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SuicideFuel Oneitis=The ultimate sickness of Incels

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Lets face it, because of what we are we can never have the girls of our dreams yet we must live in this reality we share with them.
Either because we are super ugly or have severe mental problems the road is blocked for us....forever.
This causes major mental issues,feeling of despair, maybe something of pseudo-love for this person which later turns into an obsession which could only be settled by having her as your GF or atleast having physical contact with her on some level yet, again, this is out of the question.
I think this could be one of the biggest catalysts for anger or suicidefuel among Incels.

I have not had a oneitis in many years but it tormented me very much when I had one.
Often if not always I got these when I knew the girl I was obsessed with would be never seen again in a short time period(such as being on a trip) and this idea gives more fuel to my oneitis obsession because, unlike school or work, she is gone for good.
Sadly I must admit that I had this with some porn stars, especially the first ones that were around my age(like plus minus two years). Very cuckish but true.
 
im too far away emotionally detached from everything to have things like "oneitis"
 
If you are incel and still have oneitis, you're cucked.
 
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I stopped having oneitises back in school. I'm too distant plus damaged by porn. Also, my job desensitizes me to female beauty since I see it everyday. Its weird, even chicks that I would've been attracted to a decade ago barely do anything now.
 
Could never have oneitis for a porn star. However twitch thots :feelscry:
 
I had a really intense oneitis in my teens and in hindsight I'm glad I did because I was able to flush it out of my system. I wouldn't want one over a decade later, that would be a special kind of hell.
 
I have had six...

desperate, and a real fuel to burn your self-esteem
 
im too far away emotionally detached from everything to have things like "oneitis"
I think what OP is getting at, is this detachment makes us vulnerable to developing oneitis if we do actually find a girl who chooses to be around us.

Even if she is just friendzoning you, or even exploiting your friendship for money/time, the appreciation for the attention would make you fixated on helping her instead of looking for other life opportunities, be that relationships with other women who might be fairer to you, or just hobbies.
 
JFL at having oneitis
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While you're dreaming of holding hands with her and holding the baby you had together in your arms, sitting on a park bench overlooking a suburban sunset, she's dreaming of being held down and fucked in all her holes by tall, muscular chads and tyrones.

Oneitis is a blue pill program being executed, not so much a disease.
 
Imagine having a oneitis in 2020 with all that info available
It's called be a human being and I did say that it was years back.

Lol at believing you can control primal urges and feelings....
 
It's called be a human being and I did say that it was years back.

Lol at believing you can control primal urges and feelings....

Make up your mind. Is it some sickness, or is it part of being human?

I still think it's blue pilled programming, but if anybody has arguments, info, or data suggesting otherwise, I'm all ears.
 
Make up your mind. Is it some sickness, or is it part of being human?

I still think it's blue pilled programming, but if anybody has arguments, info, or data suggesting otherwise, I'm all ears.
Sickness=part of the human condition.
 
It's called be a human being and I did say that it was years back.

Lol at believing you can control primal urges and feelings....
No it's called being a cuck submitted to his emotion with self-love issues
 
No it's called being a cuck submitted to his emotion with self-love issues
Wow, you must be this posthuman creature of the singularity that the Silicon-Technocrats keep talking about.
Well, either that or hyper-autism.
 
I have no self respect for myself so I prefer to stay miserable suffering in the long term in my monolove fantasies instead of dropping the weight, suffering in the short term and at least having my honor intact in the long term. I suscribe as a blackpilled incel yet I'm acting as a bluepilled female worshippers. I will talk about grey or join date soon because I have no arguments left
 
true. i have an oneitis now and it makes me feel so bad
 
My oneitis goes in the bus route I go as well but in different times. I last saw her yesterday. She's a petite blue eyed blonde sticc. Only guy getting that nowadays is Gigachad and it makes me sad.
 
@Infinite LDAR

Wow, such a long response to my short garbage one. Two thumbs up bruh

true. i have an oneitis now and it makes me feel so bad
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My oneitis goes in the bus route I go as well but in different times. I last saw her yesterday. She's a petite blue eyed blonde sticc. Only guy getting that nowadays is Gigachad and it makes me sad.
I get your feelings and that is the only thing I have ever "felt" for a female, which basically is just pain, nothing more
 
Never had one, can't even imagine it. Fakecel if you have foid "friends"
 
I still think about a girl I saw back in 2011/2012 like 2-3 times a week during my school year. I saw her sporadically throughout 2012/2013. Never talked to her other than ask for a pen. Very cuckish as well, I know.

I just can't get her out of my mind. Wish I never saw her. It's been paralyzing. I don't think about her as often as I did before - but still do occasionally. Sometimes on a daily basis. Need to stop stalking her insta - wish she would just make it private tbh. I probably would've forgotten how she looks by now.
 
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Sadly I must admit that I had this with some porn stars
Unironically get help.

Nothing more cucked than having a oneitis.

Now if you're watching your oneitis getting plowed by other men?

You're approaching IT levels of cuck.
 
Out of curiosity, who's your porn star waifu, if I can call her that? Anyway, I agree. I developed kind of a nostalgic attachment for the porn stars I used to fap to when I was younger. All of them quit porn already years ago. There are, newer, younger and sometimes prettier women doing porn, but somehow they don't give me the same kind of feels.
 
Lets face it, because of what we are we can never have the girls of our dreams yet we must live in this reality we share with them.
Either because we are super ugly or have severe mental problems the road is blocked for us....forever.
This causes major mental issues,feeling of despair, maybe something of pseudo-love for this person which later turns into an obsession which could only be settled by having her as your GF or atleast having physical contact with her on some level yet, again, this is out of the question.
I think this could be one of the biggest catalysts for anger or suicidefuel among Incels.

