RageFuel "Um you know, its pretty normal these days to not have a girlfriend"

[ThisLifeKillsMe]

Coming from my mom.

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie. It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

Every 2 weeks or so shes trying the same, "you know, there is this guy that has x who has/ended up with a gf"


Show me pics, invite them for dinner she goes completly silent.

Then she starts being a cunt to me for 2 other weeks, yells, screams at me for being a neet.

 

[zangano1]

Tell her I said she is a whore

 

[autisticghost]

"I know a guy who didn't have his first girlfriend until he was 30. You'll find someone one day. Just be patient"

 

[Deleted member 27204]

It's just platitudes. No use in arguing with your parents imo because like anyone else they will double down on insisting something is wrong with you.

 

[MaxZM98]

she's not wrong.

the fact that it's normal for a guy not to have a gf shows how hypergamy is out of control. try asking her why she thinks it's normal not to have a gf. i bet she comes up with some bullshit answer.

 

[slavcel11]

Doesn't matter if someone thinks it's "normal". Everyone deserves a partner and has every right to complain about not being able to find one. Foids are only so smart when it comes to telling men that sex/relationships dont matter but somehow your mom had to find someone and have you right? Then maybe she should kindly shut the fuck up and stop giving meaningless advice?

 

[WizardofSoda]

Your mom to her credit actually is one of the few boomers who notices that it is normal now.

Now my use of the word normal i mean common.. not that it is normal in any sane society or at any time in the history of our civilization that being single is common.

 

[Lebensmüder]

Your mom to her credit actually is one of the few boomers who notices that it is normal now.

Now my use of the word normal i mean common.. not that it is normal in any sane society or at any time in the history of our civilization that being single is common.

Completely disgusting/pathognomonic how the narrative has shifted. From "Do that and get that!" we nowadays shifted to "Do that and maybe you get that without any guarantee, just don't ask questions and continue!" - yes, even older people recognize it. My grandmother for example told me that almost all girls nowadays were grotesquely obese landwhales and even my mother complained about their (lacking) looks and their entitlement issues.

Of course most of the time boomers (or even older generations) are bluepilled, but on rare occasions they recognize the absurdity of the situation and offer some blackpilled thoughts, where they outwardly tell you that in the end everything will only come down to sheer luck and that there is no guarantee that your life will be a successful one despite your efforts and that everything you did could literally in the end mean absolutely nothing.

This was always an uncomfortable truth, but nowadays this truth is seen as something that is completely accepted (with resignation at best or glee at worst) and not as something that we should try to change. The fact that we tell young men nowadays that they should work themselves to death with no guarantee of ever getting something back (e.g. that the social contract is broken) will soon lead to consequences that cannot be ignored anymore (like neetdom in masses or even worse).

 

[FlyFace]

This is why I spend as much time as possible away from my parents.. if I had to spend all my time around them I would go insane. There is no point in even trying to talk to them about my problems, they never care anyway.

 

[WizardofSoda]

Completely disgusting how the narrative has shifted. From "Do that and get that!" we nowadays shifted to "Do that and maybe you get that without any guarantee, just don't ask questions and continue!" - yes, even older people recognize it. My grandmother for example told me that almost all girls nowadays were grotesquely obese landwhales and even my mother complained about their (lacking) looks and their entitlement issues.

Of course most of the time boomers (or even older generations) are bluepilled, but on rare occasions they recognize the absurdity of the situation and offer some blackpilled thoughts, where they outwardly tell you that in the end everything will only come down to sheer luck and that there is no guarantee that your life will be a successful one despite your efforts and that everything you did could literally in the end mean absolutely nothing.

This was always an uncomfortable truth, but nowadays this truth is seen as something that is completely accepted (with resignation at best or glee at worst) and not as something that we should try to change. The fact that we tell young men nowadays that they should work themselves to death with no guarantee of ever getting something back (e.g. that the social contract is broken) will soon lead to consequences that cannot be ignored anymore (like neetdom in masses or even worse).

Seems significant progress for those older foids that they actually admitting that the game is different now.. eg.. that having most women today as grotesque landwhales does change the game substantially.

