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The psychological tortures

nessahan alita

nessahan alita

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The smart females will "torment" (provoke and irritate) (these "tortures" are one of the expressions of sadistic love described by Fromm) males that do not know how to exercise the mastery (I refer to the emotional mastery that naturally results from masculine renunciation of any form of coercive domination) by means of a protective coldness, of a powerful will and of extreme severity (I am referring to the severity that the man must exercise on himself to educate his will). They feel great satisfaction in creating puzzles and emotional games; they enjoy in watching us suffer while we try to disarticulate them. When they see us in suffocation, desperate to get out of the psychological plots that they create, they are happy and then can measure our persistence, thus, evaluate to what extent they have been able to fascinate us, since they seek unilateral continuity of the amorous encounter. Always have the reason on your side to not fall headfirst into the cliff.

The enhancement of this ability to hurt emotionally begins in the early teens, when girls tend to replace physical aggressions by words:

“At thirteen, there is a revealing difference between the sexes: girls become more capable than boys in devising cunning aggressive tactics, such as isolating others, making gossips, and committing sneaky little revenges. The boys, in general, are still quarrelsome, ignoring the use of more subtle strategies. This is just one of the many ways that boys – and then men – are less sophisticated than the opposite sex in the shortcuts of affective life.” (GOLEMAN, 1997, p.145)

The emotional intelligence of the woman is more developed than the man, because she was encouraged to face and talk about her emotions since the childhood. This gives them a sophisticated skill to attain us in our feelings, both for good and for evil. A example of the bad instrumentalization of this form of intelligence can be seen when the woman discovers that a man, once considered special, is actually a simple ordinary mortal. She then becomes disenchanted and loses her interest. Disillusioned, she begins to hate him and psychologically harass him (ALBERONI, 1986/undated):

"She is then made of irritation, of anger. She evade him in the fantasies. At the same time, avenges herself with routine gestures that irritate the man, leaving him in exasperation. Knowing his tastes and desires, she attains him in a continuous, obsessive way. It is a ritual of hatred, to which she dedicates herself with the same zeal that she devoted to that of love."(p.78)

Therefore, the feminine fragility is undeniable in the physical realm but not in the emotional sphere in its entirety, unlike the generalized belief in popular culture. In the field of the relation of two, many human females are not at all delicate or fragile, they are powerful, ruthless and they play dirty (for unconscious motivations since the unconscious does not obey the moral rules). However, we must accept such characteristics as instinctive and natural, without revolting.

They have great magnetic power to cause negative feelings in the male. If this one is emotionally weak, they will easily cause him to fall into states of jealousy, irritation, impatience and, likewise, make him feel small, as if he were a brat. These influences are acts of the animus, the masculine part of the feminine unconscious, over the anima, which is the feminine part of the masculine unconscious. You may have seen those funny situations where women in group laugh at a lonely man to make him feel small. If he is not emotionally strong enough to return the magnetic flux, he will return momentarily to the childhood. I love to disarticulate this sentimental manipulation by simply giving them a sarcastic smile while I stare into their eyes for a long time until they are intrigued about my motives and begin to fill me with questions. Then I retreat without answering, victorious.

Because they are psychological, the feminine strategies of attack and retaliation are rarely admitted. They hide very well from the eyes of ordinary people who can only see the external, the physical. Nevertheless, they are highly effective in inducing the suffering of others.

The secret to defend yourself from all the feminine trick of mental/emotional torture and manipulation consists in not identify ourselves with the woman's strategies, isolating it in her own capricious and contradictory acts. For this, it is essential to not be passionate, which is achieved only through the death of the ego. So she will perform her games by herself and will absorb all the madness that she has tried to introduce into our heart. Such power is achieved when we break up with the identification through the strong work of eliminating sentimentality. You should also look at her as a "bitch" until proven otherwise, since in our modern western civilization, with its "advanced" customs, few of them are saved. There are smart women who pretend to be "little saints" for several years.

