1. Does a woman need to ever work on her personality, social skills, whatever to get a date, sex, relationship?
2. Does a woman need to ever have hobbies (and mind you, CERTAIN HOBBIES, not just collecting anime figures) to get a date, sex, relationship?
3. Does a woman need to ever have a healthy social circle (again, not just bunch of warhammer 40k lovers) to get a date, sex, relationship?
4. Does a woman need to ever put herself in a special environment (one with a certain female/male ratio that is) to get a date, sex, relationship?
5. Does a woman need to ever happen in the right place at the right time, succeed at the "numbers game", "luck out" to get a date, sex, relationship?
The answer is NO. A woman just lives her chosen lifestyle, pursues career etc and all of that just naturally happens to her. Her personality, social circle, professional interests play no hand in her dating life. In fact, to change yourself because you can't find love is the most autistic thing you can do and it should never happen, ideally.
But irony is that many of average sub8 men HAVE to go through this because well, they are not chads to boast their jawline and 6-pack. Nor are they billionaires and cant simply attract women by throwing money around. Their social conditions (for the lack of a better term) just dont allow for that many free women. As a man (if you are not chad and aren't rich that is), you HAVE to be this and that, do that and that to have the bare minimum of PHYSICAL ACCESS to women, there's no way around it. Not just that, to have a prolific social life is simply womens' REQUIREMENT to a potential partner. A woman MUST SEE THAT THERE'S MUCH GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE. Of course you need a set of digestible male human features (face/height) as well, but this topic is tangential to the discussion.
The simple conclusion is that women have (water is wet alert) a much more easier life when it comes to dating/finding love, but it goes further than that. In fact, it also applies to ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL INTERACTIONS, and with humans where 90% of success in your life comes from the quantity and quality of your social connections, women are simply better equipped for living in the modern society. Everyone wants to be around a woman, both other women and men. Everyone wants to be friends with a woman, everyone wants to have a casual talk with a woman during the lunch break. Women are better at social interaction and thus making and maintaining social connections. And of course the everlasting question of finding relationship doesn't burden them so, because a woman knows she can find it any time -- at 15 yo, 20 yo, 45 yo, etc. She can concentrate on other aspects of her life. Whereas as a man, you absolutely want everything to happen until your main social venues, that is school and college are still open for you. It will be much much harder, if even possible to catch up later in life.
The last example. Imagine a man and a woman who move to another country. Their social circle and life are effectively destroyed and have to be rebuilt from scratch. What does the woman? She opens tinder, hits up a bunch of popular guys, maybe dates someone and voila -- new life, new friends, new social circle. The man? Well, work is your best bet. But chances are that you are single and all women are taken and as a single man good luck to mingle in with your co-workers many of whom are married or have a gf.
tl;dr WOMEN CAN BE ANYTHING AND NATURALLY HAVE MORE LIFE OPPORTUNITIES, CAREER OPTIONS AND SOCIAL OCCUPATIONS. THEY CAN LIVE HOW THEY WANT AND DO WHAT THEY WANT. THE SOLE THING THAT ALLOWS THAT IS THE DAMN HOLE AND HOLE ALONE. COPE WITH THAT YOU SINGLE UNWANTED MALE.
2. Does a woman need to ever have hobbies (and mind you, CERTAIN HOBBIES, not just collecting anime figures) to get a date, sex, relationship?
3. Does a woman need to ever have a healthy social circle (again, not just bunch of warhammer 40k lovers) to get a date, sex, relationship?
4. Does a woman need to ever put herself in a special environment (one with a certain female/male ratio that is) to get a date, sex, relationship?
5. Does a woman need to ever happen in the right place at the right time, succeed at the "numbers game", "luck out" to get a date, sex, relationship?
The answer is NO. A woman just lives her chosen lifestyle, pursues career etc and all of that just naturally happens to her. Her personality, social circle, professional interests play no hand in her dating life. In fact, to change yourself because you can't find love is the most autistic thing you can do and it should never happen, ideally.
But irony is that many of average sub8 men HAVE to go through this because well, they are not chads to boast their jawline and 6-pack. Nor are they billionaires and cant simply attract women by throwing money around. Their social conditions (for the lack of a better term) just dont allow for that many free women. As a man (if you are not chad and aren't rich that is), you HAVE to be this and that, do that and that to have the bare minimum of PHYSICAL ACCESS to women, there's no way around it. Not just that, to have a prolific social life is simply womens' REQUIREMENT to a potential partner. A woman MUST SEE THAT THERE'S MUCH GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE. Of course you need a set of digestible male human features (face/height) as well, but this topic is tangential to the discussion.
The simple conclusion is that women have (water is wet alert) a much more easier life when it comes to dating/finding love, but it goes further than that. In fact, it also applies to ALL KINDS OF SOCIAL INTERACTIONS, and with humans where 90% of success in your life comes from the quantity and quality of your social connections, women are simply better equipped for living in the modern society. Everyone wants to be around a woman, both other women and men. Everyone wants to be friends with a woman, everyone wants to have a casual talk with a woman during the lunch break. Women are better at social interaction and thus making and maintaining social connections. And of course the everlasting question of finding relationship doesn't burden them so, because a woman knows she can find it any time -- at 15 yo, 20 yo, 45 yo, etc. She can concentrate on other aspects of her life. Whereas as a man, you absolutely want everything to happen until your main social venues, that is school and college are still open for you. It will be much much harder, if even possible to catch up later in life.
The last example. Imagine a man and a woman who move to another country. Their social circle and life are effectively destroyed and have to be rebuilt from scratch. What does the woman? She opens tinder, hits up a bunch of popular guys, maybe dates someone and voila -- new life, new friends, new social circle. The man? Well, work is your best bet. But chances are that you are single and all women are taken and as a single man good luck to mingle in with your co-workers many of whom are married or have a gf.
tl;dr WOMEN CAN BE ANYTHING AND NATURALLY HAVE MORE LIFE OPPORTUNITIES, CAREER OPTIONS AND SOCIAL OCCUPATIONS. THEY CAN LIVE HOW THEY WANT AND DO WHAT THEY WANT. THE SOLE THING THAT ALLOWS THAT IS THE DAMN HOLE AND HOLE ALONE. COPE WITH THAT YOU SINGLE UNWANTED MALE.
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