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In all those failures of life you had to go through, you and everything about you is the lowest common denominator that it all leads back to. You have to understand one thing, you are an abnormality that does not belong in this time and place. And therefore everything that emits some type of normality will make you glow in stark contrast. You are not normal. Your average semi- or uneducated and frankly often borderline retarded becky and joe are what is normal. It's not any of their faults that you can not integrate into their shitfest of a society. In another place at another time maybe you would be part of the normal individuals but we all have to do with the cards we are dealt.
All this talk of assigning blame is redundantly boring and nonsensical. It doesn't matter what the reasons are for your abnormality or what the reasons are for other people's normality. Nature, nurture, pointless truths searcher. Who cares? You are an abnormality, that is all that matters. You can always do something about your plights, no matter which is the case. But just because you can do something about it doesn't mean that you will or that you should. In fact, if the costs of those changes were not unaffordably high, you would have made them already. Nurture believers will claim that's false and that you're just lazy. Perhaps you really are just lazy and there are solutions all around you, small things that you could change and that would accumulate into what you want. But so what? Do you need a lecture on human nature or something before you get how people end up where they are? Humans prefer to be lazy in their choices. Even if those choices are not rational nor yield the best results, these decisions will always be part of our lives. You wouldn't be able to live if you didn't rely on lazy choices, short-term memory and oversimplification to make sense of things and to make on-the-fly daily decisions. Don't think for a second that you aren't lazy, you most definitely are, everyone is. And you already made your decisions for how to organise your life, given your circumstances and having your lazy mind applied to it. People's logical mistake is to exclusively chase after the positives, never to accept the necessity of negatives even though you need them for those positives to survive, be those laziness, greediness or others.
In any case, you could certainly do something about your situation. But whatever you did that could improve your situation would be something others are either indifferent towards or gleefully envious and resentful of so unless you are talking with an abnormality like yourself you can be certain that they will at best give you neutral and indifferent information which is highly unlikely. Indifference is really the best outcome you can get. Other people can't be happy for you because they hold no stakes in your good fortune. And for them to be happy for you without holding stakes in your life's success requires for them to identify with you on some level, which as we already learned is impossible since you are an abnormality. I'm sure some smartasses will now think we are all abnormalities of some kind, we are all unique and different, a little cray cray in our own way. No. If you fit into any kind of societal pre-given mold, you are the definition of the norm. Maybe you even have some sort of niche interests, but that doesn't really distinguish you from others in terms of an identity unless you make that niche your identity. But identifying as genderfluid non-binary, a nazi, a feminist, a gamer, an artist, influencer etc. still makes you at least a part of a pattern that is the norm because such focus on identities is simply Zeitgeist, it is trendy in our times to have these identities. Your identity group(s) don't have to make up a majority of any kind of the population for it to be the norm because the norm is the way of thinking that make up the encompassing frame behind all of these, that a majority of the population are a part of.
To bring all of this together, you are an abnormality for some irrelevant reason. Even if you could do something about your situation, you won't do anything more as what will be within your capabilities in any given situation regardless of the mouthful of others. The advice of others can't change your circumstances, your genetics, your resources or your abnormality at any point in time of your life.
All this talk of assigning blame is redundantly boring and nonsensical. It doesn't matter what the reasons are for your abnormality or what the reasons are for other people's normality. Nature, nurture, pointless truths searcher. Who cares? You are an abnormality, that is all that matters. You can always do something about your plights, no matter which is the case. But just because you can do something about it doesn't mean that you will or that you should. In fact, if the costs of those changes were not unaffordably high, you would have made them already. Nurture believers will claim that's false and that you're just lazy. Perhaps you really are just lazy and there are solutions all around you, small things that you could change and that would accumulate into what you want. But so what? Do you need a lecture on human nature or something before you get how people end up where they are? Humans prefer to be lazy in their choices. Even if those choices are not rational nor yield the best results, these decisions will always be part of our lives. You wouldn't be able to live if you didn't rely on lazy choices, short-term memory and oversimplification to make sense of things and to make on-the-fly daily decisions. Don't think for a second that you aren't lazy, you most definitely are, everyone is. And you already made your decisions for how to organise your life, given your circumstances and having your lazy mind applied to it. People's logical mistake is to exclusively chase after the positives, never to accept the necessity of negatives even though you need them for those positives to survive, be those laziness, greediness or others.
In any case, you could certainly do something about your situation. But whatever you did that could improve your situation would be something others are either indifferent towards or gleefully envious and resentful of so unless you are talking with an abnormality like yourself you can be certain that they will at best give you neutral and indifferent information which is highly unlikely. Indifference is really the best outcome you can get. Other people can't be happy for you because they hold no stakes in your good fortune. And for them to be happy for you without holding stakes in your life's success requires for them to identify with you on some level, which as we already learned is impossible since you are an abnormality. I'm sure some smartasses will now think we are all abnormalities of some kind, we are all unique and different, a little cray cray in our own way. No. If you fit into any kind of societal pre-given mold, you are the definition of the norm. Maybe you even have some sort of niche interests, but that doesn't really distinguish you from others in terms of an identity unless you make that niche your identity. But identifying as genderfluid non-binary, a nazi, a feminist, a gamer, an artist, influencer etc. still makes you at least a part of a pattern that is the norm because such focus on identities is simply Zeitgeist, it is trendy in our times to have these identities. Your identity group(s) don't have to make up a majority of any kind of the population for it to be the norm because the norm is the way of thinking that make up the encompassing frame behind all of these, that a majority of the population are a part of.
To bring all of this together, you are an abnormality for some irrelevant reason. Even if you could do something about your situation, you won't do anything more as what will be within your capabilities in any given situation regardless of the mouthful of others. The advice of others can't change your circumstances, your genetics, your resources or your abnormality at any point in time of your life.
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