Fancy Alcoholic
Living by the name
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Feeling out this place, not "living the moment", not being able to dance, feeling off whenever a social interaction occures and you have to deal with randomness of people ... Not being able to let things go.
Those very little things are incel traits, but the thing is, except from looks or your other specific flaws that make you invisible to the fairer sex, those are the main drawbacks that really stop us from the very act of sex itself. How would you deal with the randomness of the situation ? How to adapt to this new thing ? How to be able to let go to enjoy it ? How to be able to keep controle, not to fuck it up ? In one simple word, how to "live" it ?
The thing is, because of systematic social deprivation and years and years of rejection by the fairer sex, we are completely unable to figure out how such a natural thing as sex works.
Our parents were there to teach us the most fundamental steps in life : how to walk, how to talk, to go alone to the toilets, how to dress ... Thus, we're now autonomous on these very simple things. But, are these things really simple ? No. They require a bit of understanding, a bit of tips coming from experienced people, and practice. We got none of those for sex. We have to figure out all by ourselves, and eventually get advice from other people, which only makes things worse since unlike the previous steps, sex is a market, and experienced competitors have an interest to make other competitors weaker to maximize their own chances of getting it.
Those very little things are incel traits, but the thing is, except from looks or your other specific flaws that make you invisible to the fairer sex, those are the main drawbacks that really stop us from the very act of sex itself. How would you deal with the randomness of the situation ? How to adapt to this new thing ? How to be able to let go to enjoy it ? How to be able to keep controle, not to fuck it up ? In one simple word, how to "live" it ?
The thing is, because of systematic social deprivation and years and years of rejection by the fairer sex, we are completely unable to figure out how such a natural thing as sex works.
Our parents were there to teach us the most fundamental steps in life : how to walk, how to talk, to go alone to the toilets, how to dress ... Thus, we're now autonomous on these very simple things. But, are these things really simple ? No. They require a bit of understanding, a bit of tips coming from experienced people, and practice. We got none of those for sex. We have to figure out all by ourselves, and eventually get advice from other people, which only makes things worse since unlike the previous steps, sex is a market, and experienced competitors have an interest to make other competitors weaker to maximize their own chances of getting it.