The ability to resist feminine bewitching and enchantments is one of the prerequisites of the mythical heroes, who resist to fears and attractions, not allowing desires and fears to rob them of their soul and obscure their consciousness. For a simple matter of spiritual health and emotional survival, the man must reconcile himself with the masculine standards portrayed in the myths. Once we have achieved such independence, we should observe the female, waiting to know for how long she will resist in their attempts to bewitch and submit us. We have to give them back the burden they insistently cast on our back, that is, letting them do all the heavy work and just wait, until exhaustion comes to them.

A very common form of torture is through suspicious attitudes which provoke jealousy. The stages of this process of mental torture are the following:

1nd stage - The woman behaves like a saint, giving affection and sex until we become emotionally dependent. At this stage she pretends to not be interest in no one else, give no attention or flirts with any other man.

2nd stage - After being sure that we have bite the bait, standing well trapped by the feeling, the "bitch" begins to have suspicious attitudes with other males, so as to throw doubts in our minds so that start a suffering from jealousy.

3nd stage - When we protest with fair reason, she strictly denies visibly intentions that are behind of such compromising attitudes, claiming innocence, indignation, sadness, etc, crying crocodile tears and insisting on the same attitudes.

By this strategy, the female can indefinitely prolong the suffering of the male. It uses to a greater or lesser extent, according to the world conceptions and the disposition that they have to fight against their own evil instincts. Note that the rationale for the torture is the feeling of attachment and passion. In spite of all attempts of you to unleash and debating yourself unnecessarily, she will not stop torturing you with such games unless she feels that you have really became dispassionate. This is the secret. The more passionate, more subject to the infernal games you will be.

Try to be intensely jealous and needy on the phone: your partner will claim any pretext whatsoever and will turn off to keep you in this state for the next few days. It is for that they like to see us desperate because it gives them a morbid pleasure associated with the feeling that there is a fool that will wait for them for all their lives. However, this mode of pleasure does not fill them as women and you will be considered a secondary and uninteresting male in case you show yourself like this, a mere spare saved from the reserve for the latter case. The first of the list will be the one that does not give much of attention without being polarized in the coldness. If you made this mistake of being jealous, correcting it is necessary to undo the belief that was created. This feminine behavioral pattern to depart when the male is jealous or needy can be also very useful when you are fed up of her and want to be quiet for some days: just simulate a scene like this and you will be left alone. But do not forget: if with the passing of the days you do not confirm with addition signs the belief that you have induced, you companion will come desperate after you.

Another common way of pestering our minds is to arrange dates and not showing up. To break this little game, never forget to mark a limit for the dating hours and never wait like a idiot after the deadline has expired. Deadlines disconcert them for being agreements explicitly defined for both parties that corner their minds, preventing them from moving in the nonsense.

There is also an ingenious feminine strategy that consists of not showing care and deny the affection to induce the male to manifest them.

In virtually every psychological game of torture, we will find indecisions and contradictions that aims to confuse. We see, for example, in the one that flirts to escape right after, in the one that initiates a discussion raising critical points and evading before the same settle, in the one who takes the initiative to call and then behaves as if wants to disconnect the phone, etc. The intention is to leave important issues in the air, unresolved feelings.

In summary, the mechanisms of torture consists in incite our doubt, sexual drive and our loving feelings to the maximum but never satisfying it. When they resolve to satisfy it, they do so by feeling threatened (in their power over us), driven by the idea that they are losing the domain, but maintaining the expectation that they will be able to launch us into the prolonged dissatisfaction again. The erotic desire and the feeling of love (understood here as passionament and attachment) are usually the main tools used, the others being rarely used unless in direct association with these or in exceptional cases. The unfulfilled excitement promotes a state of discomfort that can be prolonged to the maximum. It is for this reason that the real hatred, real rejection or indifference on the part of the man frighten them: it make them impotent. The hatred is not recommended (I want to emphasize this recommendation. The hate is the origin of innumerable psychopathologies and those who cultivate it, regardless of whether or not they are right, are condemned to live the hell in the soul. The nervous system and the immune system influence each other, which causes that negative emotions, such as hatred, to alter the quality and intensity of body resistance, causing illness. A study in the United Kingdom revealed that amorous delusions increase the rate of heart disease). The indifference (in cases where this is justified by the other person's attempt to play with our feelings) it is, and this can be achieved when we eliminate all the egos related to passion, attachment, lust, affection, etc.

