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When people say “learn to be happy single/love yourself”, what am I supposed to feel?

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black_depresso

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Can someone pls explain what is meant by this? How are you supposed to love yourself, and love being single? Right now I see no other legitimate way except drugging myself out of my consciousness with prescription meds from a psychiatrist. Or maybe Valium. Idk. I just hear “learn to love yourself and the single life” and blank out on what this means and/or how I’m supposed to achieve it

I’m not capable of wilful delusion. I see a problem, I’m not going to pretend it’s not there, I physically can’t stop thinking about it
 
i dont want to sound like bluepilled morron but i really have learnt how to live alone, im unhappy coz i cant fuck
 
that is translated into common as "shut the fuck up, stop speaking to me about your problems and just deal with it".
 
that is translated into common as "shut the fuck up, stop speaking to me about your problems and just deal with it".
 
It’s signaling for you to take more showers, improve your personality and just be more confident :feelsokman:
 
Pay your taxes and die.
 
i dont want to sound like bluepilled morron but i really have learnt how to live alone, im unhappy coz i cant fuck
I'm happy on my own I'm not happy being ugly though
 
I'm happy on my own I'm not happy being ugly though
yeah that's a point, tbh if i was able to fuck often then i wouldnt need relationship coz its unnecessary burden
 
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Christian morals (bluepill morals) enshrine asceticism (contentment with nothing) to pacify envy in those who struggle to get what they want. In saying "learn to be happy on your own" they really mean "learn to self-fulfil your own desires so you don't cause any trouble." Cain and Abel might as well be named Chad and Incel (except Cain was the incel).
 
Christian morals (bluepill morals) enshrine asceticism (contentment with nothing) to pacify envy in those who struggle to get what they want. In saying "learn to be happy on your own" they really mean "learn to self-fulfil your own desires so you don't cause any trouble." Cain and Abel might as well be named Chad and Incel (except Cain was the incel).
I hate that youre 100% correct tbh ngl

The truth is dark and miserable.
 
They want you to shut up and learn your place
 
Christian morals (bluepill morals) enshrine asceticism (contentment with nothing) to pacify envy in those who struggle to get what they want. In saying "learn to be happy on your own" they really mean "learn to self-fulfil your own desires so you don't cause any trouble." Cain and Abel might as well be named Chad and Incel (except Cain was the incel).
very intresting albatros iq
 
learn to be a sedated faggot who's gonna die alone and whose genes are destined for the rotting tip as I fuck new Chads every weekend and wont ever understand what it's like to deal with crippling depression and loneliness, teehee
 
i have tried copes to distract myself and it simply doesn't work

i have to be severely drugged to be "happy being single"
 
Foids often say that from their perspective.Of course it wouldn't be that hard to be single when you can get your sexual needs met,when you get validation everywhere etc..
 
that is translated into common as "shut the fuck up, stop speaking to me about your problems and just deal with it".
high iq respond
 
i dont want to sound like bluepilled morron but i really have learnt how to live alone, im unhappy coz i cant fuck

Same, sex is the only thing I'm missing, once I can escortcel cost effectively, I'm set for life
 
It’s not blue pill. Gotta learn being happy by yourself, accepting and trying to improve yourself without always expecting a girl in your life. And if she goes come one day it will be a pleasant surprise
 
that is translated into common as "shut the fuck up, stop speaking to me about your problems and just deal with it".

Based as fuck.
Pay your taxes and die.
learn to be a sedated faggot who's gonna die alone and whose genes are destined for the rotting tip as I fuck new Chads every weekend and wont ever understand what it's like to deal with crippling depression and loneliness, teehee
They want you to shut up and learn your place
 
They actually expect you to do just that
 
that is translated into common as "shut the fuck up, stop speaking to me about your problems and just deal with it".
Exactly why all normie "advice" is worthless/useless and dumb.
 
Same, sex is the only thing I'm missing, once I can escortcel cost effectively, I'm set for life
yeah im hoping to get decent money now in UK and escortmaxx as fuck, i dont need anything more, i can even accept a fact im not attractive
 
No such thing as learn to be happy single. You can cope but being forcibly single has very serious physical and mental health consequences. It’s basic biology.
 
Christian morals (bluepill morals) enshrine asceticism (contentment with nothing) to pacify envy in those who struggle to get what they want. In saying "learn to be happy on your own" they really mean "learn to self-fulfil your own desires so you don't cause any trouble." Cain and Abel might as well be named Chad and Incel (except Cain was the incel).
I've waited too long for someone like you to be here.
But yes, essentially asceticism is imprisonment by ideology. Almost all forms of perception are that way.
I hate that youre 100% correct tbh ngl

The truth is dark and miserable.
That's because the diceroll of how physics ended up becoming move independently of our emotions. Things simply exist, and have the gravitational fallpoint in places that will not be to our liking.
 
I've waited too long for someone like you to be here.
But yes, essentially asceticism is imprisonment by ideology. Almost all forms of perception are that way.

That's because the diceroll of how physics ended up becoming move independently of our emotions. Things simply exist, and have the gravitational fallpoint in places that will not be to our liking.
What’s your IQ?
 
I will never be happy without my ripped tan kuudere puncherfu
 
"learn to be happy single" = "Stop getting out of line and stay in your place subhuman"
 
The people who say this shit have HAD love and sex and know that they WILL HAVE love and sex in the future. Of course they can be happy single, because it just means a time they get to have casual sex between long term partners. Not the crushing depression of knowing you’ll never get those biological and emotional needs met
 
The people who say this shit have HAD love and sex and know that they WILL HAVE love and sex in the future. Of course they can be happy single, because it just means a time they get to have casual sex between long term partners. Not the crushing depression of knowing you’ll never get those biological and emotional needs met
This exactly

People tell me the Learn To Be Happy Single (L2BHS) and I’m like, wow, how am I supposed to convey to you the immense, soul crushing gravity of NEVER getting love and acceptance and intimacy from a loving partner?

You can’t possibly understand or appreciate the fucking mind destroying weight of this suffering unless you’ve lived through it, every second of your life on this planet.
 
What they really mean is, just be an asexual wageslave cog that keeps society running to their benefit, and go home to your video games and alcohol. Never reproduce, just keep the tax money flowing and don’t think about sex.
 
What they really mean is, just be an asexual wageslave cog that keeps society running to their benefit, and go home to your video games and alcohol. Never reproduce, just keep the tax money flowing and don’t think about sex.
That's the plan for non-chads who love themselves. And if you're lucky you might be able to betabux a post wall landwhale while she refuses to have sex with you and cheats on you with tyrone every week.
 
I used to accept my situation and was pretty happy with myself.
Guess what?

Didn't work!!

After constant rejection and discrimination, I started to lose respect for myself.
 
I used to accept my situation and was pretty happy with myself.
Guess what?

Didn't work!!

After constant rejection and discrimination, I started to lose respect for myself.
They want you to be like that matt cuck from the incel documentary who sings karaoke every week and still gets no pussy.
 
I'm an arrogant enough person so I can like myself, but that still doesn't change the fact that without love from a woman, a man's life is pointless.
 

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