Of course a lot of boomers are complaining that they can't get good workers among the young men anymore. Like one guy said he can't get people to show up on Monday morning, because they are too stoned. And he realized giving Friday afternoon off really helped retention. He says i just don't get their lack of ambition, they just do the minimum to pay their cost of living. Now to credit this boomer company owner, he actually adapted his business to the new reality, instead of searching in vain for try-hards, and he stopped drug testing.

Everything in life is as you say a contract/negotiation. When one side reneges on the social contract, sooner or later the other side will renege on its side of the bargain too. In all countries in all times the compact between the rulers and the men of the nation is this.

The rulers(the state and the Church), will make it so all men get a wife, a family, a house, a decent paying job that is given respect. In return the rulers want the men to follow the rules, not challenge them, put in an honest work day, and in their jobs whether high or low to have integrity and work towards the mission of each of their respective organization without corruption or weird stuff.

That is the compact. In their ignorance of the world our boomer rulers didn't even understand that there was a compact. the boomers are the first generation in the history of civilization who never read. They just watch tv, go on vacations, etc. The rulers in all past generations were prolific readers. Like the guys who read for hours everyday on forums like this you get a great wisdom over many years. So by the time the man is 55 and in a leadership role, he makes decisions with that wisdom, and also the men at his same level have acquired similar levels of wisdom.

 

[Caesercel]

It wasn't normal until women's rights became a thing

 

[Incline]

I'll never have one at 25 it's too late

 

[Mainländer]

It's just platitudes. No use in arguing with your parents imo because like anyone else they will double down on insisting something is wrong with you.

They grew up in a different generation, and OP's mom is a foid, so she won't ever understand what it is like to be a zoomer/millenial incel.

 

[npcel]

Tell her I said she is a whore

 

[Deleted member 27204]

They grew up in a different generation, and OP's mom is a foid, so she won't ever understand what it is like to be a zoomer/millenial incel.

Even Gen X are mostly severely out of touch but are cynical and think they know everything while subsisting on tough talk from George Carlin and Fight Club. Gen X attack Millennials more than Boomers do and have just as much of the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps and stop bitching" mentality btw

And as bad as Zoomer incels have it at least they never were indoctrinated with feel good bluepill BS throughout their childhood only for the illusion to be shattered painfully when they came of age. You can probably understand what I mean by this because you are in that age group.

 

[Emba]

(£)

Welcome to blueceldom

 

[Lebensmüder]

Seems significant progress for those older foids that they actually admitting that the game is different now.. eg.. that having most women today as grotesque landwhales does change the game substantially.

Of course a lot of boomers are complaining that they can't get good workers among the young men anymore. Like one guy said he can't get people to show up on Monday morning, because they are too stoned. And he realized giving Friday afternoon off really helped retention. He says i just don't get their lack of ambition, they just do the minimum to pay their cost of living. Now to credit this boomer company owner, he actually adapted his business to the new reality, instead of searching in vain for try-hards, and he stopped drug testing.

Everything in life is as you say a contract/negotiation. When one side reneges on the social contract, sooner or later the other side will renege on its side of the bargain too. In all countries in all times the compact between the rulers and the men of the nation is this.

The rulers(the state and the Church), will make it so all men get a wife, a family, a house, a decent paying job that is given respect. In return the rulers want the men to follow the rules, not challenge them, put in an honest work day, and in their jobs whether high or low to have integrity and work towards the mission of each of their respective organization without corruption or weird stuff.

That is the compact. In their ignorance of the world our boomer rulers didn't even understand that there was a compact. the boomers are the first generation in the history of civilization who never read. They just watch tv, go on vacations, etc. The rulers in all past generations were prolific readers. Like the guys who read for hours everyday on forums like this you get a great wisdom over many years. So by the time the man is 55 and in a leadership role, he makes decisions with that wisdom, and also the men at his same level have acquired similar levels of wisdom.

Thanks for the detailled answer, everything you wrote there is an undeniable truth, I boomarked/quoted it.

