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Venting Why am I so insecure about the size of my penis if I’m too undesirable for it to even matter?

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I have never measured it, because I’m afraid to and taking a massive hit on my already low self-esteem. But why would I even feel so insecure about it when I’m too ugly for it to matter, anyway? I really wish I had a 7 or 8 inch penis. Because the real reason why the vast majority of women who have never had an orgasm from penetration is because they’ve never had a cock inside them big enough. You literally cannot make a woman cum with your penis if it’s average size or smaller. Why does it matter to me, though?
I also get really afraid that because I’m circumcised (as most American guys are, sadly), if I ever have sex, I won’t enjoy it due to my lack of foreskin. Sure it feels good to touch myself but it’s hard for me to masturbate without lube. But again, why does this matter if I’ll probably never have sex?
 
How big is your cock? (Asking for a friend @BummerDrummer )
 
Because you are a human
 
How big is your cock? (Asking for a friend @BummerDrummer )
I don’t know and I don’t wanna measure it. I would say anywhere from 5ish to 6ish inches erect (it’s really small when I don’t have a boner).
 
Can't say why it bothers you. I guess you're just the type of person who cares too much what other people think (or would think if they saw it).

In some ways, it'd be worse to have a big dick. You'd always be thinking, "if some girl would give me a chance, she'd enjoy the sex" - but no girl is going to give you a chance, so you'd feel bad about that.
 
I don’t know and I don’t wanna measure it. I would say anywhere from 5ish to 6ish inches erect (it’s really small when I don’t have a boner)
I am 6.4 Inch when erect
 
I am 6.4 Inch when erect
If I had to guess I’d say I’m anywhere from 6.2 to 6.5 inches erect. Which while not small I still don’t think it’s big enough to make a girl cum from penetration.
Do women just not feel anything when an average or smaller penis is inside them?
 
Because the real reason why the vast majority of women who have never had an orgasm from penetration is because they’ve never had a cock inside them big enough.
That is 100% false.
 
If I had to guess I’d say I’m anywhere from 6.2 to 6.5 inches erect. Which while not small I still don’t think it’s big enough to make a girl cum from penetration.
Do women just not feel anything when an average or smaller penis is inside them?
Try Black women they have shorter torso
 
That is 100% false.
No, women cum from penetration if you can hit the A spot, which you need a larger penis to be able to accomplish. Otherwise women can’t cum without aid from oral, fingers or sex toys. Also, why do women have dildos that are huge compared to the size of most guy’s penises?
Try Black women they have shorter torso
That doesn’t mean anything when the vagina can expand to fit a larger size.
 
No, women cum from penetration if you can hit the A spot, which you need a larger penis to be able to accomplish. Otherwise women can’t cum without aid from oral, fingers or sex toys. Also, why do women have dildos that are huge compared to the size of most guy’s penises?
You have been brainwashed into believe this big cock only.
 
You have been brainwashed into believe this big cock only.
If women didn’t like big cocks then the term “big dick energy” wouldn’t exist. FDS would like small penises.
 
Woman only speak in double speak believing them is your first mistake.
 
Woman only speak in double speak believing them is your first mistake.



>The anterior fornix erogenous zone (also known as the AFE zone, AFE, A-spot, epicenter, deep spot or second G-spot) is a female erogenous zone that when stimulated can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal, sometimes without any other form of stimulation, with continued stimulation resulting in an intense orgasm
Its depth is why some call it, colloquially, the deep spot.
“People who have experienced orgasms through deep vaginal penetration have likely had an A-spot orgasm,” says Dr. Sadie, adding that they’re usually more intense and longer lasting than G-spot orgasms.
“I’ve always needed really deep, rough penetration in order to orgasm,” says Sam F., 23. “I didn’t know that what I was experiencing was likely an A-spot orgasm until I found some article online about it.”
Research also shows that women that prefer deep penetration are more likely to experience vaginal orgasms, and that those that experience vaginal orgasms are more likely to state that size matters

Likelihood of orgasm with a longer penis was related to greater vaginal orgasm frequency but unrelated to frequencies of other sexual behaviors, including clitoral orgasm.
Women who prefer deeper penile-vaginal stimulation are more likely to have vaginal orgasm
A new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger penises

best size to make women orgasm is 8 inches

 
You have hope in the back of your mind that you'll use it
 
How do you know this is true?
The pelvic inlet was wider among 178 white women than 56 African-American women (10.7±0.7 cm compared with 10.0.±0.7 cm, P<.001). The outlet was also wider (mean intertuberous diameter 12.3±1.0 cm compared with 11.8±0.9 cm, P<.001). There were no significant differences between racial groups in interspinous diameter, angle of the subpubic arch, anteroposterior conjugate, levator thickness, or levator hiatus. In addition, among women who delivered vaginally without a sphincter tear, African-American women had more pelvic floor mobility than white women. This difference was not observed among women who had sustained an obstetric sphincter tear.
 
You have hope in the back of your mind that you'll use it
Realistically escorts are the only women I see myself having sex with. And dick size won’t matter because she won’t be physically attracted to me, anyway. Otherwise I wouldn’t be paying her for sex.
 
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There is definitely a racial difference and also genetic factors which determine the length of vagina. White women give birth to babies with larger heads “on average” so their hips are “on average” broader, and their vaginal opening is also larger. Black women, actually have smaller vagina’s. They give birth to babies with smaller heads and have smaller hips. Black women store more body fat on their buttocks, but their hips are actually smaller (men and women). White people also have longer torso’s and white women also have longer vagina’s. Asian women have shorter vagina’s than both black and white women, have wider openings than black women, but not as large as white women.
 
