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Serious What happens when you hit 30 as an incel?

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I won't find out.
 
I'll be blowing my brains out by that age.
 
Yep. For me, I just stopped caring and don't worry about others anymore. It's kind of a comfortably numb feeling and no one who still even talks to me can understand how I can be even moderately fine with it all. I guess they were expecting me to suicide but lol fuck them.
 
I was recently got told, that I don't age. Basically I think, I still look like a little boy, but on the other hand, my age is often guessed somewhat correct.

But I have the impression, that I will age like shit.

With low T and few sexual dimorphic traits you can be perceived in your 20s still as cute and boyish by some, but in the 30s it gets really weird. Even, when it doesn't shift dramatically to the creep spectrum, you generate to much cognitive dissonances with that age and that looks combined.
And women: The search for pretty boy Chad and manly Chad in females is probably less strong, the standards for looks may decrease, but you have to look manly and mature.
If God is real you can ask him for anything and being Incels you easely mogs 90% of the world population with your holiness. We are not as degenerated as chads and normies after all :feelsthink:
There is no virtue in abstinence when it's forced. And Jesus talked about that sin begin in the mind, in the thoughts.
 
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Will commit suicide by then. That's my death age. It's seriously over by that age, no young foid ever will approach you anymore if u even had a chance to begin with
At that point it's ovER for you. Just think even if you manage to ascend and get a used up roastie to settle for you, how can you relate to her or her normshit friends? All their stories of ex lovers and parties and shit, and what do you have to contribute to that convo? "Oh yeah, I'm an autist and didn't have sex until 35 when I met Roastina and begged her to marry me"

Foids, having a collective mindset, her roastie friends will then start signaling that they think you're "weird" and then even whatever redeeming quality you may have had that allowed Roastina to settle for you will dissipate and it's only a matter of time before she starts cheating with a normie and/or trying to upgrade to another slightly "better" boring niceguy only to repeat the process again

Face it, it's ovER especially by that age
 
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The following are based on my own experience and may/may not apply to you.

1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)

2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.


Other 30+cels can add to this.
nothing changes if you're at least reasonably healthy and thus don't look like an 80 year old man at 30

your parents/friends think you're still a young man with all the time in the world

you're still suicidally anxious because you know you've got some youth left but it's going away

basically it's pure shit and no one will ever understand this pain, least of all boomers and ESPECIALLY NOT female garbage
 
jflol at anyone who says they will rope before 30. I said the same thing. You'll hit 30 and nothing will change. Your sex drive doesn't disappear. Your interest in women doesn't change. The only thing that might happen is you will begin to truly lose hope as you get older. It won't happen all at once but gradually. And you'll probably be okay with it. There is something freeing about the whole thing to me.

Your taste in women might age with you, as well. And you'll be less concerned about a woman's sexual history. So basically your standards lower. I fapped to some woman in her mid thirties with saggy tits that worked a the gas station. God I wish I could bury my face in those saggy titties.
 
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you get your wizard robes and hat in the mail in 3-4 working days. :feelsmage:
 
Hopefully i'm not alive
 
Will never understand how you can not rope past 30 as an incel jfl
 
You will become wizard and you will be equipment with staff and basic spells.
And the most powerful spell is the ability to repel women.
 
Will never understand how you can not rope past 30 as an incel jfl
highly likely u won't rope by then as well
out of the incels who have said they will rope. only 1/100 do so
 
highly likely u won't rope by then as well
out of the incels who have said they will rope. only 1/100 do so
Maybe who knows, but soyciety is only going to get worse and by the looks of it i don't see my self living to 30 without ascending.
 
>1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)
I get treated way better now than I did in my early/mid 20s and it didn't change from 29->30. One of the few things gymcelling is actually good for.
>2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.
It's the same for me.
>3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.
I don't get this, I may not look old/wealthy enough.
>4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.
True
>5. You will start enjoying your copes more.
Nah honestly I'm getting tired of them.
>6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.
Suicidal feelings didn't dissipate but I feel less sad about it. Now it just seems like a natural relief to look up to. The urge to go ER has drastically fallen though.

At that point it's ovER for you. Just think even if you manage to ascend and get a used up roastie to settle for you, how can you relate to her or her normshit friends? All their stories of ex lovers and parties and shit, and what do you have to contribute to that convo? "Oh yeah, I'm an autist and didn't have sex until 35 when I met Roastina and begged her to marry me"

Foids, having a collective mindset, her roastie friends will then start signaling that they think you're "weird" and then even whatever redeeming quality you may have had that allowed Roastina to settle for you will dissipate and it's only a matter of time before she starts cheating with a normie and/or trying to upgrade to another slightly "better" boring niceguy only to repeat the process again

Face it, it's ovER especially by that age
Funny/Sad/True post
 
You should still probably keep an emergency suicide gun available at all times. Or a bomb in your trunk or backpack.

