the college degree thing is the issue, somewhat, while we may have it easier to an extent, women are impressed by money, first and foremost. woman has two original sins as opposed to our single original sin and worship the false god of money. likely more women are in hell than men, but they only learn post-facto. when you're a white dude without one, shit goes out the window. this usually doesn't apply to blacks who gain money on the black market, as they have their connections. when you're someone like me and only have your strength and wits to defend you, you're not bulletproof. having mental issues means YOU CANNOT CARRY (unsure if this is true anymore due to the supreme court ruling). so there's little way around it. if you don't have a flashy doctorate to wave around in their room-temp IQ self you're nothing. even if you learned yourself, because a lot of jobs require, even low rent ones, to at least have an associates. poor vs. rich bs.