Giving up your "toxicity" Is just letting these shebeasts know that they've won. Most men who say they're done being incel do it because they think it'll please these harpies, when in reality they never cared about them and they still don't care about them. They get satisfaction from men cow towing to them and giving up on their beliefs, especially when it exposes and does not benefit them.
You know why men usually end up dealing with their problems alone? Its simple
Women don't care about men's problems or issues if its not benefitting them, and men don't care about other men's issues if its not getting them women. So all a man really has in this world is himself, because honestly no one cares. Men are not even loyal to their own gender.
Isn't it funny that most media created by men depicts a fantasy world far than this one? Most anime centers around close bonds and friendship, as well as women who are femininem,innocent, and pure. All things women are not and have never been. Most copes are created by men. Men have a far better imagination of what life should be then a female could ever think up.
A males idea of a great world is love, friendship, and pursuing a hobby or interest. A womans idea of a great world is getting away with lying, cheating, being beaten, abused, and fucked in every orifice.