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Were your parents massively incompetent?

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It's honestly hard to fuck up so bad with kids unless you're incompetent drooling morons, and not at least get them to normie tier. My parents never looksmaxxxed me as a kid like all other intelligent parents did. Never got braces, or gave good food and made sure kid got plenty of sleep and sports. Ffs, wouldn't even go to a barber, cut hair themselves and looked dogshit every time so on. I even had mild pubertal gyno and they just made fun of me for it instead of helping me get surgery to fix it(had to wage slave later and get it myself). Never socialized the kid, especially knowing their own genetic trash status of being spergs so countering it as early as possible would be crucial.

If I was a parent (which will never happen now) I would be much more competent in basic things like preparing my kid to be as good looking and healthy as possible, and as sociable as possible. Most parents do this and the kid turns out at least high normie tier, and if sociable can get a gf through circles. But thanks to retard parents, child development went through the drain. Just gaslighting now about how it is all your own fault.
 
Yes bro, my mother taught me next to nothing and has done little more than sabotage me throughout my life.
 
Yes bro, my mother taught me next to nothing and has done little more than sabotage me throughout my life.
I lived with a single mom for years, it really makes dudes into bitches who can't do anything and do not know how to be men.

What little my mom taught me was all bluepilled and I had to unlearn it myself.
 
Yes bro, my mother taught me next to nothing and has done little more than sabotage me throughout my life.
Mine too. I despise my mother and have absolutely no sympathy for her going senile. The sooner she drops dead, the better.
 
I had VERY severe social anxiety when i was 12-20 and everytime i told my parents about that they called me a liar and basically a lazy parasite for skipping school and having problems concetrating on my tests which lead to me failing school after school. But did they care about helping me? Hell no, i did resolve my problem by accident when i choose to use public transport and joined a gym.
 
I lived with a single mom for years, it really makes dudes into bitches who can't do anything and do not know how to be men.

What little my mom taught me was all bluepilled and I had to unlearn it myself.
single momcel checking in.
 
No I'm just an ugly manlet autist.
 
They were incompetent and excesively verbally abusive. Especially my mother is retarded 4'10 midget. Very sad tbh. I will be levaing them soon to pursue my dreams.
 
My parents were too busy wageslaving and flipping apartments for profit, so I was raised by tutors, maids, my communist grandparents, and the idiots who ran my boarding school.
 
Mine too. I despise my mother and have absolutely no sympathy for her going senile. The sooner she drops dead, the better.
I despise my parents for giving birth to me in general, but knowing they have bad genes especially.
 
They did their best
 
My dad was he was an asshole who couldn't do a thing right I'm glad he left us
 
They sent me to a boarding school where nutrition was scarce, tasks are many so I didn't get enough sleep, and stress. And it was in my HS years, vital years for growth and looksmaxx
 
My parents were too busy wageslaving and flipping apartments for profit, so I was raised by tutors, maids, my communist grandparents, and the idiots who ran my boarding school.
Most Chinese thing I’ve ever heard
 
My father had me and my brother late in life, and fed us outdated bluepilled Boomer advice that only decreased our chances of escaping incel hell. The rock-bottom genetics that he passed on didn't help either, and neither did his helicopter parenting style and cringe-worthy social skills. To his credit, he dutifully fulfilled his betabuxx wageslaving role so the rest of us could live comfortably.

Don't even get me started about my mother. She hardly ever spoke to me because she preferred to spend her days talking to herself like the insane madwoman she is. She consistently treated me horribly, sided with my bullies growing up, said that I'm too ugly to be her son, and even walked into my bedroom with a knife one time when I was a teenager. She squandered close to a million dollars in my estimation (much of my dad's lifetime earnings plus several large inheritances) and also squandered her best chance of having grandchildren by feeding my brother all sorts of fattening food from an early age. She will likely spend her final years in squalor and be faced with genetic oblivion due to her shitty life decisions. And I won't feel the slightest bit of sympathy. She was born with the bases loaded, zero outs, and the ball placed nicely on a fucking tee -- and still managed to hit into a triple-play!
 
