The difference of being rejected online and in real life. What do you think?

[Jerek]

So, after my last attempt of getting a girl to fuck online, i want to share with you with this little thought i'm having right now.

Being rejected online is far worse than in real life.

I mean yes, most of you are probably thinking that it's the opposite since in real life you get exposed more, you're putting you in a position to be mocked/bullied etc etc. And, in certain circumstances (es: you try to pick up a girl in some high-t place like club and she is hanging with her friends), you'd be totally right.

But there's one difference that, for me, is especially painful: in real life you never get rejected after knowing the girl wants sex and is ready to do a lot of dirty stuff.

When you see a girl in real life, if you dare to approach her she will, normally, tell you that she has a boyfriend or that she is not interested or mild shit like that. Of course, if you were chad in that moment, she'd be ready to get fucked in the ass, but you will never know: you can delude yourself into thinking it was not your looks but her moods.

But when you're online and there's this girl that is clearly dtf and maybe she sends you some nudes because she's horny and you're good with words, but in the moment you show your personality (=you show your face) she immediately gets cold and distant, and ghosts you or tells you that you're not her type etc etc.

What's your opinion on the matter?

 

[Ellviss]

irl hurts more

 

[To koniec]

irl hurts more

 

[SardonicArchmage]

irl hurts more

This.
Online you can just say "oh well" and forget about it.
IRL, especially if you ask someone you remotely know, is quite the fuck up as you may run up into her she will either feel superior and act like a bitch or she will think you are a creep and not only ignore you but spread bad rumors about you.

 

[Jerek]

This.
Online you can just say "oh well" and forget about it.
IRL, especially if you ask someone you remotely know, is quite the fuck up as you may run up into her she will either feel superior and act like a bitch or she will think you are a creep and not only ignore you but spread bad rumors about you.

Yes, i didn't consider the fact you try to ask someone in your social circle (i never had one or it was so many years ago i literally forgot how it is).

But if you ask a stranger girl and she answers with some mild excuse at least you can delude yourself that "it's not your fault".

I mean i had this girl that literally wanted my cum in her hair, and when i showed my face she ghosted me. And it's not the first time something like this happens.

 

[SardonicArchmage]

Yes, i didn't consider the fact you try to ask someone in your social circle (i never had one or it was so many years ago i literally forgot how it is).

But if you ask a stranger girl and she answers with some mild excuse at least you can delude yourself that "it's not your fault".

I mean i had this girl that literally wanted my cum in her hair, and when i showed my face she ghosted me. And it's not the first time something like this happens.

Well either way it's not your fault if she is disgusted by your shit genetics.
Still, the fact of running into someone you tried to ask out is beyond uncomfortable.
Had this girl at work I tried to ask out a long time ago and she just straight up ghosted me and acted as if I was not there ehen we had shifts together for about a month or so.

 

[Pain And Hatred]

I say IRL, on the internet a woman has complete liberty to shit on you without fear of consequence, while in real life she has to be careful because you could hulk out. However, being rejected face to face is worse because you see her reactions you can see her micro-expressions that signify that she is repulsed by someone as subhuman as you dares to approach her.

I mean i had this girl that literally wanted my cum in her hair, and when i showed my face she ghosted me. And it's not the first time something like this happens.

How do you cope?

 

[Jerek]

I say IRL, on the internet a woman has complete liberty to shit on you without fear of consequence, while in real life she has to be careful because you could hulk out. However, being rejected face to face is worse bad because you see her reactions you can see her micro-expressions that signify that she is repulsed by someone as subhuman you dares to approach her.

How do you cope?

I try to stay away from this shit, but sometimes i get horny and i try... the result is always the same so i escortcel.

 

[SlayerSlayer]

I agree for different reasons. I think the aggregate nature of constant online ghosting, non-matches, blatant racism & height shaming has a far greater toll on my psyche than IRL rejections.

IRL rejections are more memorable, but online rejections just turn your soul into a husk

 

[_realist_]

Real life because you know they’re seeing you in the flesh, and saying “I don’t like what I see.”
Online because you don’t even get a chance.

 

[Deleted member 236]

I mean i had this girl that literally wanted my cum in her hair, and when i showed my face she ghosted me. And it's not the first time something like this happens.

Where are you meeting/talking to these girls? Anonymously or chadfishing?

 

[Subhuman Orangutan]

irl hurts more

 

[Loner94]

Interesting but I think for me irl hurts way more.

 

[Jerek]

Where are you meeting/talking to these girls? Anonymously or chadfishing?

the former, that's why it pains me. They seem available and then, when i show my face, they get cold.

 

[Deleted member 236]

the former, that's why it pains me. They seem available and then, when i show my face, they get cold.

What platform(s)? Are they anonymous too?

 

[BPJ]

both hurts. in diffrent ways..

 

[Jerek]

What platform(s)? Are they anonymous too?

just some random online chatrooms, nothing more

 

[Deleted member 28148]

I never tried in real life, I did it online because high inhib. Horrifies me to try in real life.

 

[Deleted member 27161]

Being rejected online is worse in my experience, because they'll usually be rude. I've been called an ugly ass bitch online when getting rejected. No foids have the audacity nor stupidity to say that in public, they know what would happen if they say that to the wrong person.

and if one ever said anything even close to that to me in person, I'd kill her on the spot without question and gladly go to prison for it. Out of the many foids I've asked out in person, not 1 has disrespected me.