Furthermore, the lack of ambition is easily explainable, a middle class just doesn't exist anymore (both in the economical/social world). We see in complete freedom without restrictions/responsibilities "winner takes it all"-dynamics. The hard extra work doesn't pay off anymore, you only get a small raise of your wages but you also lose so much private time that can be spent better by everyone (even LDARing/doing nothing is preferable over working). The small amount of money gained doesn't justify the extreme amount of personal freedom that is sacrificed. Your position can only be changed in a marginal way by effort/hard work - and when there is not even a guarantee that the efforts are worth it or that they will ever pay off people will go the easiest path which is the only rational decision to make.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

It wasn't normal until women's rights became a thing

 

[Lebensmüder]

It wasn't normal until women's rights became a thing

What conservacucks will never realize: The rising number of single males is only the fault of feminism/female empowerment, because the interests of men/women are mutually exclusive. They can criticize the symptoms (like pornography/video game addiction) all day long and even when they prohibit the copes the problem will prevail.
If they really wanted to solve the problems of others they would have to admit the existence of the fundamental conflict of interests between the sexes at first and then decide who they want to condemn, something that would be associated with extremely bad optics. It's impossible for men/women to be totally happy at the same time, so pick your side. The only alternative would be a system like monogamy that restricts the rights/freedoms of both men/women.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

ngl my punk ass cousin tried to pull this shit on me a few weeks ago
For the first time in his life he is both unemployed and doesn't have a gf at the same time. So a few weeks ago I think I was talking about how life sucks or lonliness sucks and he goes, "yea I know what you mean. I don't have a girlfriend either." then he was trying to spew how he knew a lot of guys that don't have girlfriends due to the pandemic.

NO YOU DONT KNOW WHAT I MEAN YOU COCKSUCKER! BOO HOO YOU ARE GOING ON ALMOST 1 YEAR WITHOUT A GIRLFRIEND SINCE YOU WERE FUCKING 15!! CRY ME A RIVER ASSHOLE!! I'VE BEEN DEALING WITH THIS SHIT MY ENTIRE LIFE! MY ENTIRE ADULT LIFE! MY ENTIRE FUCKING CHILDHOOD! YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW IT FEELS

fuk outta here with the "lots of guys dont have gfs" speech. In a few months when everything is back to normal then they will get girlfriends while I still rot because women are all fucking whores.

 

[BlkPillPres]

Coming from my mom.

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie. It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

Every 2 weeks or so shes trying the same, "you know, there is this guy that has x who has/ended up with a gf"


Show me pics, invite them for dinner she goes completly silent.

Then she starts being a cunt to me for 2 other weeks, yells, screams at me for being a neet.

Please don't conflate the two issues as one and the same, you being a neet is completely separate from you being an incel

You literally just sit around and contribute nothing to the household, why shouldn't she pissed at you, even a dog guards the house and functions as an intruder alarm to "earn its place", you literally just exist in your house and eat up food

You are being disingenuous and trying to conflate inceldom and neetdom, and her being blue pilled about inceldom has anything to do with her not being ok with you being a waste of space

You are speaking as if she became black pilled she'd magically now be ok with you being a leech that does nothing with his life

Imagine going through hours of painful labor to birth something into existence, spend years feeding it (for some mothers directly from your body - breast milk), baby it, nurture it, care for it, for years and years, only to see that thing grow up and never try to amount to anything

You have to try and be honest with yourself for once in your damn life, and realize how frustrating and depressing that would be for a mother

Its not like you are home trying to start an online business or something, you just eat, sleep and consume entertainment, if you even showed her that you were trying to do something she'd get off your case and feel relieved

Every parent has it in the back of their mind that one day they are going to die and leave their child completely alone, you think she isn't thinking about the fact that you can't survive or live on your own right now, that you can't provide for yourself, and if she died next month you'd be completely fucked

I would never want to be a parent for many reasons, but the worry of having a child is one of them, a child is a huge investment, you invest not only resources but all of your hopes, you have expectations of your children, its going to be soul killing to see a child amount to nothing because they don't even try

Fuck trying to get a date, what are you doing to build wealth, don't you want to get out of that house at some point?

 

[TheIncredibleIncel]

Coming from my mom.

