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Outcast444

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Hi, glad I've finally found a place like this - I'm an incel in my 40's (so hope not too old for here!) and am of
the view that you're basically an incel for life. The main thing that
changes is the sex drive goes down, and the need for a girlfriend decreases - however the social isolation and
negative suspicion of being the 'weird' single male increases, and one tends to be viewed more and more as a stray
dog - ie. ok to be friendly to for a few days/weeks, then people just want you to clear the fuck off, back to
whatever hole you dwell in.

Seems to me, that this type of shit really kicks in around age 25, when you've serioulsy become labelled the
stray, that no woman wants to hang out with - even if they think you're ok, as that is some kind of social suicide
for them. Then come the snide comments that maybe your'e gay or bi - and why not just go out and look for some
dick - like what the fuck is that about, yeah right, like a straight male is really gonna do that just because
they can't get a girl into bed! This is basically the righteous justification of the normal folk - kind of like
middle class liberal 'guilt'. No way, is one of those women gonna bed you, yet they still feel 'guilty' in a
kind of way as you seem ok personality wise - just maybe have sex with someone else, anyone else but them!

Physically wise, I'm a 'wristcell', have abnormally thin arms (and legs). In fact one of my nicknames at school
was 'Belsen', named after the WW2 concentration camp victims, due to their emaciated skeletal frames. Hell, even
some of the teachers used to call me that, unthinkable in today's PC culture! Still, that didn't bother me too
much at the time, yet I knew subconsiously that I'd never have success with women (perhaps other than drunken
fumbles or paid-for sex etc.)

Actually I'm 'normal' socially/mentally and always had a lot of male buddies in teenage years to early
twenties, and occasianally platonic women friends. However, the social ostracism begun around age 23 or so due to
lack of success with women. Always the sad loser at parties, going around looking for alchohol dregs alone whilst
virtually everyone else was making out somewhere - why me? What the F did I ever do wrong? That was my thought
process - and back in those days was just told to 'deal with it' or 'try harder' etc.. all the cliches. Anyway,
since hiting thirty I've lived mainly in South East Asia and just made up for lack of sex life by paying for
prostitutes 2 or 3 times a week. Guess that makes me an 'escortcell' these days - hell, I'm fine with that, but
can never make up for lack of real girlfriend and social inclusion that I missed in my 20's through not quite
making the bar of physicalattractiveness to women - and boy that is one fuck of a lot of deprivation to deal with throughout one's life.

Anyway hope to be able to converse with some of you here soon - greetings, Outcast 444!
 
Welcome friend
 
ok , cheers - good to see how it goes on this forum , whether I'll fit in or not

:D
 
444World my nigga
 
Hi, glad I've finally found a place like this - I'm an incel in my 40's (so hope not too old for here!) and am of
the view that you're basically an incel for life. The main thing that
changes is the sex drive goes down, and the need for a girlfriend decreases - however the social isolation and
negative suspicion of being the 'weird' single male increases, and one tends to be viewed more and more as a stray
dog - ie. ok to be friendly to for a few days/weeks, then people just want you to clear the fuck off, back to
whatever hole you dwell in.

Seems to me, that this type of shit really kicks in around age 25, when you've serioulsy become labelled the
stray, that no woman wants to hang out with - even if they think you're ok, as that is some kind of social suicide
for them. Then come the snide comments that maybe your'e gay or bi - and why not just go out and look for some
dick - like what the fuck is that about, yeah right, like a straight male is really gonna do that just because
they can't get a girl into bed! This is basically the righteous justification of the normal folk - kind of like
middle class liberal 'guilt'. No way, is one of those women gonna bed you, yet they still feel 'guilty' in a
kind of way as you seem ok personality wise - just maybe have sex with someone else, anyone else but them!

