Why do dudes wonder if they're ugly when they've never had a gf

[ionlycopenow]

Why even bother asking that question? If you've never had a gf or sex and you're out of high school, or even past first year of university, what's the point in even asking such a rhetorical question? Shouldn't that fact alone be enough to answer it?

 

[epillepsy]

yes but they look in the mirror and see nothing wrong.
they don't know what foids find attractive and how you have to be much above average, not simply unugly to yourself.
and i guess they pass off lack of gf as bad luck or non NTness.

 

[Deleted member 27204]

yes but they look in the mirror and see nothing wrong.
they don't know what foids find attractive and how you have to be much above average, not simply unugly to yourself.
and i guess they pass off lack of gf as bad luck or non NTness.

Exactly this.
There is ugly and then there is also such a thing as not good looking for/according to women.

 

[radishman]

Foids are not subtle when they find a dude attractive. If you've never had any interest shown to you, you're unattractive. Unfortunaterly we as a species put that judgment on foids, but is what it is.

 

[firephx]

They're unsure if it's only that they're ugly or something else

 

[coldmachinery]

Parents gaslight them unknowingly by telling them they look fine. It's a different world out there now, what was once average is far below.

 

[tulasdanslos]

I didn't even think I was ugly until I turned 17 or 18, I just thought it was because I am quiet and smart JFL.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Yup, as much as I might think I am passable, the facts prove otherwise.

 

[radishman]

Parents gaslight them unknowingly by telling them they look fine. It's a different world out there now, what was once average is far below.

Yeah family members are the worst especially cucks that listen.

 

[AnotherInsertCel1]

I don't even ask those question can't even see my own face.

 

[Speedloader]

yes but they look in the mirror and see nothing wrong.
they don't know what foids find attractive and how you have to be much above average, not simply unugly to yourself.
and i guess they pass off lack of gf as bad luck or non NTness.

Fuck mirrors tbh. I see myself as a chadlite in them and yet my photos are literally monstrous

 

[Dregster]

Why even bother asking that question? If you've never had a gf or sex and you're out of high school, or even past first year of university, what's the point in even asking such a rhetorical question? Shouldn't that fact alone be enough to answer it?

Too much bluepilled influences around them.

Most bluepilled incels in denial never get the opportunity to reflect on their own shortcomings in courting a hole because there's always someone near them feeding them delusions.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

my mother still throws out bluepilled bs sometimes about how " handsome " i look JFL

 

[Deleted member 27204]

Most bluepilled incels in denial never get the opportunity to reflect on their own shortcomings in courting a hole because there's always someone near them feeding them delusions.

Most bluepilled incels in denial were also lucky enough never to get used by women. That's why a lot of really ugly guys that women just don't bother with at all are usually really bluepilled. It's low tier normies women try to mess up the most.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Foids are not subtle when they find a dude attractive.

This is why it's incredibly pathetic when they try to say oh no hurr durr I'm missing all the signs and symptoms, hurr Durr they're subtle. Kek. Not even close.

 

[Deleted member 26923]

Foids are not subtle when they find a dude attractive. If you've never had any interest shown to you, you're unattractive. Unfortunaterly we as a species put that judgment on foids, but is what it is.

 

[FukFeminism]

Who tf on here even owns a mirror jfl.

 

[dirtykombatcel]

Yup, as much as I might think I am passable, the facts prove otherwise.

 

[Deleted member 28148]

if you haven't had an actual gf at 14 and onwards its pretty over tbh

 

[Deleted member 24726]

Yup, as much as I might think I am passable, the facts prove otherwise.

Me tbh

if you haven't had an actual gf by 18 its pretty over tbh

 

[curryboy420]

Most bluepilled incels in denial were also lucky enough never to get used by women. That's why a lot of really ugly guys that women just don't bother with at all are usually really bluepilled. It's low tier normies women try to mess up the most.