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie. It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

Every 2 weeks or so shes trying the same, "you know, there is this guy that has x who has/ended up with a gf"


Show me pics, invite them for dinner she goes completly silent.

Then she starts being a cunt to me for 2 other weeks, yells, screams at me for being a neet.

She's right. People just fuck and sleep around nowadays.

 

[Deleted member 20207]

27% of men are incels though, so she is not completely wrong. It does not make your situation better though.

 

[cvh1991]

she's not wrong.

the fact that it's normal for a guy not to have a gf shows how hypergamy is out of control. try asking her why she thinks it's normal not to have a gf. i bet she comes up with some bullshit answer.

Lmao indeed

 

[Caesercel]

What conservacucks will never realize: The rising number of single males is only the fault of feminism/female empowerment, because the interests of men/women are mutually exclusive. They can criticize the symptoms (like pornography/video game addiction) all day long and even when they prohibit the copes the problem will prevail.
If they really wanted to solve the problems of others they would have to admit the existence of the fundamental conflict of interests between the sexes at first and then decide who they want to condemn, something that would be associated with extremely bad optics. It's impossible for men/women to be totally happy at the same time, so pick your side. The only alternative would be a system like monogamy that restricts the rights/freedoms of both men/women.

I completely agree your viewpoint. With monogamy, both men and women give up some liberties to be able to have sex and raise a family. The problem is, with monogamy gone women and chads have nothing to lose while non-chad men are left to suffer

 

[Deleted member 23712]

You should fuck her

 

[Deleted member 29003]

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie.

Agreed beyond brutal when mom's keep coping for their failed offspring. Tbh I hear the "you could have had it worse relationship/sex isn't everything sweetie"
Yeah but 5'6" and diabetic virgin is the GENETIC LOTTERY!!!

 

[Sleeper]

she's not wrong.

the fact that it's normal for a guy not to have a gf shows how hypergamy is out of control. try asking her why she thinks it's normal not to have a gf. i bet she comes up with some bullshit answer.

brutal

 

[Deleted member 25475]

Your mom just admitted that something has changed when compared to the past that has resulted in the norm being a sexless virgin. My mom doesn't even talk to me apart from telling me when lunch and dinner is ready. Lol.

 

[Neggr]

Tell her I said she is a whore

Based

 

[WizardofSoda]

Thanks for the detailled answer, everything you wrote there is an undeniable truth, I boomarked/quoted it.

Furthermore, the lack of ambition is easily explainable, a middle class just doesn't exist anymore (both in the economical/social world). We see in complete freedom without restrictions/responsibilities "winner takes it all"-dynamics. The hard extra work doesn't pay off anymore, you only get a small raise of your wages but you also lose so much private time that can be spent better by everyone (even LDARing/doing nothing is preferable over working). The small amount of money gained doesn't justify the extreme amount of personal freedom that is sacrificed. Your position can only be changed in a marginal way by effort/hard work - and when there is not even a guarantee that the efforts are worth it or that they will ever pay off people will go the easiest path which is the only rational decision to make.

Thanks I am enjoying your posts as well.. Ya technology, the mass market/globalization and such has changed the game too. Like in the past a great industrialist also needed hordes of engineers, managers, and even more hordes of worker guys. This created demand for average people, as the industrialists competed against each other for labor.

In the new game with computers & robotics we don't need that many average people anymore. We still need some, but less than the number of normies. This makes the wages for normies go to zero, as now it is them who have to underbid each other to get the jobs.

So we have the expected change to this.. the guys who are ultra elite in intelligence and ability in their field, their incomes keep going up, as the new technologies can be used to multiply their creativity. Meanwhile the standard wage-cucks their wages are going down.

Every year the machinery & the software is doing more of the routine work, meaning each year we need less normies. Look at the Amazon jobs being created, Amazon will automate many of those jobs in time. If a field has 1 million workers, and there is a 3% improvement in productivity that means they can just get rid of 30,000 normies. Those surplus normies then attempt to underbid the remaining working normies by working for lower wage rates than before.

The reality is there is no point trying unless you have the natural talent & you are passionate about something so you can spend years and years getting ever better at it.