My parents were too busy wageslaving and flipping apartments for profit, so I was raised by tutors, maids, my communist grandparents, and the idiots who ran my boarding school.
You’re a rich cel, can’t you just buy copes? Or do you not get satisfaction from such things?
 
Yes, they were.

However...

I was previously a boy scout so I wasn't.

Therefore, I wasn't effected as bad as it could have been.

Don't get me wrong.

I had a shit childhood, but it could have been worse.
 
i would say yes
 
You’re a rich cel, can’t you just buy copes? Or do you not get satisfaction from such things?

I get drunk, feel shit the next day, and repeat. After a while the copes get boring. I'm just an upper-middle-classcel, an actual richcel has a way nicer life than I do.
Most Chinese thing I’ve ever heard

Fuck China
 
Unbelievably incompetent
 
I do believe having incompetent parents is an incel trait.
 
I won’t blame my parents because they recognized I was a genetic failure from the start and never put much pressure on me.
 
Kinda, but it was because my parents were always busy with work and shit. Tbh, I don't think anyone should have kids unless they make at least six figures a year and have a certain number hours a week to spend time with their kids. Kids who were basically raised off of babysitters and nannies such as I turn out bad.
I get drunk, feel shit the next day, and repeat. After a while the copes get boring. I'm just an upper-middle-classcel, an actual richcel has a way nicer life than I do.
I'm also an upper-middle-classcel and my parents don't give me jack shit to cope with except on my birthday and Christmas. I get a certain amount of money per month, but I can only spend it on groceries, but sometimes I find a way to spend it on copes, especially if I flip random shit on the internet that I find. Also, forgot to mention, only one of my parents has a high paying job, and they're separated too, so I either live like I'm on fucking welfare or a king depending on the parent I'm visiting (mostly living like I'm on welfare because that's where my bed + belongings are. FML).
 
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My inceldom was encoded in my DNA. Not playing sports or having a nice haircut had nothing to do with it.

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My inceldom was encoded in my DNA. Not playing sports or having a nice haircut had nothing to do with it.

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My point is, lots of normies are also genetic trash but their parents maximized their potential anyway. That is how skinny fat, mediocre and average height normies ascend.

Playing sports is extremely important when young. Not only is it a status boost, and a social connection, it's a natural hgh boost.
 
My dad was in jail for many years and is a total bully that I don't have any contact with, my mum done her best Bless her.

At least she can be proud of my married, finacially successful Chad older brother. Also my Stacy younger sister, whilst being a blonde haired and dim witted bimbo, will at least give her grandchildren and have a Betabux cuck husband after she's finished "exploring her sexuality sweaty." i.e "Riding the Cock Carousal."
 
My dad was in jail for many years and is a total bully that I don't have any contact with, my mum done her best Bless her.

At least she can be proud of my married, finacially successful Chad older brother. Also my Stacy younger sister, whilst being a blonde haired and dim witted bimbo, will at least give her grandchildren and have a Betabux cuck husband after she's finished "exploring her sexuality sweaty." i.e "Riding the Cock Carousal."
lol larp or do u actually have a chad/stacy siblings while being a microdicked incel?
 
No, but I wish they understood that “personality” won’t get me far since I look bad.
 
My dad was abusive. So yeah, he was incompetend as fuck. He locked me out of the house at night a few times when I was 8 years old.

My mom was fairly competent tbh.
 
I hate my parents
 
It's honestly hard to fuck up so bad with kids unless you're incompetent drooling morons, and not at least get them to normie tier. My parents never looksmaxxxed me as a kid like all other intelligent parents did. Never got braces, or gave good food and made sure kid got plenty of sleep and sports. Ffs, wouldn't even go to a barber, cut hair themselves and looked dogshit every time so on. I even had mild pubertal gyno and they just made fun of me for it instead of helping me get surgery to fix it(had to wage slave later and get it myself). Never socialized the kid, especially knowing their own genetic trash status of being spergs so countering it as early as possible would be crucial.