What if you get mogged so hard out of no where one day that it must be ended right then and there because after 30 there is NO hope
 
Honestly, nothing happens.

At some point you get used to your life more and more and - many would argue - even shift towards being a perceived volcel.
What I mean by this is that at the age of 20-25 you may only start realizing how big of a loser you are. At 25-30, while your sex drive is presumably higher, you may start having your standards getting lower (best time for a used-up roastie to catch you in a betabuxx relationship). At 30-35 you may suddenly start to value what you have in life and... start realizing that a relationship does not really fit it anymore. Yeah, sure, it would've been nice to have sex once in a while, but if it means (and by this time you realize it very well!) getting into a "committed relationship" as a cuck, fucking up your routines, messing up with your copes you invested so much in, having a dumb foid next to you all the time etc. etc., you may question yourself if it is worth it at all...
 
you turn into a fucking wizard thats wha t
I'm still waiting to gain Magery TBH, it's been four years. Maybe I'm a late bloomer and need to be Warlock at 35 to use my mana
 
2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.

Other 30+cels can add to this.
These points all wrong. Sex drive still high but feelings of desperation stronger then ever. Having sex is literally the only thing I think about day and night. The older you get, the more torture you have experienced. Being 30+ incel is pure hell. If you had hope for a miracle before, after 30, it's literally impossible for things to change. There is no hope even for a miracle. It's fucking over.
 
How would you deal with inceldom when you’re 50/60/70 though? Alone, no wife no family no grandchildren
 
The following are based on my own experience and may/may not apply to you.

1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)

2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.


Other 30+cels can add to this.

What happens when you hit 50 as an incel?

1. You are being offered seats in public places and don't have to wait in long lines, as if you were an ancient man. You get pissed off.
2. You don't have any sex drive left so you just bark at foids that you gladly would have fucked in your twenties
3. You are a regular at the pharmacy because you suffer from prostate related issues
4. You don't care about being an incel because you get tired quickly so chasing foids is out of the question.
5. Your only copes are sleeping and sitting in a park with other 50+ loosers
6. You're too tired to commit suicide yourself so you just hope that someone kills you instead.

Other oldcels can add to this. :feelskek:
 
How would you deal with inceldom when you’re 50/60/70 though? Alone, no wife no family no grandchildren
JFL at any incel reaching these ages. Maybe moneymaxxing to afford the best copes otherwise no way.
 
right after I turned 30 I went to a hooker ASAP
 
Next year I will finally be a wizard, too.
I hope to get some cool wizard powers to put a spell on females.
Wizard
 
The following are based on my own experience and may/may not apply to you.

1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)

2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.


Other 30+cels can add to this.
7. Not having and wearing a wedding ring raises questions - especially at your job and hurts your chances of getting a promotion. Its beyond over.
 
1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)
3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.
5. You will start enjoying your copes more.
6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.
All of these are fakecel traits. 5 is just laughable.
 
7. Not having and wearing a wedding ring raises questions - especially at your job and hurts your chances of getting a promotion. Its beyond over.

Thats part of point 1 tbh.
All of these are fakecel traits. 5 is just laughable.

Like i said, might not apply to everyone. It might well be true that things get worse for some incels after 30. It got better for me though.
 
The following are based on my own experience and may/may not apply to you.

1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)

2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.


Other 30+cels can add to this.

1. The longer you have been a loser, the worse the society treats you

2. I masturbate less, because even thinking about anything related makes me so fucking sad and crying and angry. If I somehow would have a GF, my sex drive would come back. (Or it has been there all the time, but I just try to concentrate on another things)

3. I don't get this and I am sad because I have no career/job. I would not reject GFs who would be after money, because so are the prostitutes and at least GF would not make phone alarm go off when the payed amount of time has passed.

4. Can't relate at all. I've never cared so much as starting last year when the decade was ending and this winter and spring when 29 and soon an official wizard. That's why I searched these incel things lately. After 2015 my life has been hell, it was better when I was under 25 and did not want children.

5. I can't enjoy my copes at all at the moment. I have literally multiple new and good PS4 games lying around that I just can't get myself to play. I don't want to watch other people having sex any more, it is crushing to me. I DON'T ENJOY ANYTHING AT THE MOMENT

6. No. Actually I haven't been wanting to die until this year when some really shit happened/became known to me.
 
Im over 30 and my brain should know is over for me. But it does not, thats why I keep with imsomnia, anxiety, fibromialgia and sex needs. but I also live in an enviroment were nothing happens so I wonder if my brain can change in such aplace
 
What happens is they board the departing flight out of Copenhagen bound for Ropenhagen.
 
