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Cope Sex therapist Daniel Sher suggest incels should coom more to cope.

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Sher says sexual frustration is easy to treat by ‘having massage or masturbating more frequently’. He adds, ‘It’s also important to remember that the psychological underpinning of sexual frustration is a sense of disconnection. Therefore, it’s a good idea to find alternate ways of connecting socially. Reach out to friends and family members. Volunteer with people or do some charity work. Alternatively, speak to a therapist in order to experience some of that much needed connection, while also exploring other proactive ways of coping.’
 
i guess 5 times a day isn't enough huh
 
(((Just watch porn and masturbate bro)))
 
His daughter or wife could suck my dick too.
 
Yeah, my desire doesn't even go away directly after fapping.

At least he doesn't suggest NoFap.
 
I already do that
 
Just masturbate and pay your taxes like a good guy.
 
Entire article is pretty much a blackpill of nuclear proportions:

"‘Animal studies have suggested that sexual frustration leads to a spike in cortisol levels. It is likely that the same is true for humans. Cortisol is a stress hormone and chronic activation of this chemical can lead to a series of psychiatric health problems. These include depression, anxiety, weight gain, elevated blood-sugar, insomnia and heart problems.’
He adds that for people who already experience low self-esteem, ‘sexual frustration can lead to severe feelings of shame and isolation. People in this situation frequently express a sense of being different, alone and unloveable.’"

"A Between Us Clinic survey found women rated low libido as the most distressing sexual disorder in their male partner. Sher says this ‘likely speaks to the level of distress that can arise in a “sexless” relationship.’ He adds, ‘In fact, 29 per cent of the sample said that having a partner with low libido could lead them to end the relationship, which again demonstrates the psychological importance of having a healthy sexual relationship.’ "

Nice one, not only does celibacy induce depression and other bad health circumstances but being celibate for too long makes that state pretty much perpetual as you arent regarded as even betabuxx pity sex material anymore.

Thought that the article at least had the grace of pointing these issues out and had a bit of hope that there might yet come a time when we get some support for bettering our lives, then stumbled over these cutsies here:

" ‘Females and PEOPLE WITH A VULVA (...)"
"Some asexual people do STILL masturbate and HAVE SEX."
"Celibacy is when someone CHOOSES not to have sex, for an extended period of time or forever."

Jfl at thinking that these maniacs ever recognize the plight we´re in.
 
Cooming is literally suicide fuel though
 
Just destroy your dick bro.
 
I already coom at least twice a day
 
It doesn't help jack SHIT when you don't have anyone loving you. Sexual frustration isn't just about sex. A fucking "sex therapist" (JFL) should know that.
 
Just be a coom brain and worship foid.
 
I dont even have to look it up he is jewish right?
 
Entire article is pretty much a blackpill of nuclear proportions:

"‘Animal studies have suggested that sexual frustration leads to a spike in cortisol levels. It is likely that the same is true for humans. Cortisol is a stress hormone and chronic activation of this chemical can lead to a series of psychiatric health problems. These include depression, anxiety, weight gain, elevated blood-sugar, insomnia and heart problems.’
He adds that for people who already experience low self-esteem, ‘sexual frustration can lead to severe feelings of shame and isolation. People in this situation frequently express a sense of being different, alone and unloveable.’"

"A Between Us Clinic survey found women rated low libido as the most distressing sexual disorder in their male partner. Sher says this ‘likely speaks to the level of distress that can arise in a “sexless” relationship.’ He adds, ‘In fact, 29 per cent of the sample said that having a partner with low libido could lead them to end the relationship, which again demonstrates the psychological importance of having a healthy sexual relationship.’ "

Nice one, not only does celibacy induce depression and other bad health circumstances but being celibate for too long makes that state pretty much perpetual as you arent regarded as even betabuxx pity sex material anymore.

Thought that the article at least had the grace of pointing these issues out and had a bit of hope that there might yet come a time when we get some support for bettering our lives, then stumbled over these cutsies here:

" ‘Females and PEOPLE WITH A VULVA (...)"
"Some asexual people do STILL masturbate and HAVE SEX."
"Celibacy is when someone CHOOSES not to have sex, for an extended period of time or forever."

Jfl at thinking that these maniacs ever recognize the plight we´re in.
Thank you for pointing this out. Very radio-active stuff indeed.
 

her says the phenomenon of sexual frustration is an important one to consider from a psychological perspective, however he points out that research into this topic is sparse.

‘Animal studies have suggested that sexual frustration leads to a spike in cortisol levels. It is likely that the same is true for humans. Cortisol is a stress hormone and chronic activation of this chemical can lead to a series of psychiatric health problems. These include depression, anxiety, weight gain, elevated blood-sugar, insomnia and heart problems.’

He adds that for people who already experience low self-esteem, ‘sexual frustration can lead to severe feelings of shame and isolation. People in this situation frequently express a sense of being different, alone and unloveable.’


so why cant IT and the whole world swallow blackpill and accept sexlessness equals death and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, eg enforce a culture of acceptance and equal smv partnerships eg male== female looks match
 
No thanks bro.

