We all found the blackpill after years of loneliness and celibacy. Normies don't experience that degree of loneliness. They're always busy doing some irrelevant crap. Consequently, they don't get much free time to detach from this clown world to do some introspection.
In order to fathom the bleakness of this particular life situation you have to live it. You have to live through the lonely nights where you're laying in your bed, all alone, wanting to hug someone only to find no one around. You have to live the afternoons after a long day where you come to an empty room that seems to be getting smaller and smaller each day. You have to go through the dinners where you food tastes like nothing and you're in a state of absence.
At night your mind starts wandering...sometimes you find yourself contemplating suicide, at others you are detached from the world, living in a fantasy you've constructed in your head. But for the most part, you're thinking how did you end up in this position. You start wondering where it all went to hell. Opportunities you think you've missed out on start popping out of nowhere. You get a little dizzy, so you lay down. A notification makes your iPhone's screen light up! In that brief moment you forget about your headache and jump as quickly as possible to see who sent you a message only to discover that it was some ad from your phone company telling you there's 20% off some product. You put your phone down -- you even shove it away in frustration -- and you get back to thinking. This time you sink into deep thought. You close your eyes to imagine a better world; a world where you're not lonely at this time of night, a world where you're not comforting yourself by hugging your pillow all while your tears are rolling down your cheeks and leaving marks on the pillow, a world where you're hugging a human being instead. A human being that wants you and is actually afraid of losing you. You imagine a world where human touch is more than just a word you use to express your frustrations. Words like love, intimacy, and connection become reality. Most importantly, you imagine a world where you not trapped by loneliness.
Loneliness is the monster that's been haunting you for years. You're never safe from it, not even in your dreams. It relentlessly chases you and tries to push you off the cliff into the abyss. But you fight it! Your best efforts are directed towards killing this monster to the point where it becomes an obsession. During the war with loneliness, you find yourself considering things you always deemed as unthinkable. But no matter how hard you try, your efforts wind up being futile. Loneliness seems to always be winning. Then it dawns on you; you're losing because you're fighting it all alone. You rise up, open you computer and start surfing the internet, looking for some support. You find a couple of forums where some people interact with you at first, but they all slowly fade away as time goes by. Their empty promises; platitudes like "Just be patient and good things will come your way " or "everything will be fine, I promise" pop up in your head every once in a while to remind you that these are nothing more than words. In a desperate attempt for finding comfort and solace you start looking for dating apps. For a brief moment, you could almost see yourself meeting "the one" (oh...the o'l bluepilled times). You set up an account. You're read! You're ready to mindlessly swipe right on every face that shows up on your screen. It is evident that it'll never go anywhere, it's clear as day that none of the people you're seeing care about you, they all probably have a more fulfilling life than yous. Yet, you spend countless hours swiping, sometimes without even looking because you don't care how the person on the other side looks like. All you want is another human being you could talk to.
Normies never experience any of that. Therefore, they stay oblivious to it (and to the blackpill).