Not so, I was the only incel in a flat of low tier normie guys at uni and they all got laid at least once whereas.the only girl I ever spoke to did so because everyone was secretly recording my reaction to things to laugh about and she would use me as an emotional tampon while fucking white chads and I knew this because I saw her walking around with them all hugged up to them. I didn't know much better back then but it was the catalyst of my blackpilling.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Why even bother asking that question? If you've never had a gf or sex and you're out of high school, or even past first year of university, what's the point in even asking such a rhetorical question? Shouldn't that fact alone be enough to answer it?

Some men are unwilling to accept it, it seems. It's understandable. Admitting you're a subhuman is difficult.

 

[Deleted member 24016]

Can surgery change your fate if you've never had a gf?

 

[ionlycopenow]

Can surgery change your fate if you've never had a gf?

Its usually cope but it can depend on what is holding you back facially

 

[Deleted member 24016]

Its usually cope but it can depend on what is holding you back facially

It's definitely possible that im still too unattractive to get a gf. However, I've had two procedures done which gives me hope that maybe things might be different.

 

[StSausageCel]

Yup, as much as I might think I am passable, the facts prove otherwise.

tbhNgl. Some days I look in the mirror and think "hey, im only medium ugly, some mentally unstable bitch should be able to give my pity sex AT LEAST."

But then that day is full of loneliness, females looking at me with disgust, seeing all my male classmates hanging out with girls while i rot. That brings me back to reality

 

[ionlycopenow]

It's definitely possible that im still too unattractive to get a gf. However, I've had two procedures done which gives me hope that maybe things might be different.

Height? What procedures

 

[Studiocel]

tbhNgl. Some days I look in the mirror and think "hey, im only medium ugly, some mentally unstable bitch should be able to give my pity sex AT LEAST."

But then that day is full of loneliness, females looking at me with disgust, seeing all my male classmates hanging out with girls while i rot. That brings me back to reality

Alot of people perceive themselves as better looking than they actually are. I dont usually think I look that bad in the mirror but when I look at myself objectively with pics and video I realize im ugly af. Its because the image in the mirror is very familiar so your brain creates a bias. Usually your dating life is a reflection of your looks.

 

[ionlycopenow]

Alot of people perceive themselves as better looking than they actually are. I dont usually think I look that bad in the mirror but when I look at myself objectively with pics and video I realize im ugly af. Its because the image in the mirror is very familiar so your brain creates a bias. Usually your dating life is a reflection of your looks.

I'm ugly in the mirror too

 

[StSausageCel]

I'm ugly in the mirror too

Even your brain knows it's over

 

[ionlycopenow]

Even your brain knows it's over

My brain is in a constant state of fear and panic yes "it" knows it's quite over

 

[Deleted member 27204]

Not so, I was the only incel in a flat of low tier normie guys at uni and they all got laid at least once whereas.the only girl I ever spoke to did so because everyone was secretly recording my reaction to things to laugh about and she would use me as an emotional tampon while fucking white chads and I knew this because I saw her walking around with them all hugged up to them. I didn't know much better back then but it was the catalyst of my blackpilling.

But you were laughed at used as an emotional tampon which often happens to low tier normie looking guys. Really ugly guys don't even get that but are mostly left alone and pitied and even virtue signaled to. So they don't see that cruel side of women.

 

[Ika-Sama]

Women always tend to avoid me.

 

[Over_this_Life]

Its that last sliver of hope in a normies mind that they arent as ugly as they think they are. “Those girls were just picky thats all. All i gotta do is believe in myself and blonde stacy will come crawling back to me!!!”
Normies dont want to believe that they are ugly, because they view themselves as being normal, and of course they associate ugliness with all kinds of negative connotations.

 

[Subhuman Orangutan]

Who tf on here even owns a mirror jfl.

 

[Deleted member 24016]

Height? What procedures

5'10" and I got a rhinoplasty and an otoplasty. I went from ugly to average looking imo.

 

[Deleted member 20064]

They're unsure if it's only that they're ugly or something else

Personality

 

[BITG]

yes but they look in the mirror and see nothing wrong.
they don't know what foids find attractive and how you have to be much above average, not simply unugly to yourself.
and i guess they pass off lack of gf as bad luck or non NTness.

Most people also see themselves as more attractive than they actually are.