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When you look at all the winners of life, a huge majority of them already showed the signs of being great at a young age.
Sure you have guys like Steve Jobs or other weirdos that lucked out and built their own companies. But you're looking at the 1 of 100 who succeeded instead of the 99 who failed.
Your first 18 years of your life mean more than the rest of your life put together
Lets talk areas of development
All these things you develop in your youth. Even if you got talent so what? So does everyone else. And because of the competition, you will need talent as well as time and effort to develop them.
Each stage you lag behind your peers in these areas, it becomes harder to catch up. What you are today is based on what you did in the past.
So I'm saying if you didn't develop these by the time you're an adult, sorry but its pretty much over for you. How the fuck are you gonna catch up with those who have successfully developed these areas properly every step through adolescence?
By the time you're 18, it will decide your university which you go to. Which then will decide what connections and peers you have. Which in turn will decide whether you're selected for one of the elite career paths etc etc.
But you know what? The truth blackpill is all the above never mattered.
Everything was determined when you were born. What genetics you had hence your looks and talents. What background you had, whether you were in a good enviroment you could trhive etc.
TL;DR : It was over before it ever began
Sure you have guys like Steve Jobs or other weirdos that lucked out and built their own companies. But you're looking at the 1 of 100 who succeeded instead of the 99 who failed.
Your first 18 years of your life mean more than the rest of your life put together
Lets talk areas of development
- Academics
- Athletics
- Social skills
- Street smarts
- Any other skills
All these things you develop in your youth. Even if you got talent so what? So does everyone else. And because of the competition, you will need talent as well as time and effort to develop them.
Each stage you lag behind your peers in these areas, it becomes harder to catch up. What you are today is based on what you did in the past.
So I'm saying if you didn't develop these by the time you're an adult, sorry but its pretty much over for you. How the fuck are you gonna catch up with those who have successfully developed these areas properly every step through adolescence?
By the time you're 18, it will decide your university which you go to. Which then will decide what connections and peers you have. Which in turn will decide whether you're selected for one of the elite career paths etc etc.
But you know what? The truth blackpill is all the above never mattered.
Everything was determined when you were born. What genetics you had hence your looks and talents. What background you had, whether you were in a good enviroment you could trhive etc.
TL;DR : It was over before it ever began