If I was a parent (which will never happen now) I would be much more competent in basic things like preparing my kid to be as good looking and healthy as possible, and as sociable as possible. Most parents do this and the kid turns out at least high normie tier, and if sociable can get a gf through circles. But thanks to retard parents, child development went through the drain. Just gaslighting now about how it is all your own fault.
Mine were also incompetent. I was picky when I was a kid and my parents thought it was better to get rid of that instead of adapting and giving me food that i liked so that I would grow. The result is that I was malnourished and underweight my entire teenage and that probably contributed to my abysmal frame and short height.

They also raised me to be nice and obedient jfl. A good child but someone who would never survive adulthood.
 
Both of my normie-tier parents were so unaware of how the world actually works, that they didn't care to give me a proper upbringing. Whenever I complain (which I don't do often because it makes me feel bad) about something in my life that was caused by them or genetics they just shun me to the side. It's always the same excuse: "nobody cares about your appearance" or "you are overthinking it". I can only fix so many of the problems that were thrust on to me and most of them revolve around looks; some of which are borderline unfixable.
 
Yes, they understand nothing of culture and basic human psychology. I sometimes wonder if they are even sentient.
 
My mother is a boomer cunt. She fed me the typical "MURICA WORK HARD PERSONALITY ANYTHING IS ACHIEVABLE" bullshit. She fed me junk food which caused to become fat she didn't tell me to use deodorant and she let me rock a unibrow. She let me go to school as a fat smelly unibrow wearing sub Human trash bag cuz "PERSONALITY AND WORKING HARD WITH GOOD GRADES MAKES U SUCCESSFUL AND GETS DA GIRLS" and then wondered why i was fuckin miserable and had no friends at that time.
 
I'm still going to attribute my lack of dating and social success to my genetics, however I do partly blame my parents for creating a socially inept subhuman.


From a young age, my life was:
School ---> Come Home ---> Watch TV/Play on device (if Lucky) ---> Work ---> Sleep ---> Repeat.

Of course these cycles would be broken by occasional holidays, but I never really had the typical childhoods you hear everybody else having.
I was never allowed to go to sleepovers (granted I was rarely invited).
I was never allowed to stay after school to hang around with the lack of friends I had - whom eventually disregarded me as an acquaintance as a result.
I was never allowed to stay up all night playing video games during the summer holidays.

The only think I could do is work.
My life has always been work.
Even convincing them to let me get a gym membership was a hercules task in itself.
I was literally fucking scared to have fun around my parents, and any time when I'd sneak in some time for fun by myself - it was short lived.
They'd yell at me. Sometimes even hit me, if they saw me playing.

From the age of 5, my parents (especially Dad) would say:
"You can play games when you're older", "You can have sleepovers when you're older and finish education".

I'm now at Uni. Doing a masters. Only have 2 friends/acquaintances who are as subhuman as I am.
Don't know how to socialise. How to make more friends. Even when talking to my lectures, I just profusely start sweating and run away.

When I finish Uni, I'll probably end up in a shitty 9-6 job Mon-Fri. The evenings spent going to the gym and the weekends spent recovering from the week of work + also going to the gym.
Where does the fucking time come to have fun? Where does the fucking time come to make friends? I don't even have any real friends yet, but my parents always deluded me about a future full of fun if I worked hard in school.

The only childhood I've ever had was gone and because I'm grounded in my faith: I can't even die to get out of this cycle. If I had known my life was going to get exponentially worse: I'd have gone through will killing myself after being beaten to the point my bones broke.
Now I'm trapped.





Now I've also come to the realisation I'm an Incel who'll never even have anyone to be with. Coming home to vacant cold home after a long shitty day at work, to nothing.
The only think I'm looking forward to is getting cancer (I may already have it as there's moles on my back). That way when I die, I won't be subject to a life in either hell.
 
