ItheIthe
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The setup that allows sex outside of marriage IS very much degenerate. Why? Because it allows for people to take advantage of one another, it leads to broken homes, and desensitizes one to the point of not fully appreciating relationships.
In other words:
Someone who has sex in an "LTR" isn't necessarily a vile offender IF that person is genuinely in love and genuinely seeks a life-long monogamous relationship out of the arrangement. HOWEVER, breaking up (Except due to infidelity) from this IS degenerate, because you are breaking your partner's heart and destroying a sacred bond over something that is reconcilable. This is a form of unfaithfulness and is equivalent to divorce. "Breaking up" after a couple of dates is one thing (Sex should be reserved for only a long-commitment because sex shortly after meeting enables you to be taken advantage of). "Breaking up" after a genuine commitment has been made is another thing, and that is being unfaithful. Don't think you can stand someone? Stop after a few dates instead of using them. Do you really love the person? Work out your kinks.
On the other side of the fence are those who abuse relationships and sex. Those who are non-committal, yet use a facade of true commitment for sex. Those who hookup and engage in all other sort of shameful acts. Those who tell themselves they will be committed UNTIL something "better" (A delusion because leaving a relationship will hurt emotionally) comes along or until they get "bored". This is full-fledged degeneracy and there is nothing more to it.
In other words:
Someone who has sex in an "LTR" isn't necessarily a vile offender IF that person is genuinely in love and genuinely seeks a life-long monogamous relationship out of the arrangement. HOWEVER, breaking up (Except due to infidelity) from this IS degenerate, because you are breaking your partner's heart and destroying a sacred bond over something that is reconcilable. This is a form of unfaithfulness and is equivalent to divorce. "Breaking up" after a couple of dates is one thing (Sex should be reserved for only a long-commitment because sex shortly after meeting enables you to be taken advantage of). "Breaking up" after a genuine commitment has been made is another thing, and that is being unfaithful. Don't think you can stand someone? Stop after a few dates instead of using them. Do you really love the person? Work out your kinks.
On the other side of the fence are those who abuse relationships and sex. Those who are non-committal, yet use a facade of true commitment for sex. Those who hookup and engage in all other sort of shameful acts. Those who tell themselves they will be committed UNTIL something "better" (A delusion because leaving a relationship will hurt emotionally) comes along or until they get "bored". This is full-fledged degeneracy and there is nothing more to it.