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It's Over What should you do if by age 43 you have never had any relationships with women? Llllll

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What should you do if by age 43 you have never had any relationships with women? The thought that my first girlfriend could be a menapausal 42-50 year old, or an old obese single mother makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

Should I fully focus on Pattaya maxing?

I could sell my house in 3 years when I'm 45/46 for £140'000, and I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while. I could possibly get a slim thai girl around 30-32 at 46 if I looksmax a bit. Still seems a pipedream though tbh.
 
idk tbh, I wouldnt know how to cope if I was at that age
 
What should you do if by age 43 you have never had any relationships with women? The thought that my first girlfriend could be a menapausal 42-50 year old, or an old obese single mother makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

Should I fully focus on Pattaya maxing?

I could sell my house in 3 years when I'm 45/46 for £140'000, and I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while. I could possibly get a slim thai girl around 30-32 at 46 if I looksmax a bit. Still seems a pipedream though tbh.

Yes def move to SEA permanently it's better than living in the West.
 
I don't know bro, ask me again in 7 years.
 
Enjoy copes or rope
 
Surgerymaxx level 99 as your last-ditch effort!
 
keep coping with something productive
 
I'd go with your patay plan if I were you, this country is shit & there's nothing but misery awaiting you; get away if you can, use jbw in sea.
 
I'd go with your patay plan if I were you, this country is shit & there's nothing but misery awaiting you; get away if you can, use jbw in sea.

Are you British too?
 
Find some copes. go to some shithole country to fuck hookers
 
The thought that my first girlfriend could be a menapausal 42-50 year old, or an old obese single mother makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

good, it should

those women are used, damaged, and worthless

do not lower your standards

seek out a virgin
 
How did it even come so far OP? In your shoes I would have SEAmaxxed way sooner.
 
Tbh. I would go to a smaller city since the big ones looks like a tourist trap, and settle with a prime qt. :feelsohh:

I will look into it. I'm not that geographically or culturally educated on Thai cities outside of Bangkok or Pattaya. But if I'm in an area with no or few ex-pats, I may be targeted for xenophobic abuse (but that pales in comparison to the abuse I've received by British women).
 
What should you do if by age 43 you have never had any relationships with women? The thought that my first girlfriend could be a menapausal 42-50 year old, or an old obese single mother makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

Should I fully focus on Pattaya maxing?

I could sell my house in 3 years when I'm 45/46 for £140'000, and I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while. I could possibly get a slim thai girl around 30-32 at 46 if I looksmax a bit. Still seems a pipedream though tbh.
Please refer to your username.
 
How did it even come so far OP? In your shoes I would have SEAmaxxed way sooner.

Because I was a naughty man and not allowed to travel abroad for 10 years.
 
Are you British too?
English, proper white going back centuries; not some "British passport" 2nd generation fucker.
Hate this country so much, I don't fit in with other natives as I grew up in a heavily (read; majority non native) immigrant occupied area so was the autistic cracker that stood out in a bad way.
 
Honestly you deserve a diamond made medal of honor for being an incel up to 43. Mad respect.
 
the answer to any and every question ever asked by a man: be chad
 
English, proper white going back centuries; not some "British passport" 2nd generation fucker.
Hate this country so much, I don't fit in with other natives as I grew up in a heavily (read; majority non native) immigrant occupied area so was the autistic cracker that stood out in a bad way.

My direct ancestors were wealthy Norman's (the Norman's of Britain not "normies") given land by William the conqueror. Shit is depressing that our bloodlines come to a screeching halt in the 21st soy century.
Did you ER someone?

No but I looked at some illegal loli cartoons over the internet.
 
I could sell my house in 3 years when I'm 45/46 for £140'000, and I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while. I could possibly get a slim thai girl around 30-32 at 46 if I looksmax a bit. Still seems a pipedream though tbh.

This, this actually sounds like a great plan, but right now before those 3 years are up, you should try and create online passive income streams, so that when you do make the transition you'll have some money coming in at least
How did it even come so far OP? In your shoes I would have SEAmaxxed way sooner.
 
I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while.

Thailand does not allow longer stays than 2 weeks. How can we move there permanently?!?

I am in the same boat. But I am younger, but no job/career, modest savings (could travel to SEA if I wanted).

Old pensioner women from Nordic countries go to Gambia to bring young fucktoy men here. I am pensioner also, I want to do the same, but bring a woman here, from anywhere, what is the most realistic country? I think sub-Saharan Africa. I don't want to just visit SEA/Africa, waste my savings and then be incel when I come back. I want to bring someone here or move permanently to somewhere where I am not an incel.
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Also, Pattaya is good only for paid sex.
 
My direct ancestors were wealthy Norman's (the Norman's of Britain not "normies") given land by William the conqueror. Shit is depressing that our bloodlines come to a screeching halt in the 21st soy century.


No but I looked at some illegal loli cartoons over the internet.
I come from peasants that had to poach & steal to put food on table or so I'm told but there was a dude owned a castle that was later turned into library in the area with same surname a few hundred years ago, meh.

Was the loli 2d or 3d?
 
Just get money. In the next few years you are going to lose sexual desire
 
This, this actually sounds like a great plan, but right now before those 3 years are up, you should try and create online passive income streams, so that when you do make the transition you'll have some money coming in at least

If I sell my house for 140'000 and buy an apartment for 45'000, I'll still have 95'000-90'000 in my bank.
 
Imagine being a wizard and not hanging from a rope.

How does anyone get that old as a virgin and not have roped?
 
I come from peasants that had to poach & steal to put food on table or so I'm told but there was a dude owned a castle that was later turned into library in the area with same surname a few hundred years ago, meh.