For me: At 25 I'll prob start having the urge to rope, at 30 I'll finally realise my chance has reached 0% and commit
 
The following are based on my own experience and may/may not apply to you.

1. Soyciety treats you like shit. (if you think they do this alrdy, wait until you hit 30)

2. Your sex drive goes down, this is actually good since you dont have a foid to have sex with.

3. You get hints of interest from wrinkly old roasties who are after money. If youre poor, you wont even get this.

4. You will stop caring much about being an incel. It doesnt bother you as much as it does in your teens/twenties.

5. You will start enjoying your copes more.

6. Suicidal feelings dissipate. If youve made it this far, it means you have resisted the rope during tough times. You will most likely get to live out the rest of your natural life.


Other 30+cels can add to this.

1. 36 ricecel heightcel here. Soyciety has always treated me like shit, from day 0 to now. Being rice in the USA is such a crutch.

2. i never had sex so I don't really know, but I do masturbate a shit ton every day.

3. Poor living with my mom and dying stepfather. I definitely don't get any attention (let alone pussy) whatsoever.

4. This is absolutely true. Swallowing the blackpill was the best that could have ever happened to me. Now I just tend to nature and thankful I'm still walking and can breathe in oxygen on my own unlike the chinkvirus victims.

5. I guess. I don't have too many copes though. Maybe that's the key. Focus on having less copes. Then you have more energy to focus on them and making it better for yourself.

6. Nope I'm still suicidal. My stepfather has a glock 9mm. Once he dies from diabetic complications, I may use it to blow my head off, leaving my mom to fend for white cock for herself. She may turn into an escort but idc. She made my life just as much of a hell as my stepfather did. She never once stopped him from whipping me (yes, you read that right, he whipped me) and laughed when he made jokes about ricecels and tiny dicks.

She may bury me in a mass grave, or throw me in the Ohio River, or cremate me and then dump my ashes on the Ohio River. I really couldn't care less. I'll be long gone from this life as a mid to late 30s ricecel shortcel KHHV.
 
You start caring less. This is actually a good thing about getting older in general, you tend to care less about stuff compared to when you were young.
 
Figure out what your ascend plan is
 
I was recently got told, that I don't age. Basically I think, I still look like a little boy, but on the other hand, my age is often guessed somewhat correct.

But I have the impression, that I will age like shit.

With low T and few sexual dimorphic traits you can be perceived in your 20s still as cute and boyish by some, but in the 30s it gets really weird. Even, when it doesn't shift dramatically to the creep spectrum, you generate to much cognitive dissonances with that age and that looks combined.
And women: The search for pretty boy Chad and manly Chad in females is probably less strong, the standards for looks may decrease, but you have to look manly and mature.

There is no virtue in abstinence when it's forced. And Jesus talked about that sin begin in the mind, in the thoughts.

High IQ. What did u mean by it's gets really weird in your 30'sto look boyish tho?
 
I do wonder if the anti-escort side of the forum is simply on the younger group as I just cannot imagine someone hitting 30+ and still clinging onto the "chad gets it for free" mindset.
now that you mention it there is a noticeable correlation between the two. can't imagine a 30 year old KHHV still insisting he would never spend 60 dollars to get sex because it's "cucked"
 
1. 36 ricecel heightcel here. Soyciety has always treated me like shit, from day 0 to now. Being rice in the USA is such a crutch.

2. i never had sex so I don't really know, but I do masturbate a shit ton every day.

3. Poor living with my mom and dying stepfather. I definitely don't get any attention (let alone pussy) whatsoever.

4. This is absolutely true. Swallowing the blackpill was the best that could have ever happened to me. Now I just tend to nature and thankful I'm still walking and can breathe in oxygen on my own unlike the chinkvirus victims.

5. I guess. I don't have too many copes though. Maybe that's the key. Focus on having less copes. Then you have more energy to focus on them and making it better for yourself.

6. Nope I'm still suicidal. My stepfather has a glock 9mm. Once he dies from diabetic complications, I may use it to blow my head off, leaving my mom to fend for white cock for herself. She may turn into an escort but idc. She made my life just as much of a hell as my stepfather did. She never once stopped him from whipping me (yes, you read that right, he whipped me) and laughed when he made jokes about ricecels and tiny dicks.

She may bury me in a mass grave, or throw me in the Ohio River, or cremate me and then dump my ashes on the Ohio River. I really couldn't care less. I'll be long gone from this life as a mid to late 30s ricecel shortcel KHHV.

That's sounds brutal tbh. Only way out is to Moneymaxx and start living on your own.
 
That's sounds brutal tbh. Only way out is to Moneymaxx and start living on your own.

I work at a retail store as a cashier. I make shit wages. I have no escape from this life.
 

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