like bioinformatics, I did a minor it. I'm proficient in Python (~5 years), R and a bit of Js/html/css. However, bioinformatics/data science is also getting pretty saturated these days. I heard also that some people do freelance work bioinformatics/ds, seems interesting but havent looked into that yet
 
Then weigh your opportunity costs (if you haven't already), and make the best decision for you. Computational biology and bioinformatics - basically any field sprinkled with a bit of programming - are growing fields. Career-wise, a PhD is probably not the best plan, so if you're in a good spot with a career plan, fuck the PhD. PhD is mostly worth it for your own personal satisfaction of knowledge and if you really love research, because you're wasting so many years of your life into it.
Biochemistry is also still growing, but informatics is probably the biggest growing field. Good advice.
 
actually it's ok, i just have to study calculus III next year
Do yourself a favor and just start self-studying for the courses you'll get next semesters whenever you get spare time. Then when the course finally kicks off you can just lay back relax, post shit here and do jack shit cause you'll know most of the content already
 
Yeah I actually do like bioinformatics, I did a minor it. I'm proficient in Python (~5 years), R and a bit of Js/html/css. However, bioinformatics/data science is also getting pretty saturated these days. I heard also that some people do freelance work bioinformatics/ds, seems interesting but havent looked into that yet
You can parlay your Python and R experience into a data science job with your MSc. Tbh, everything is getting saturated. Employers are getting pickier and everybody wants people with 5+ years of experience to the hit the ground running and cut their training costs, even on entry level jobs. Your webdev skills are going to be fluff for your resume, but it'll be pretty looking fluff. Definitely better than having captain of the debate club or some lame shit like that there that nobody can use you for (negotiations maybe?).

The freelancers you're thinking about are guys with very specific skills that are hired as specialists or consultants. I knew a guy who took his finance background with his programming job experience and became a "business intelligence analyst." He would compile multi-year business data (profit/expense reports etc.) for small to medium businesses, run them through statistical software packages, and code some scripts in R to parse and analyse all kinds of interesting data tid bits that the business owner might find useful to min-max a certain area (like reducing restocking orders for specific brand that has certain seasonal lows in sales) and boost profits/cut expenses. Not complicated stuff, mind you, but it fills a niche.
 
Soon to finish my master's and now my father keeps fucking hammering on me with this retarded bullshit. "You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!" Yeah accomplished everything apart from the sole purpose in life which is to breed and produce offspring... I care so much about pursuing academia that I did not even attend my bachelor graduation ceremony. Why would I attend an event where everyone willjust lifemog me to oblivion and make me want to kms? I will not attend my master's graduation either.

All the motivation I had in high school to pursue an academic career has been long gone. I just want the fucking paper to finally get it over with and start wagecuckign while doing crypto on the side to make some extra money. If I was still bluepilled I probably would have considered doing a PhD. Now it is just a joke to me. How can one possibly want to spend the next 4-5 years of their life pursuing a PhD after seeing this:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uW0_C8FqVGg&ab_channel=TatsuhiroSatou


Imagine seeing this as a 24, almost 25, year old virgin and thinking to yourself enthusiastically "oh yeah a PhD is definitely good idea!" Meanwhile, a criminal scum like Jeremy Meeks can become a billionaire after leaving jail just because of his facial bones. Just fucking lol. A PhD is about contributing to soyciety by pushing the frontiers of knowledge. I don't see the point in doing this anymore for a soyciety that I believe is doomed to collapse.

At least my mother is not as bluepilled regarding this. "It is a bad idea he will never find a girlfriend and have kids yadee yadee". For once she's right... for once....

/rant

@Total Imbecile Thoughts? I remember u said something about considering doing a PhD


Dont do a PhD if youre not feeling it tbh, get it if you want otherwise dont because its really not a good investment

Im personally considering it for shits and giggles and because I think people wiht PhDs are hard working (not necessarily smart) and I have mad respect for science PhDs because of that

Also another thing to consider is your dating options (this also significantly impacted my decision to pursue a PhD):

My degree is in STEM, if I get a job I will be around other guys 99.999% of the time and that means Ill be doomed to be incel forever

At least as a PhD you get to stay on campus for another 5 years where the female/male ratio is 50/50

Basically you can pursue college girls without it being creepy

I just dont see the point of careermaxxing if Im going to be alone, like you buy a car, a house and then what? My expenses are minimal because I dont buy that much useless shit I dont need much extra money

Also youre certainly not gonna get rich wageslaving, and if you feel like starting your own company to become rich you can just drop out and do it at any point

Finally, a PhD gives you more interesting job options which is another thing to consider

In summary, Im considering doing it because why not but YMMV
 
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Soon to finish my master's and now my father keeps fucking hammering on me with this retarded bullshit. "You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!" Yeah accomplished everything apart from the sole purpose in life which is to breed and produce offspring... I care so much about pursuing academia that I did not even attend my bachelor graduation ceremony. Why would I attend an event where everyone willjust lifemog me to oblivion and make me want to kms? I will not attend my master's graduation either.

