Venting "When I'll have a girlfriend"... who else used to think like that ?

[latin_elioth]

Who else used to think like that? "When I'll have a girlfriend" that damn phrase.

When I was a child I used to like music videos like "Game of love" from Santa Ana. And I used to think "When I'll have a girlfriend", In my mind, it was something that was bound to happen, it always seemed too easy for everyone else but for some reason not for me. So I waited and try my best because in my mind was "impossible" that I would never have one.

What a fucking stupid I was.
"Whan I'll have a girlfriend"

Now I don't wait any longer. I just laugh at my previous stupidity and obliviousness


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKLnmMacEB4

 

[Deleted member 28304]

nearly impossible for us to actually get a girl to like us, going out for dinner and such things

 

[Angry_runt]

Yeah it seemed inevitable rather than impossible.

 

[Deleted member 29003]

I must have been in middle school coping with a growth spurt to be thinking like this.

Now I don't wait any longer. I just laugh at my previous stupidity and obliviousness

 

[Neggr]

guy looks like gaddafi

 

[Deleted member 32431]

guy looks like gaddafi

ghaddafi mogs him from Tripoli to the white house

 

[AmIjustDreaming]

i knew i would never have one

 

[Gymcelled]

Who else used to think like that? "When I'll have a girlfriend" that damn phrase.

When I was a child I used to like music videos like "Game of love" from Santa Ana. And I used to think "When I'll have a girlfriend", In my mind, it was something that was bound to happen, it always seemed too easy for everyone else but for some reason not for me. So I waited and try my best because in my mind was "impossible" that I would never have one.

What a fucking stupid I was.
"Whan I'll have a girlfriend"

Now I don't wait any longer. I just laugh at my previous stupidity and obliviousness

You have no idea how hard i relate to that. Tho the "when i'll have a gf" thing stopped many years ago

 

[HyperVersager_4EVER]

Yeah I was pretty delusional with my expectations
Blackpill reality hit me like a truck

 

[VindalooCell]

In my mind, it was implicit.

 

[latin_elioth]

You have no idea how hard i relate to that. Tho the "when i'll have a gf" thing stopped many years ago

This is one thing that I like about the Incels community. One can get some peace knowing other people have the same experience that you. Otherwise I would think I'm becoming insane

 

[Gymcelled]

This is one thing that I like about the Incels community. One can get some peace knowing other people have the same experience that you. Otherwise I would think I'm becoming insane

God damn on point. Anywhere else people don't understand when i try to tell them I'm numb and can't see light at the end of the tunnel

People think I'm "negative" or "giving up" when i tell them I've never had even a hint of a sign of attraction coming from a woman despite self improving so much. Nothing in my life has ever suggested the possibility of me succeeding in any way yet people think my outlook is "negative"

 

[Deleted member 27161]

Used to always believe I'd find one eventually, then reality started to chip in once I left hs and had been on dating apps for 2+ years, and got rejected every time I approached

 

[Uglyme]

It's easier to become rich than to have a gf for us

 

[Emba]

Never.

It was never that open/general of a thought.

It was usually more oneitis style.

But never considered gf until after a few dates. I sorta considered friendships a potential gf... But that faded fast...

 

[dirtykombatcel]

pain

 

[latin_elioth]

pain

Is not even pain any more. Is more like a deep sadness that transform in numbness

 

[Deleted member 28148]

impossible for us to actually get a girl to like us, going out for dinner and such things

 

[achref]

Blackpill reality hit me like a truck

 

[latin_elioth]

Yeah I was pretty delusional with my expectations
Blackpill reality hit me like a truck

For my the black pill was like watching an lovecraftian horror. Is something that mark you for life. Something that is always in the back of your mind

 

[crestfallencel]

i just assumed one day i would have some kind of meet-cute experience like in the movies and suddenly have a girlfriend. what a fucking scam.

 

[latin_elioth]

i just assumed one day i would have some kind of meet-cute experience like in the movies and suddenly have a girlfriend. what a fucking scam.

Such things do actually happened. They just forget to mention that is not for people like us, is just for Chads and ocationaly to high tiers normies

 

[Dead Fish]

Thank you. This bring back memories.
Yeah I thought it was bound to happen. I would see the bums on the street and they had somebody. I knew women were into guys in jail. Either they wanted to meet guys in jail or they went and visited their guys in jail. So yeah, why not me?
Million years later... not me.

 

[Byronic Incellino]

Who else used to think like that? "When I'll have a girlfriend" that damn phrase.

When I was a child I used to like music videos like "Game of love" from Santa Ana. And I used to think "When I'll have a girlfriend", In my mind, it was something that was bound to happen, it always seemed too easy for everyone else but for some reason not for me. So I waited and try my best because in my mind was "impossible" that I would never have one.

What a fucking stupid I was.
"Whan I'll have a girlfriend"

Now I don't wait any longer. I just laugh at my previous stupidity and obliviousness


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HKLnmMacEB4

Very relatable
I wish you a good life without a backstabbing gold digger whore

 

[steadyCoping]

I assumed it was something that happened to every jfl

 

[RAO]

not really i didn't think i would get a gf.