First: This isn't a real serious survey, but made for famous soft porn "Schulmädchenreport." Many of the questions are shameless to ask, so I am glad, that we live partly in more sexual conservative times tbh. Nonetheless a legit time document and source of observational assumptions.
Although these women are far from being any kind of role models or fit for idealization - each one advocated that a woman should have sex before marriage - the opinion on whether it is right for a man to be punished who had sex with a 15 year old girl is distinctly different than I would expect today.
While today it would be a case for bad gossip, shitstorm, social outcasting or even jail, the women there said(transcript):
"It depends on what is with the girl. If the girl doesn't mind, then I think that's a nonsense. [the punishment, note]"
"Yes, so if the girl was willing to do it with him it is not right [the punishment; note]. It always takes two."
"I do not know.I think you have to blame the girl a little bit, because a lot depends on the girl."
"It depends on whether the girl was okay with it."
"If the girl wants to go to bed with him, then the girl wants to go to bed with him. The man is not to blame - unless she doesn't want to."
"Of course, it depends on why he slept with the girl, because if he did it just to feel the pleasure, but it could be that the girl behaved in such a way that the man got so far that the girl went to bed with him or did not tell her true age."
"No, because the girl is not completely innocent. If she gets involved, the man is not alone to blame."
Additionally, only two said yes (for one 15 was too young).
I don't know why 15 years was the reporter's example. AoC has always been 14 years in Germany for a long time.
BTW, interesting female nature in action in the scene before. The woman gets asked if she can imagine sleeping with a man even for money and she answers with:
"No, I cannot imagine, but in general you should assume, that every woman could do this."
Although these women are far from being any kind of role models or fit for idealization - each one advocated that a woman should have sex before marriage - the opinion on whether it is right for a man to be punished who had sex with a 15 year old girl is distinctly different than I would expect today.
While today it would be a case for bad gossip, shitstorm, social outcasting or even jail, the women there said(transcript):
"It depends on what is with the girl. If the girl doesn't mind, then I think that's a nonsense. [the punishment, note]"
"Yes, so if the girl was willing to do it with him it is not right [the punishment; note]. It always takes two."
"I do not know.I think you have to blame the girl a little bit, because a lot depends on the girl."
"It depends on whether the girl was okay with it."
"If the girl wants to go to bed with him, then the girl wants to go to bed with him. The man is not to blame - unless she doesn't want to."
"Of course, it depends on why he slept with the girl, because if he did it just to feel the pleasure, but it could be that the girl behaved in such a way that the man got so far that the girl went to bed with him or did not tell her true age."
"No, because the girl is not completely innocent. If she gets involved, the man is not alone to blame."
Additionally, only two said yes (for one 15 was too young).
I don't know why 15 years was the reporter's example. AoC has always been 14 years in Germany for a long time.
BTW, interesting female nature in action in the scene before. The woman gets asked if she can imagine sleeping with a man even for money and she answers with:
"No, I cannot imagine, but in general you should assume, that every woman could do this."
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