On your point about the amount of effort and loss of free time, I have seen that. My friends from highschool who were high-tier normie in intelligence they did all the right things. Got a STEMcel degree, and have been working and working building their careers. But because they don't have elite intelligence and not that passionate about their job they are only normie tier capability in their fields. Aka can easily be replaced by millions of other normies at the same level.

And if you look at those guys who put in all that work over years and years, their lives don't seem much better than guys i know who literally didn't try at all. Just did the bare minimum or even went on welfare. But those guys who didn't try at all, they are enjoying all that free time, and no stress from being fired or something like that. The only significant difference is the wage-cucks can afford a car, which i will give them is substantial. I found a middle ground, where i put in maybe 1/4 of the effort of the wage-cuck normies, but still have enough to get a car.

And for women, it doesn't make the sightest difference if you are a wage-cuck or unemployed, the Chads get women either way. The only time it could make a difference is if you make serious, serious money like $1 million+ a year because you are ultra elite in ability. Then that does get a power where you start money mogging other men hard and woemn are attracted to the 'winners', especially in a 'winner take all' world.

Edit to add: This is also why normies are supporting big government so much.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

Tell her I said she is a whore

 

[Jungle]

Tell her I said she is a whore

Basado

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Coming from my mom.

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie. It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

Every 2 weeks or so shes trying the same, "you know, there is this guy that has x who has/ended up with a gf"


Show me pics, invite them for dinner she goes completly silent.

Then she starts being a cunt to me for 2 other weeks, yells, screams at me for being a neet.

It's not a rare occurence(27% of young men), but it's not healthy, natural or normal for that matter.

 

[Lowdickenergycel]

Coming from my mom.

A few of you may think it was a based statement but it was spoken with this foid bullshitting undertone.

I told her I never had one, Yeah thats pretty normal too." No, it fucking isnt bitch, just trying to motivate me into going back to higher education or into the wagie cagie. It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

Every 2 weeks or so shes trying the same, "you know, there is this guy that has x who has/ended up with a gf"


Show me pics, invite them for dinner she goes completly silent.

Then she starts being a cunt to me for 2 other weeks, yells, screams at me for being a neet.

Bro it sounds like you should move out, I couldn't live like that.

 

[Fancy Alcoholic]

Tell her I said she is a whore

Did you do it OP ? Honestly, just do it lmao.

 

[Deleted member 27161]

It's just platitudes. No use in arguing with your parents imo because like anyone else they will double down on insisting something is wrong with you.

This

 

[metabuxx]

She is a whore just like every single one of them. She won't leave any opportunity to gaslight and brain wash you.

 

[Deleted member 20790]

Tell her she is a whore

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Tell her I said she is a whore

Completely disgusting/pathognomonic how the narrative has shifted. From "Do that and get that!" we nowadays shifted to "Do that and maybe you get that without any guarantee, just don't ask questions and continue!" - yes, even older people recognize it. My grandmother for example told me that almost all girls nowadays were grotesquely obese landwhales and even my mother complained about their (lacking) looks and their entitlement issues.

Of course most of the time boomers (or even older generations) are bluepilled, but on rare occasions they recognize the absurdity of the situation and offer some blackpilled thoughts, where they outwardly tell you that in the end everything will only come down to sheer luck and that there is no guarantee that your life will be a successful one despite your efforts and that everything you did could literally in the end mean absolutely nothing.

This was always an uncomfortable truth, but nowadays this truth is seen as something that is completely accepted (with resignation at best or glee at worst) and not as something that we should try to change. The fact that we tell young men nowadays that they should work themselves to death with no guarantee of ever getting something back (e.g. that the social contract is broken) will soon lead to consequences that cannot be ignored anymore (like neetdom in masses or even worse).

Very based post, good read that encapsulates a huge problem related to us.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

It definetly isnt common for my birth year to never fucking had a gf.

 

[BecomeTheNew]

Tell her I said she is a whore

YOU TELL HER... SHE'S A GOD-DAMN HOOR

 

[wasted12years]

Most people have a GF because they want to fuck. It's a necesseary need all people need to have and we are deprived of it.

 

[TaiLung]

Tell her I said she is a whore