
Uglymuggly
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Yea definitely. Parts of the rural south and even Midwest it’s still around but it’s dyingReligion is declining in Europe (and even North America)
Yea definitely. Parts of the rural south and even Midwest it’s still around but it’s dyingReligion is declining in Europe (and even North America)
it's crazy because it was super different even just 10 years agoYea definitely. Parts of the rural south and even Midwest it’s still around but it’s dying
Yea even in the past 10 years things have rlly gone to shit. @Personalityinkwellit's crazy because it was super different even just 10 years ago
i remember in the early 2010s, people used to say lady gaga, kesha, katy perry, rihanna, etc were whores because they sang about sex and were naked in their music vids. back then, nobody got mad if you said that. now you'd be accused of slut shaming for saying that.Yea even in the past 10 years things have rlly gone to shit. @Personalityinkwell
Interactions with peers effects an individual way more than interactions with parents.
Jfl i Remember that. That was so stupid of you@mental_out I take back what I initially said long ago
I was a newcel thenJfl i Remember that. That was so stupid of you
sameMy personal experience is the opposite.
The (mental) scars from my mother are much more severe and have been a bigger hinderance for me in my life, especially my teens. I may however have a large amygdala due to bullying and act neurotically because of it.
what type of child abuse?Well jokes on them, cause I've been through both
you have autism? so do iI was bullied pretty bad, but it was inevitable really. In the early to mid 2000s it was physical, beatings etc, later on they just neglect you. Teachers move you out of groups on the request of someone else. The entire game is rigged top to bottom and insured. Come hell or high water, they will exclude an autistic from social life, they will encourage them to kill themselves.
what type of child abuse?
whats your mom doing now?Physical beatings from my mum as a small kid, lasted probably 2-3 years
Honestly there's no objective way to compare the 'damage' between child abuse and bullying, there's too many variables involved, like the intensity and duration of the abuse/bullying etc
water is wet. plus you always want mods to pin all posts of yours ngl.
Child abuse typically makes you develop fear and distrust of authority figures, whereas bullying makes you fear and distrust your fellow peers. When you age and become an adult, you have less and less authority figures over time and everyone becomes a peer. So someone who was bullied will fear and distrust almost everyone while a child abuse victim will fear a small subset of people.
whats your mom doing now?
Child abuse typically makes you develop fear and distrust of authority figures, whereas bullying makes you fear and distrust your fellow peers. When you age and become an adult, you have less and less authority figures over time and everyone becomes a peer. So someone who was bullied will fear and distrust almost everyone while a child abuse victim will fear a small subset of people.
Depends how severe the bullying was and how early it started, and how long it lasted. Early childhood (<4 years old) is particularly important. For some the trauma or stunting of psychological development is so severe that the damage is irreparable.not much, it was quite some time back, we're on good terms now
And how do you re-build trust in your fellow peers, exposure therapy?
We should allow all young males to carry handguns and knives in schools from the age of 6 and up and encourage retaliation against bullies.
Brutal shit manSame.
violence/ridicule at school
Same at home
My fathers involvement in my life can be summed up with “do what I say or else violence. No explanation provided, ever”. Dad is a bulliedmanlet, probabaly also autistic.. Nobody respects or fears him. So he beat us to feel powerful. Then I got bigger than him and instead of beating me he threatened me with cops (guns). He’s already got what’s coming to him tbh. My dad will never see grandchildren in his life and will end up dying completely alone, while his “friends” (the guys he sucks up to for approval) have large thriving families. I wonder who will arrange his funeral when he dies.
violence in school can be prevented by being large and threatening violence. Not much u can do at home.. just the luck of the draw.
TeslaChild abuse typically makes you develop fear and distrust of authority figures, whereas bullying makes you fear and distrust your fellow peers. When you age and become an adult, you have less and less authority figures over time and everyone becomes a peer. So someone who was bullied will fear and distrust almost everyone while a child abuse victim will fear a small subset of people.
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Bullying May Leave Worse Mental Scars Than Child Abuse
Kids who are bullied may face even graver mental health consequences in adulthood than those who are neglected or abused, new research finds.www.livescience.com
I’m gonna get ridiculed if I ask mods to pin this but I want them to pin this
Story?Yeah bullying fucked me up pretty bad. Particularly the isolation during my middle and high school years.
Is getting revenge from bullies illegal ? Like are you gonna get persecuted for it ?
yes, i didn't have bad childhood with parents ( latter in life it worsed ), i have feelings that i suffer schizophrenia since i was heavill bullied for at least 3 years ( i'm also sperg )Interactions with peers effects an individual way more than interactions with parents.