I’m pretty sure we’re going to have a violent revolution in the not so distant future to overthrow this sick Jew society and restore order in this world which includes putting women back in their place so every guy who wants a wife and family will be able to have one once again.

Which will be far better than this coping shit.

Both for us and for the stupid whores who in this society will only forever remain stupid whores to be used and abused relegated to the pump n’ dump pile by Chad and grow old and alone surrounded by cats instead of humbling themselves and having a normal healthy relationship with their looksmatch and growing older with said looksmatch and thereby becoming an exalted and well respected wife, mother and grandmother and overall greatly admired member of her community.
 
i guess 5 times a day isn't enough huh
Are you for real? Five times a day? I coom once every day and it's exhausting sometimes. Is that a sign that I should jerk off more frequently?
 
Professional con artists
 
Are you for real? Five times a day? I coom once every day and it's exhausting sometimes. Is that a sign that I should jerk off more frequently?
idk maybe i just have more testosterone than you. i get horny alot.
 
Its not a “dryspell” when you’re a virgin at 22
 
Fuck him, I'll stick to nofap
 
Consoom porn and coom more often goy.
 
Look up false sexual consciousness by Rookh Kshatriya.
This article?



Sexual prowess and income are the measure of a man in a liberal world (unlike in the past when things like religious or civic virtue mattered more) so it's no surprise many are faking financial abundance and sexual abundance and even fool themselves to cope. Does that delusion or need to impress carry over when filling in anonymous surveys about sexual activity?

Big problem of data on sexual activity is that it is self reported and collected via surveys, would be nice if actual anthropologists would investigate human sexual activity the way biologists tally sexual activity in primate populations they observe. By matching people and confirming every sexual encounter with all partners involved. Would be very interesting and controversial indeed.

In an on oversexed society, sexlessness will remain a social and academic taboo, because it uncovers unpleasant and politically inconvenient truths about fundamental sexual inequalities. I think nobody really wants to grapple with it, or stir the pot, besides the complete and utter losers who have nothing to lose to begin with: i.e. us.
 
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This article?

I meant the term itself which I have heard on Rookh Kshatriya's blog, anglobitch http://kshatriya-anglobitch.blogspot.com/

Sexual prowess and income are the measure of a man in a liberal world (unlike in the past when things like religious or civic virtue mattered more) so it's no surprise many are faking financial abundance and sexual abundance and even fool themselves to cope.

All of data on sexual activity is self reported and collected via surveys, would be nice if actual anthropologists would investigate human sexual activity the way biologists tally sexual activity in primate populations. By matching people and confirming every sexual encounter with all partners involved. Would be very interesting and controversial indeed.
In an era of surveillance and data mining and behavioral sentiment analysis of posts made online some one has probably thought of doing this or carried this out in some way tbh
But the results would be spun to not make it obvious that a lot of males are deluded themselves and most males aren't getting laid to avoid easy usage of the results to justify changes to society and the current order.
 
In an era of surveillance and data mining and behavioral sentiment analysis of posts made online some one has probably thought of doing this or carried this out in some way tbh
But the results would be spun to not make it obvious that a lot of males are deluded themselves and most males aren't getting laid to avoid easy usage of the results to justify changes to society and the current order.

Oh, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Google and Apple know who is fucking and who is not. They have access to all likes, matches and meta data about outcomes of text flirtations within their apps. They can tell when someone has a gf/bf by app use - they are sitting on a treasure trove of blackpills. And currently they use the data to make their apps more addicting, indispensable and ultimately more profitable.

The data are all trade secrets, the engineers and data scientists are bound by NDAs. We need whistleblower data scientists within these big dating apps to leak internal studies and datasets if we truly want to get ahead. #TinderLeaks. The sexologists within academia have got nothing. To all academicucks reading this: if you truly want to study human behaviour in a quant way you should join a tech company instead of doing a social sciences PhD. You are going nowhere.
 
Oh, Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Google and Apple know who is fucking and who is not. They have access to all likes, matches and meta data about outcomes of text flirtations within their apps. They can tell when someone has a gf/bf by app use - they are sitting on a treasure trove of blackpills. And currently they use the data to make their apps more addicting, indispensable and ultimately more profitable.
Social media too. A lot of the stories about inequality, unfairness and some people having it easier are deliberately sent to the frontpage of sites like reddit and youtube so more people spend more time on the site.
The algorithm is designed to find content that might provoke this reaction.

The data are all trade secrets, the engineers and data scientists are bound by NDAs. We need whistleblower data scientists within these big dating apps to leak internal studies and datasets if we truly want to get ahead. #TinderLeaks. The sexologists within academia have got nothing. To all academicucks reading this: if you truly want to study human behaviour in a quant way you should join a tech company instead of doing a social sciences PhD. You are going nowhere.
We need an Edward Snowden but for Tinder.
 
i have been doing that since 11
 

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