As a means of defense, it may be convenient to unmask the little games sometimes. But this must be done at the exact moment when they are happening and in a way that will entrap her and allow no evasiveness. The best way of unmasking that I found was to simply point it out firmly at the very moment they are being applied, so as to surprise and not allow denial. Your inattention will be used against you. For this reason, be alert to catch and denounce it in a ruthless, cruel (that is, without being dissuaded by sentimental manipulations) and relentless (which is much more noble and is not coward as the act of aggression) manner all the tricks, lies and manipulations. The key is to be alert, ready to unmask it with the speed of light. If the complaint is postponed, then it will turn into a mere discussion and the opportunity will have been lost. Never leave the unmasking for later because it will not have the same effect due to feminine's tricks to avoid the problems of the romantic relationship. The problem here is that we are slow, because we are more rational, while our friends are quick to move for being motivated only by feelings (the emotional intelligence is much faster than intellectual intelligence, and the women outnumber the men in this field. The intellect is slow, retardant. Logos is a predominant function in the man and Eros predominates in the woman). To overcome this deficiency of speed, it is enough that we get used to expecting the worst (otherwise, perhaps more correctly, we might say: to expect everything, both in regard to good and in regard to evil, or else expect nothing, which is almost the same thing. The aggressiveness is a natural human unconscious function in its various modalities. All humans assault, even if they do not know it or do not accept it). That way, we will be one step ahead, advanced in the perception of the tricks of others.

Usually, the little games remain inhibited when we let them know that we are waiting for it. While our partners feel that we are waiting for the tricks, they avoid using them.

The psychological suffering of the human being, whether man or woman, is something real but unimputable. It is unimputable because we underestimate the psychic aspect of life, considering it "subjective". This means that the act of emotionally torment the others is not considered a crime from the legalist point of view (this is no longer valid for some countries. However, the laws still do not recognize the amorous emotional violence perpetrated by women against men, but only by men against women. It is a reflection of the generalized prejudice against the masculine gender), which favors them a lot because we can not denounce them by amorous tortures. The continued use of these tortures is due, partly, to the ancestral hatred against us (which is closely related to the Penis envy complex) and, partly, to the need to test us.

Watch a women's group and you will see them condemning, ridiculing and satirizing the masculine, never exalting. You will never see them praising the importance that we have or admitting the dependence that they have of our protection. We conclude, therefore, that our manipulators suffer unconsciously with hatred and envy, not accepting their natural difference from the masculine, and feel a sadistic pleasure in tormenting us, reason more than fair to defend ourselves through the elimination of our internal weaknesses and teach them some little lessons.
 
Watch a women's group and you will see them condemning, ridiculing and satirizing the masculine, never exalting. You will never see them praising the importance that we have or admitting the dependence that they have of our protection.
Very based.

Also, that enlights a bit of conversation I had one day. Normie sex havers said I was cold and too realistic, and that was supposed to be a problem. This post shows it's just a normal defence mechanism against the toxicity of foids. I don't lose time and energy in their maze, unlike normie cucks.
 
Females are succubi that we just want to fuck for bodily pleasure, they feed like psychic vampires on the torment or misery of men, the end.
 

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It is psychological torture if you are ugly in (((their eyes))) and defend [your]self,your rights,your freedom...
 
very cool, will read later
 
it seems your posts are very high iq but i dont have the attention necessary to read through them. either way, high iq and based probably
 
it seems your posts are very high iq but i dont have the attention necessary to read through them. either way, high iq and based probably
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