All the motivation I had in high school to pursue an academic career has been long gone. I just want the fucking paper to finally get it over with and start wagecuckign while doing crypto on the side to make some extra money. If I was still bluepilled I probably would have considered doing a PhD. Now it is just a joke to me. How can one possibly want to spend the next 4-5 years of their life pursuing a PhD after seeing this:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uW0_C8FqVGg&ab_channel=TatsuhiroSatou


Imagine seeing this as a 24, almost 25, year old virgin and thinking to yourself enthusiastically "oh yeah a PhD is definitely good idea!" Meanwhile, a criminal scum like Jeremy Meeks can become a billionaire after leaving jail just because of his facial bones. Just fucking lol. A PhD is about contributing to soyciety by pushing the frontiers of knowledge. I don't see the point in doing this anymore for a soyciety that I believe is doomed to collapse.

At least my mother is not as bluepilled regarding this. "It is a bad idea he will never find a girlfriend and have kids yadee yadee". For once she's right... for once....

/rant

@Total Imbecile Thoughts? I remember u said something about considering doing a PhD

Mogs me at having a degree already.
 
Get a professional qualification. Perhaps in finance?
 
Soon to finish my master's and now my father keeps fucking hammering on me with this retarded bullshit. "You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!" Yeah accomplished everything apart from the sole purpose in life which is to breed and produce offspring... I care so much about pursuing academia that I did not even attend my bachelor graduation ceremony. Why would I attend an event where everyone willjust lifemog me to oblivion and make me want to kms? I will not attend my master's graduation either.

All the motivation I had in high school to pursue an academic career has been long gone. I just want the fucking paper to finally get it over with and start wagecuckign while doing crypto on the side to make some extra money. If I was still bluepilled I probably would have considered doing a PhD. Now it is just a joke to me. How can one possibly want to spend the next 4-5 years of their life pursuing a PhD after seeing this:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uW0_C8FqVGg&ab_channel=TatsuhiroSatou


Imagine seeing this as a 24, almost 25, year old virgin and thinking to yourself enthusiastically "oh yeah a PhD is definitely good idea!" Meanwhile, a criminal scum like Jeremy Meeks can become a billionaire after leaving jail just because of his facial bones. Just fucking lol. A PhD is about contributing to soyciety by pushing the frontiers of knowledge. I don't see the point in doing this anymore for a soyciety that I believe is doomed to collapse.

At least my mother is not as bluepilled regarding this. "It is a bad idea he will never find a girlfriend and have kids yadee yadee". For once she's right... for once....

/rant

@Total Imbecile Thoughts? I remember u said something about considering doing a PhD

This is what I spend many a day contemplating, to what end do contribute, in which field has the tentacle of human depravity, power mongering and greed not touched.
I spend most of my time trying to figure out a way I can get a career and "contribute" without joining this pathetic dance of one upmanship, greed, and self serving, the problem is i have found none, its join the dance to valhalla or rot, its impossible, its so fucking depressing.

When i find a new area nope thats sewn up, greed prevails shortsightedness prevails squashing any innovation, foresight and progress or its been SJW'd to hell and back.

I did a degree in history and politics, i gave up interest half way as revealed the pure power politics of the world at play, i passed but a master just fucking lol, to do what journalism, politics, lol bent beyond belief your boxed into this hell of an existence, serving the lowest grade whims of a pathetically immoral and petty master.

currently trying to make it doing remote gigs programming, this is the only angle i can see, an arms length mercenary engagement with the hell of capitalism, no office politics just wagey in your own cagey while while watching nick cagey.
 
"You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!"
Dr. Babica Yaga nice to meet you
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"You got a gift son, when I see how easy you go through all of this... If you manage to do that then you've truly accomplished everything, imagine being able to call yourself doctor! Nobody will ever be able to belittle you!"
damn its almost like he was an underachiever and now needs you to compensate for it (forgive me if im wrong) :feelsYall:
 

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