Venting Responsibilities and burdens if you manage to ascend

[Babica Yaga]

Have you ever thought of the responsibilities and burdens that would fall on your shoulders if you hypothetically managed to ascend and get a gf? This now looks extremely excruciating to me when I think about it. Meeting her family & friends, going on dates, buying her presents, the emotional investment, and the list goes on and on. All her shitty problems would become your problems. All the while you have to portray this image to her and her family & friends that you're confident, hard-working, passionate, and are not a loser.

I don't know... maybe I could have handled it during my teen years because I used to be more lowinhib and more energetic, but honestly now lethargic af I think I really just couldn't be bothered anymore you know? Maybe I'm just depressed...

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

Supercope.

 

[Deleted member 8353]

Yeah, there is no way that I'd be capable of doing this shit jfl. Similar to what you said, maybe I could've managed it 10 years ago, but my energy levels are too low now and I'm way too fucked up.

 

[WØLF]

Supercope.

He's not wrong, you would literally have to become a bluepilled orbiter

 

[Deleted member 23682]

for the thousandth time

"betabuxxing is not ascension"

 

[DepravedAndDeprived]

He's not wrong, you would literally have to become a bluepilled orbiter

He's trying to go through mental acrobatics to convince himself he's better off without a gf. I.e. cope.

 

[WØLF]

for the thousandth time

"betabuxxing is not ascension"

Dude buying her gifts and emotionally investing in her isn't just betabuxx shit. It's THE standard for dating.

 

[Deleted member 23682]

Dude buying her gifts and emotionally investing in her isn't just betabuxx shit. It's THE standard for dating.

that's simping

 

[WØLF]

He's trying to go through mental acrobatics to convince himself he's better off without a gf. I.e. cope.

He never said he was better off without one

that's simping

This is what non chads have to resort to

 

[Babica Yaga]

He's trying to go through mental acrobatics to convince himself he's better off without a gf. I.e. cope.

I'm just saying it's too late for me now to go through all this hassle (24yo). Knowing know that no female has ever been and will ever truly be attracted to me is why I believe for me it would not be worth to invest such tremendous amount of time and effort anymore. Would you go through all this trouble if you were at my age KHHV - just to betabuxx and scrape in a cumragged foid that rode the cock carousel during college, while you had to suffer alone during this entire time period?

 

[Deleted member 8353]

He's trying to go through mental acrobatics to convince himself he's better off without a gf. I.e. cope.

I'm not better off without a gf, its just about being self aware. Being incapable of something and not believing that it's worth it are two very different things.

 

[Deleted member 20207]

Supercope.

for the thousandth time

"betabuxxing is not ascension"

 

[Joelossus]

Those things always bothered me about relationships tbh. Especially the meeting family part.