When I try to act more extroverted they see me like a retard

[Sitchnatio]

I tried to talk like NT, over excited about stupid stuff and more loud/friendly/frantic.

I end up talking about awkward things when they ask me questions just because I try to talk more and have more flow to be more friendly.

Ex.
Does your uncle work there?

Me:
No; my uncle work as janitor in my hone town. It's a nice town and he has 3 children exc.


Not even joking but its the last time I try to do that.
I don't even know if its autism or being a retard

 

[Deleted member 29003]

if you were good looking it would have been funny

 

[Deleted member 27204]

I tried to talk like NT, over excited about stupid stuff and more loud/friendly/frantic.

I end up talking about awkward things when they ask me questions just because I try to talk more and have more flow to be more friendly.

Ex.
Does your uncle work there?

Me:
No; my uncle work as janitor in my hone town. It's a nice town and he has 3 children exc.


Not even joking but its the last time I try to do that.
I don't even know if its autism or being a retard

"putting yourself out there" and "being more social" like others tell incels to do is setting incels up for failure and often deliberately.

 

[Deleted member 21768]

There's no way to "act" like an extrovert. You're not an extrovert. Most of us, or I would say all of us but whatever, are not extroverts.

Any of us trying to act like one would look like a retard.

 

[Ecstasy]

I fucking get you bro.
Whenever I try to be socially active by my own initiative at work I fail completely. I made a promise to myself only to talk when someone talks to me first. Otherwise I will just fail over and over again.

 

[Sneepysqar]

You're trying to act like something you're not. Even if you 're convincing, you'd hate it. No point in trying