The pelvic inlet was wider among 178 white women than 56 African-American women (10.7±0.7 cm compared with 10.0.±0.7 cm, P<.001). The outlet was also wider (mean intertuberous diameter 12.3±1.0 cm compared with 11.8±0.9 cm, P<.001). There were no significant differences between racial groups in interspinous diameter, angle of the subpubic arch, anteroposterior conjugate, levator thickness, or levator hiatus. In addition, among women who delivered vaginally without a sphincter tear, African-American women had more pelvic floor mobility than white women. This difference was not observed among women who had sustained an obstetric sphincter tear.
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There is definitely a racial difference and also genetic factors which determine the length of vagina. White women give birth to babies with larger heads “on average” so their hips are “on average” broader, and their vaginal opening is also larger. Black women, actually have smaller vagina’s. They give birth to babies with smaller heads and have smaller hips. Black women store more body fat on their buttocks, but their hips are actually smaller (men and women). White people also have longer torso’s and white women also have longer vagina’s. Asian women have shorter vagina’s than both black and white women, have wider openings than black women, but not as large as white women.
Black women have smaller vaginas? Who would've thought... maybe Africamaxxing isn't a bad idea after all.
 
i have a 7 incher and it hasn't made me happy. whats the point when i cant even use it?

but atleast i know that if i do get laid atleast i wont be a huge disappointment so it helps me cope just a little.
 
but atleast i know that if i do get laid atleast i wont be a huge disappointment so it helps me cope just a little.
Until you realise you are a 5 pump and done.
 
it's a legitimate concern imo, we all hope to ascend one day even if it's very unlikely, and if/when that happens you'll be judged against tyrone (her last bf) and probably rejected brutally

Best part is theres fuck all you can do about it. Sexdoll or tight virgin is our only hope

Although none of what Ive just said is applicable to you since you have a 6.5inch dick and are clearly a daft cunt for having insecurities about it, jfl at this forum.
 
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You must stop porncelling bro or atleast cut down lol
 
I have been watching too much porn lately. I would like to stop.
Do it brocel, you don’t need to go cold turkey just cut down to like once a day. I personally am suffering from this disease and remember cutting down for 3 months around a year ago and had the most energy ever
 
If I had to guess I’d say I’m anywhere from 6.2 to 6.5 inches erect. Which while not small I still don’t think it’s big enough to make a girl cum from penetration.
Why would you even care about being able to make women cum? Being on this forum, that should probably be the least of your concerns right now. Also, length isn't everything. Girth is important too, because it's better to fill a girl out than hit her cervix and nothing else.
 
An 18 year old woman fucked 10 year old Jonah Falcon because he had an 8 inch dick.
Dick alone can get you laid. Unless your hideous everywhere else, then you can run big dick game.
 
I never really cared about size, because almost impossible i can get laid.
 
Big cock is a jewish meme which comes from porn
its really useless and might only be a small halo
but it doesn't matter if you don't get laid
 
honestly i think it is just because you have hope. you maybe think, "gee wiz! if my cock was only 8 inches then i'd be out there slaying"
manlets like me think similar things with our heart. "if I was only 6 foot she would have said yes to the date!"

but in truth we are all fucked up and there are multiple reasons why we are incel. ugliness is not just one thing. it is a whole package and unfortunately we are the whole ugly package that nobody wants
 
If women didn’t like big cocks then the term “big dick energy” wouldn’t exist. FDS would like small penises.
Big dick is a bonus in an ltr, women will always have an excuse to ride a huge dicked chad.

Also studies show that facial attractiveness and shoulder width correlate with how frequent women orgasm with their partner, big dicks give more intense orgasms though.
 
Statistically I'm about average for porn. But I've always been insecure because when I watched porn for the first time it was some John Holmes shit or something and I had a thumb. So I just thought, wow there's no way a woman would fuck my thumb dick, no point trying. But then I grew and lost fat and also learned about NBP/BP and all the studies on length and girth and all that stuff. Spent like 8 years in PE forums every day and discovered I was some guys' goal size but it wouldn't matter because perception is reality to an extent. Combine that with 13 year old girls asking me out for their friends as a prank, and there's really no way I was ever going to be in a situation to use it. I'm still insecure and spend time reading forums that measure and share porn actors and all this shit. I can know for a fact I'm bigger than so and so in "Teens Like it Big" or whatever but still never accept that and even so I can say hey my dick is this decent size and I'm never going to use it.

>The anterior fornix erogenous zone (also known as the AFE zone, AFE, A-spot, epicenter, deep spot or second G-spot) is a female erogenous zone that when stimulated can lead to rapid vaginal lubrication and arousal, sometimes without any other form of stimulation, with continued stimulation resulting in an intense orgasm
Its depth is why some call it, colloquially, the deep spot.
“People who have experienced orgasms through deep vaginal penetration have likely had an A-spot orgasm,” says Dr. Sadie, adding that they’re usually more intense and longer lasting than G-spot orgasms.
“I’ve always needed really deep, rough penetration in order to orgasm,” says Sam F., 23. “I didn’t know that what I was experiencing was likely an A-spot orgasm until I found some article online about it.”
Research also shows that women that prefer deep penetration are more likely to experience vaginal orgasms, and that those that experience vaginal orgasms are more likely to state that size matters

Likelihood of orgasm with a longer penis was related to greater vaginal orgasm frequency but unrelated to frequencies of other sexual behaviors, including clitoral orgasm.
Women who prefer deeper penile-vaginal stimulation are more likely to have vaginal orgasm
A new study finds that women who have frequent vaginal orgasms are more likely than other women to say they climax more easily with men with larger penises

best size to make women orgasm is 8 inches

There are like 5 dudes at most in mainstream straight porn with legit 8" NBP lengths. And they are all working in monster cock themed lines/sites. So the best size is like the highest tier in porn.
 
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