Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

Serious What Makes Someone Likeable?

  • Thread starter universallyabhorred
  • Start date
universallyabhorred

universallyabhorred

Banned
-
Joined
Nov 8, 2017
Posts
8,336
In b4 looks, I am talking mainly about social situations. A large portion of it has to do with social or conversational skills but that's not the only factor either. I have known guys who were more awkward or autistic, who had more friends and were better liked than me. So what factors do you think makes someone likeable and have an easy time making friends?
 
Good youthfull look only
 
I would say a "normal" life? Growing up in a normal household(two parents), have a decent job and have friends?(so nothing that i have except for the job), i just don't know lol
 
In b4 looks, I am talking mainly about social situations. A large portion of it has to do with social or conversational skills but that's not the only factor either. I have known guys who were more awkward or autistic, who had more friends and were better liked than me. So what factors do you think makes someone likeable and have an easy time making friends?

Looks would be the main thing, but imo opinion other aspects like humor and confidence might help.
 
Still looks, lol
Cope there were many guys who were below average or average at best who were popular. While there were decent looking autists who were despised.
 
Find people of similar looks. They won't mind befriending you.
 
Having a personality and mostly this:
I would say a "normal" life? Growing up in a normal household(two parents), have a decent job and have friends?(so nothing that i have except for the job), i just don't know lol
 
Cope there were many guys who were below average or average at best who were popular. While there were decent looking autists who were despised.
Maybe in highschool. The former have all roped by now while the latter prosper and fuck prime foids
 
For foids, being low inhib. For other guys, mainly having a common interest
 
I don't know but it doesn't matter so much since likeability is mainly an inherited quality according to what I've seen.
 
Some that can joke a lot i guess
 
In b4 looks, I am talking mainly about social situations. A large portion of it has to do with social or conversational skills but that's not the only factor either. I have known guys who were more awkward or autistic, who had more friends and were better liked than me. So what factors do you think makes someone likeable and have an easy time making friends?
Being fake, able to laugh at someones pathetic jokes, being a clown for the group. Listening like you care, talking about trivial garbage like TV shows, and films etc.
In order to socialise with Normies, you have to learn what they say and do, then copy it off in a cooler way. Alot of socialising with NTs is basically like Monkeys copying other Monkeys. There is no forward thinking, you just go along with the crowd.
 
Last edited:
Being NT. Unless you're deformed or missing teeth if you're NT ppl will overlook your ugliness. But it's very rare and out of your control anyways. To be NT you need normal childhood, loving parents, friends, have done activities like sports/band, it can't be changed with standing up straight and faking confidence.
 
Looks.

To men: Having a masculine face.
To foids: Being good looking
 
Being NT. Unless you're deformed or missing teeth if you're NT ppl will overlook your ugliness. But it's very rare and out of your control anyways. To be NT you need normal childhood, loving parents, friends, have done activities like sports/band, it can't be changed with standing up straight and faking confidence.

Disargee many sociopaths were good talkers despite having fucked up childhoods, you can take drugs/alcohol to help you socialise if your a quiet mute.
 
Alpha game and abundance mentality :soy::soy:
 
looks plus NT plus status. but if you have looks then the 2nd is basically a given and the 3rd is easy to get.
 
Disargee many sociopaths were good talkers despite having fucked up childhoods, you can take drugs/alcohol to help you socialise if your a quiet mute.
Only small % of ppl are sociopaths, it doesn't count. And what happens when you meet those ppl when you're not high/drunk? They'll know instantly that you were using a crutch, and avoid you. Get out with the normie advice.
 
80% looks, the rest is being neurotypical, outgoing, low inhib. Also sadly being a jester cuck kind of plays into it people are selfish so they will only like you if you make them feel good, either compliments or social validation or something like that.
 
On this forum?

Having an anime girl as an avi will get you accepted here
 
90% looks. 10% jestermaxing.
 
There are no social skills for you're FACE
 
No social skills, humor, personality, "CoNfiDenCe" or god himself will make a diffrence if you have a face that turns people off. you must be tall to be respected, you must have a "likeable face" to be liked and if u have that, than smelling good and the stuff i named at the beginning helps.
 
I like a person who is funny, not judgmental, supportive, empathetic, and politically neutral. He gives people what they want and says nice things. Being this guy has obvious drawbacks, which is why we don't see guys like that anymore.
 
If you are ugly, being a doormat and useful idiot.
 
How good you make them feel. This can be derived from looks, clout, jester, kissing ass.
 
I have a friend who is probably the worst combination of being short (5'4), barrel chested, small shoulders, round face, and balding.

He was doomed. But miraculously, after an enormous amount of low inhib, and maxxing out his friend network he ended up betabuxing a single mom at around 35 years old. Even had a kid with her (doesnt look his his but that's another story).

One key thing I noticed, especially with how he as able to be so friendly and outgoing was to pretend he was interested in literally everything. Not in a sociopathic way, but legitimately so he'd be able to tag along on whatever plans people had going on. He had just amazing ability to befriend virtually anyone, even really, really attractive women. It was absolutely fucking surreal. He knew he had zero shot at bagging these girls, but he had so many friends that he'd throw bbq parties and stuff and invite them all over.

If you saw him, you'd say it was over. But after decades of work, it finally paid off and he is now successfully betabuxxing.
 
Being higher status than everyone else and eager to show it. You won't make other high status friends that way tho
 
dont be autistic. easier said than done.
 
Being white, strong chin, being NT
 
Idk nobody ever liked me.
 
Being attractive
 
how would I know. nobody likes me. If you want I can tell you want makes people non-likable.
 
Being low inhib, having common interests, and not being a douchebag. Look up interviews with male models, they're extremely NT and confident as hell. BUT they are also massively haloed by their looks.
 

Similar threads

NotTheElliot
Replies
4
Views
204
Tacomonkey
Tacomonkey
ForeverGrey
Replies
45
Views
944
edgelordcel
edgelordcel
N
Replies
10
Views
278
UglyDumbass
U
Dr. Autismo
Replies
7
Views
344
Gendocel
Gendocel
N
Replies
4
Views
297
Kaichee
Kaichee

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top