Was the loli 2d or 3d?


2d loli from legal Japanese websites and post image boards (legal only in Japan).
Imagine being a wizard and not hanging from a rope.

How does anyone get that old as a virgin and not have roped?

Not a virgin. I have used escorts.
 
The limit is 30 days and 90 days for every 6 months.
 
If I sell my house for 140'000 and buy an apartment for 45'000, I'll still have 95'000-90'000 in my bank.

Yeah, but there's no such thing as too much money, wouldn't you like to at some point be able to buy another apartment and rent it out
 
What should you do if by age 43 you have never had any relationships with women? The thought that my first girlfriend could be a menapausal 42-50 year old, or an old obese single mother makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

Should I fully focus on Pattaya maxing?

I could sell my house in 3 years when I'm 45/46 for £140'000, and I could get an apartment in Pattaya for £45'000 and live comfortably earning peanuts for a while. I could possibly get a slim thai girl around 30-32 at 46 if I looksmax a bit. Still seems a pipedream though tbh.
Eat rice
 
Yeah, but there's no such thing as too much money, wouldn't you like to at some point be able to buy another apartment and rent it out

I could do that. But you just can't get up and live in another country permanently, you need a valid reason such as employment and they might not accept me full stop for my loli cartoon porn conviction in 2008, even though it should be "spent" afaik.
 
2d loli from legal Japanese websites and post image boards (legal only in Japan).


Not a virgin. I have used escorts.
Can ya recall the name of it or the creator, ya got me curious. Plod came down on ya 'cos of that?
 
How can it be illegal to watch non-real girls? No rights of anyone was infringed. Victimless crime.
 
How can it be illegal to watch non-real girls? No rights of anyone was infringed. Victimless crime.
Tell that to ppl that see no difference between jacking it to a 14 year old 2d loli with oppai & someone irl raping a 3 month old baby.
How can it be illegal to watch non-real girls? No rights of anyone was infringed. Victimless crime.
This is the same country that got flack for arresting too many Pakistani peado gangs (they're responsible for majority of group peado rings) & so the top brass told their officers to go after non Asians to not have Pakistanis so over represented on the statistics by nationality as apparently that's racist. Yeah just ignore that group as much as possible & go after any other ethnic group to "balance the books".
 
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Can ya recall the name of it or the creator, ya got me curious. Plod came down on ya 'cos of that?

Arrested at 6am in early October 2006 by about 4 cops and 2 search warrant guys. Dragged to the local station and was told to make no comment by my solicitor.

They took my computer. Took nearly 2 years to get to court (June 2008) as forensics department is backlogged and under resourced. Was told police had found 186 still cartoon images and 60 videos of Lolita cartoon porn. get told I'd get a community order and 5 years on the register as I had no previous convictions. Ended up getting a harsh judge on the day of sentencing and was sent to jail for 8 months (4;months locked up, 4 months on parole) and 10 years on the sex offender register. Appealed like crazy for my Draconian punishment and diagnosis for Asperger's but to no avail.
 
Arrested at 6am in early October 2006 by about 4 cops and 2 search warrant guys. Dragged to the local station and was told to make no comment by my solicitor.

They took my computer. Took nearly 2 years to get to court (June 2008) as forensics department is backlogged and under resourced. Was told police had found 186 still cartoon images and 60 videos of Lolita cartoon porn. get told I'd get a community order and 5 years on the register as I had no previous convictions. Ended up getting a harsh judge on the day of sentencing and was sent to jail for 8 months (4;months locked up, 4 months on parole) and 10 years on the sex offender register. Appealed like crazy for my Draconian punishment and diagnosis for Asperger's but to no avail.
This is airstrip 1 & it hates it's own citizens, values refugees with hatred in their hearts more & there is no justice. This country is F.U.C.K.E.D
 
This is airstrip 1 & it hates it's own citizens, values refugees with hatred in their hearts more & there is no justice. This country is F.U.C.K.E.D

You can't imagine my anger.

Me, a harmless autistic man with no convictions, treated like a royal disturbed predatory nonce just for some curiosity phase of adolescent cartoon girls. I thought because I was looking at .JP websites (Japanese domain) I wasn't doing anything wrong as it was legal in Japan at the time to look at loli cartoons
-- or anything you wish to for that matter.

Not only that but two weeks prior to my conviction in court a brick was hurled through my window at 1am in the morning, two youths were seen running away by a witness (taxi driver) but never caught. My offence was never in the media, so I'm assuming they were tipped off (or maybe some local saw police taking my computer's away).
 
I could do that. But you just can't get up and live in another country permanently, you need a valid reason such as employment and they might not accept me full stop for my loli cartoon porn conviction in 2008, even though it should be "spent" afaik.

Well maybe you should apply for citizenship before you sell your house
 
Can you describe what makes you ugly? I’m old but not as old as you. As my last ditch effort I am steroidmaxxing this year in hopes of getting a girl to fall for my body. If that don’t work I will kms or just give up on women. Could say lower my standards to 1-2/10 but I would have zero attraction plus not even sure I can get that at this point.
 
Can you describe what makes you ugly? I’m old but not as old as you. As my last ditch effort I am steroidmaxxing this year in hopes of getting a girl to fall for my body. If that don’t work I will kms or just give up on women. Could say lower my standards to 1-2/10 but I would have zero attraction plus not even sure I can get that at this point.


- weak chin, potato jaw 4.5/10 face
- high hairline
- fuzzy light eyebrows that look weird but black head hair
- shit facial hair growth
- 5'10 > 5'9.5
- not gym maxed
- buccal fat
 

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