Serious The theory of concealed problems

[Deleted member 21219]

Ive been thinking about the way our monkey brains were programmed by natural/sexual selection and how it affects our everyday lives. This is loosely based on maslow's hierarchy of needs but doesnt presuppose it.

Given a state, which depends on your biological and environmental factors, your brain only takes the problems that are most immediate/that have the highest survival value and actively causes you to ignore all other problems, however important they might otherwise be. For example, if you are starved of food/water, you wont worry about the mortgage on your house (even though paying your mortgage might actually be quite important for you to survive in this world). Similarly, being starved of sex means that your brain causes you to actively ignore all other issues and only focus on this one immediate problem.

This simply means that even if you get to have sex, the fact that you have, for such a long time, ignored all the other problems means that you will suddenly realize (on having sex) that there are countless more issues you need to address/solve before you can be truly happy.

TLDR: Sex is not only a basic biological need but the lack of it causes your brain to actively suppress your realization of so many other problems you need to address in order to make it in the modern world.

 

[Selinity]

Sex is always on my mind, like a background app running while I'm trying to do other things, it's honestly making me dumber

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Sex is always on my mind, like a background app running while I'm trying to do other things, it's honestly making me dumber

Likewise. I cant get on with my life because of this.

 

[Jungle]

Sex is always on my mind, like a background app running while I'm trying to do other things, it's honestly making me dumber

same

 

[Selinity]

Likewise. I cant get on with my life because of this.

I'm trying to stop it though which is why I'm doing nofap, if I can calm down about sex a little I'll be able to focus on my studymaxxing more

 

[Deleted member 21219]

I'm trying to stop it though which is why I'm doing nofap, if I can calm down about sex a little I'll be able to focus on my studymaxxing more

Nofap makes its even worse for me. Escortcelling helps but for a bit (maybe 5-7 days) but then the urges reappear.

 

[Selinity]

Nofap makes its even worse for me. Escortcelling helps but for a bit (maybe 5-7 days) but then the urges reappear.

For me nofap sucked for the first week or so and after that the urge kinda just disappeared, then I saw some hot singles ad with a girls tits out while trying to read some manga for free and the urge kicked me out of no where. I swear, this degenerate society is making nofap so hard.

 

[Deleted member 21219]

For me nofap sucked for the first week or so and after that the urge kinda just disappeared, then I saw some hot singles ad with a girls tits out while trying to read some manga for free and the urge kicked me out of no where. I swear, this degenerate society is making nofap so hard.

Right. I once went on nofap for a week and then came inside an escort foids mouth. Watching her gag on my cum made it worthwhile.

 

[Selinity]

then came inside an escort foids mouth.

Is escortmaxxing worth it? You should make a thread about it honestly

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Is escortmaxxing worth it? You should make a thread about it honestly

Its a temporary fix. Doesnt address the problem, unless youre rich enough to fuck escorts on a regular basis.

 

[Selinity]

Its a temporary fix. Doesnt address the problem, unless youre rich enough to fuck escorts on a regular basis.

If you got a relationship would that be a permanent fix? bc unless your Chad after marriage/during daTing you won't be getting much pussy, right?

 

[Deleted member 21219]

If you got a relationship would that be a permanent fix? bc unless your Chad after marriage/during daTing you won't be getting much pussy, right?

Permanent fix is looksmaxxing to the point where youre attractive to foids.

 

[Emba]

Ive been thinking about the way our monkey brains were programmed by natural/sexual selection and how it affects our everyday lives. This is loosely based on maslow's hierarchy of needs but doesnt presuppose it.

Given a state, which depends on your biological and environmental factors, your brain only takes the problems that are most immediate/that have the highest survival value and actively causes you to ignore all other problems, however important they might otherwise be. For example, if you are starved of food/water, you wont worry about the mortgage on your house (even though paying your mortgage might actually be quite important for you to survive in this world). Similarly, being starved of sex means that your brain causes you to actively ignore all other issues and only focus on this one immediate problem.

This simply means that even if you get to have sex, the fact that you have, for such a long time, ignored all the other problems means that you will suddenly realize (on having sex) that there are countless more issues you need to address/solve before you can be truly happy.

TLDR: Sex is not only a basic biological need but the lack of it causes your brain to actively suppress your realization of so many other problems you need to address in order to make it in the modern world.

This...

Perhaps that's why i never did all the appropriate shit to insure a comfortable old age? So i ended up just a few steps above homeless. Instead of owning land and a truck and whatnot.

But, i know dudes just as loveless as me but they've done better. Not much better, but better nonetheless. They had/ have closer family. Instead of having absolutely no one, like me.

So yes. This is probably true. It's like a broken ladder.