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It's honestly hard to fuck up so bad with kids unless you're incompetent drooling morons, and not at least get them to normie tier. My parents never looksmaxxxed me as a kid like all other intelligent parents did. Never got braces, or gave good food and made sure kid got plenty of sleep and sports. Ffs, wouldn't even go to a barber, cut hair themselves and looked dogshit every time so on. I even had mild pubertal gyno and they just made fun of me for it instead of helping me get surgery to fix it(had to wage slave later and get it myself). Never socialized the kid, especially knowing their own genetic trash status of being spergs so countering it as early as possible would be crucial.

If I was a parent (which will never happen now) I would be much more competent in basic things like preparing my kid to be as good looking and healthy as possible, and as sociable as possible. Most parents do this and the kid turns out at least high normie tier, and if sociable can get a gf through circles. But thanks to retard parents, child development went through the drain. Just gaslighting now about how it is all your own fault.

My parents were freshly out of jail when I was born.
 
lol larp or do u actually have a chad/stacy siblings while being a microdicked incel?
Yes. When I have a much needed sleep (been up 53 hours and still going :kys:) I will make a thread with pics, my face will be blurred obviously. I think my mum had an affair with that Gigachad Ernest Khalimov for years and I'm just the Danny de Vito that is the only genetic failure offspring from my actual mum and dad :feelskek: :feelsrope::waitwhat:

Ernest Khalimov.

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I'm browsing in the pub but I never give a shit as it's full of my own kind lol.
 
Both of my normie-tier parents were so unaware of how the world actually works, that they didn't care to give me a proper upbringing. Whenever I complain (which I don't do often because it makes me feel bad) about something in my life that was caused by them or genetics they just shun me to the side. It's always the same excuse: "nobody cares about your appearance" or "you are overthinking it". I can only fix so many of the problems that were thrust on to me and most of them revolve around looks; some of which are borderline unfixable.
Same story!

I think most of us probably have a mix of bluepilled-dumb-narcissistic parents, because they just don't believe looks are important to us, and things will fall into place later on without any action....My parents even after seeing me getting humiliated in many occasions because of looks, they didn't seem to bother...In their heads it was always a matter of attitude and nothing more, like if i had a better attitude about my ugliness people would love me and treat me like a king outside....

I even had mild pubertal gyno and they just made fun of me for it instead of helping me get surgery to fix it(had to wage slave later and get it myself). Never socialized the kid, especially knowing their own genetic trash status of being spergs so countering it as early as possible would be crucial.
I also had mild gyno as a teen (still have) and my father reaction was mocking me and telling me to stop masturbating and lose fat...It's glandular tissue not fat, so I starved myself and ended up anorexic and the bitch tits were still there and then my parents just tried to gaslight me more, I was 15-16yo, that was brutal, on top of being ugly, gyno is like a never ending nightmare, I was just so ashamed of myself, I have evaded beaches and swimming pools since then...My mother didn't even realize it was a death sentence with girls and always told me it was only in my head!
 
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Yes, my father was quite bad in educationing me. But my mom was quite good.
I don't blame any one of them since it was quite hard to overcome, adjust, and understand all the cultural and intergenerational peculiarities of education.
 
It's honestly hard to fuck up so bad with kids unless you're incompetent drooling morons, and not at least get them to normie tier. My parents never looksmaxxxed me as a kid like all other intelligent parents did. Never got braces, or gave good food and made sure kid got plenty of sleep and sports. Ffs, wouldn't even go to a barber, cut hair themselves and looked dogshit every time so on. I even had mild pubertal gyno and they just made fun of me for it instead of helping me get surgery to fix it(had to wage slave later and get it myself). Never socialized the kid, especially knowing their own genetic trash status of being spergs so countering it as early as possible would be crucial.

If I was a parent (which will never happen now) I would be much more competent in basic things like preparing my kid to be as good looking and healthy as possible, and as sociable as possible. Most parents do this and the kid turns out at least high normie tier, and if sociable can get a gf through circles. But thanks to retard parents, child development went through the drain. Just gaslighting now about how it is all your own fault.

Same. Parents never gave a shit. Never got me braces to fix subhuman teeth and didnt care about the bullying I endured cause of it. . Had to fend for myself as a teen essentially. Retarded parenting creates failures who become incels.
 

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