This is going to be a hard punch so you better sit down. You see, pretty much all women despise us but the ones who are more disgusted by us are the more fertile ones. Women unconsciously protect their eggs against subhumans and will only want to be impregnated by strong beautiful males. That's their biological instinct. Now by the time you're alive now, you're mom probably is getting into menopause, so subhumans are no longer a biological threat for their eggs simply cause she no longer produces them. So she relaxes a bit around you. If on the contrary, you notice your mom is hostile with you and doesn't want you to hug her and if she can't stand being around you, well it's cause she is still fertile. So, our moms and grannies probably don't really love us. They just got used to us.