Physically wise, I'm a 'wristcell', have abnormally thin arms (and legs). In fact one of my nicknames at school
was 'Belsen', named after the WW2 concentration camp victims, due to their emaciated skeletal frames. Hell, even
some of the teachers used to call me that, unthinkable in today's PC culture! Still, that didn't bother me too
much at the time, yet I knew subconsiously that I'd never have success with women (perhaps other than drunken
fumbles or paid-for sex etc.)

Actually I'm 'normal' socially/mentally and always had a lot of male buddies in teenage years to early
twenties, and occasianally platonic women friends. However, the social ostracism begun around age 23 or so due to
lack of success with women. Always the sad loser at parties, going around looking for alchohol dregs alone whilst
virtually everyone else was making out somewhere - why me? What the F did I ever do wrong? That was my thought
process - and back in those days was just told to 'deal with it' or 'try harder' etc.. all the cliches. Anyway,
since hiting thirty I've lived mainly in South East Asia and just made up for lack of sex life by paying for
prostitutes 2 or 3 times a week. Guess that makes me an 'escortcell' these days - hell, I'm fine with that, but
can never make up for lack of real girlfriend and social inclusion that I missed in my 20's through not quite
making the bar of physicalattractiveness to women - and boy that is one fuck of a lot of deprivation to deal with throughout one's life.

Anyway hope to be able to converse with some of you here soon - greetings, Outcast 444!
do you work in sea?
 
This is beyond brutal
 
In fact one of my nicknames at school was 'Belsen', named after the WW2 concentration camp victims
Good God..Well my first question for you is: how did you survive up to this point? Alot of incels seem to rope at 30, so 40 and beyond is pure fantasy for me.
 
Welcome,friend!
at 40 you might be on the older side of this forum,but there is quite a few oldcels too.
 
Took you long enough.

welcome to the club
 
do you work in sea?
Yes
Good God..Well my first question for you is: how did you survive up to this point? Alot of incels seem to rope at 30, so 40 and beyond is pure fantasy for me.
I was an alcoholic for a long time, and regular drug abuser.

Thankfully, that is all done with and I now live a life of 100% sobriety - 10 years dry and clean of all substances.

Once getting reasonbly clear of the drink I headed out to Thailand and lived a much better life.
 
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really interesting to see people in their 30's and 40's on here, I always enjoy hearing from people who have way more life experience than me
 
Welcome :feelsYall:
really interesting to see people in their 30's and 40's on here, I always enjoy hearing from people who have way more life experience than me
Same tbh
 
Yes

I was an alcoholic for a long time, and regular drug abuser.

Thankfully, that is all done with and I now live a life of 100% sobriety - 10 years dry and clean of all substances.

Once getting reasonbly clear of the drink I headed out to Thailand and lived a much better life.
don't answer if you don't feel like it but do you work in software or something?wondering what a neet like me could do in sea for a job.
 
welcome home fellow outcastcel.
youre more than welcome to ldar with us here while your oneitis is getting drilled by Chad's cock
 
don't answer if you don't feel like it but do you work in software or something?wondering what a neet like me could do in sea for a job.
English teaching
Easy to do, easy to get work - no college degree required.
u can talk to us here bro we are here for ya
thanks for the welcome (to everyone)
 
Anyway,
since hiting thirty I've lived mainly in South East Asia and just made up for lack of sex life by paying for
prostitutes 2 or 3 times a week.

What places?
 
Thailand/Cambodia

I'am thinking about Vietnam now - was living in Thailand for some time but got tired of the local policy of feeding farangs with crap(2..3/10) overused hookers.

There are places(like for example slav lands where I live) where best looking foids become prostitutes(roots of the beautiful slavic women myth), and there are places like Thailand where generally ugliest ones are hookers instead.

I mean if I (~3.5/10, white) compensate them with money at least I should be given a choice for picking ok looking ones...
 
English teaching
Easy to do, easy to get work - no college degree required.

thanks for the welcome (to everyone)
do you teach kids or something?teaching in a highschool or even middleschool must be suifuiel
 
Nigga you about to get evicted.
 
Just joined and immediately a grand wizard. Mogs me
 

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