I have not had a oneitis in many years but it tormented me very much when I had one.
Often if not always I got these when I knew the girl I was obsessed with would be never seen again in a short time period(such as being on a trip) and this idea gives more fuel to my oneitis obsession because, unlike school or work, she is gone for good.
Sadly I must admit that I had this with some porn stars, especially the first ones that were around my age(like plus minus two years). Very cuckish but true.
To have a oneitis is to believe that there are exceptions to the sea of whores in this world.
 
And today she came to school in a somewhat revealing attire, wish she almost never does, I wanted to feel her so bad. Fuck my life.
 
Having an onitis would be the ultimate joy for a Chad who could get her, but even normies are mostly not able to get their onitises, let alone incels.

Today on the bus I saw a girl who looked a lot like my second biggest onitis ever, I felt bad both for remembering all I suffered with my unrequited feelings and subsequent rejection and for remembering how fucking long ago it was. I'm old and it's over.

im too far away emotionally detached from everything to have things like "oneitis"
Off-topic, but why do you have a Portuguese username if you're form the Balkans? Or is "saudade" a word in another language as well?
 
I still think about a girl I saw back in 2011/2012 like 2-3 times a week during my school year. I saw her sporadically throughout 2012/2013. Never talked to her other than ask for a pen. Very cockish as well, I know.

I just can't get her out of my mind. Wish I never saw her. It's been paralyzing. I don't think about her as often as I did before - but still do occasionally. Sometimes on a daily basis. Need to stop stalking her insta - wish she would just make it private tbh. I probably would've forgotten how she looks by now.
Brutal. That's like 7-8 years now. So you're still stalking her?
 
Brutal. That's like 7-8 years now. So you're still stalking her?

Depends what you mean by 'stalk'. Do I go to her insta/fb everyday? No. About once a week? Mostly.

I think about her quite lot. I've fantasized a lot of shit over the years. She's had at least 2 bfs. Probably more. She is literally a 10/10. Stupid of me to infatuate about someone for so long.

I only 'forget' about her when I'm busy with work or whenever I've seen another hot new girl at work/class. But usually when I stop seeing this hot new girl my initial crush from 2011 comes back.
 
Having an onitis would be the ultimate joy for a Chad who could get her, but even normies are mostly not able to get their onitises, let alone incels.

Today on the bus I saw a girl who looked a lot like my second biggest onitis ever, I felt bad both for remembering all I suffered with my unrequited feelings and subsequent rejection and for remembering how fucking long ago it was. I'm old and it's over.


Off-topic, but why do you have a Portuguese username if you're form the Balkans? Or is "saudade" a word in another language as well?
because word has a beautiful meaning
 
This "oneitis" crushing on a girl is really only a symptom of youngcels. As you age that type of shit dies out in you
 
because word has a beautiful meaning
Tbh. Thank you for appreciating my great language, I also love the Balkans ngl. Everyone I ever met from there was cool.
 
my oneitis is a russian hoe
 
This "oneitis" crushing on a girl is really only a symptom of youngcels. As you age that type of shit dies out in you

I had my second onitis at 16 year old. I'm 25 this month and still think about her. I know I'm a cuck for it.
 
I think that 'oneitis' behaviour stems from OCD/anxiety. You end up obsessing over one woman in particular because you might not have many (or any other) options and you feel that you've messed up your chance with them already - so you try to fruitlessly improve things, being as cautious as possible, in a vain attempt to change the inevitable course of events. Obviously it was over for me when the nucleus of a particular sperm cell merged with that of an ovum to form a zygote that (unfortunately) was able to undergo complete mitosis.
 
I had my second onitis at 16 year old. I'm 25 this month and still think about her. I know I'm a cuck
Ofcourse one doesnt forget the past. I had a couple that destroyed me. One had never even spoken to me ever and I didnt forget them for years. It was a sad and severe existence that those feelings are long gone
 
I haven't had a oneitis since I was 15.
 
Unironically get help.

Nothing more cucked than having a oneitis.

Now if you're watching your oneitis getting plowed by other men?

You're approaching IT levels of cuck.
Learn to read, I did write "not for many years" and "had"
I still think about a girl I saw back in 2011/2012 like 2-3 times a week during my school year. I saw her sporadically throughout 2012/2013. Never talked to her other than ask for a pen. Very cuckish as well, I know.

I just can't get her out of my mind. Wish I never saw her. It's been paralyzing. I don't think about her as often as I did before - but still do occasionally. Sometimes on a daily basis. Need to stop stalking her insta - wish she would just make it private tbh. I probably would've forgotten how she looks by now.
Dude, if you think that is bad, I still think of my first oneitis once in a while I had when I was 13 in 2004!!!

Out of curiosity, who's your porn star waifu, if I can call her that? Anyway, I agree. I developed kind of a nostalgic attachment for the porn stars I used to fap to when I was younger. All of them quit porn already years ago. There are, newer, younger and sometimes prettier women doing porn, but somehow they don't give me the same kind of feels.
Gracie Glam was the name, the other one was Aidra Fox.
 
yeah having oneitis is bad m'kay.

:(
 
it is inevitable to feel some oneitis for kurwas if you go outside

the moment you feel anything at all with regards to modern kurwas, you are cucked, everyone is cucked
 
Out of curiosity, who's your porn star waifu, if I can call her that? Anyway, I agree. I developed kind of a nostalgic attachment for the porn stars I used to fap to when I was younger. All of them quit porn already years ago. There are, newer, younger and sometimes prettier women doing porn, but somehow they don't give me the same kind of feels.

SAME. I still get off to Maya Hills and Maria Ozawa both retired pornstars.
 

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