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BrazilianLambda

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No, no, no, no... I am not talking about shit normie advice to self-improve in order to attract foids. No. I am talking about self-improvement for your own sake (like eating healthy, exercising, getting a better job). Sure, being lonely sucks. But, being lonely AND poor, and sick, sucks even more.
 
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Because self improvement is a scam and you can still improve your life without focusing on self improvement to the excess extent normies in the rat race do.
This is also a place to get away from the demands of society, not acquiesce to them.
 
This forum is also hostile to copes to boot.

Anyway @BlkPillPres I think you have some topics regarding this subject matter, why not share them with the OP?
 
This forum is also hostile to copes to boot.

Anyway @BlkPillPres I think you have some topics regarding this subject matter, why not share them with the OP?

I am well aware of @BlkPillPres 's philosophy.
 
it's a crab-in-the-bucket mentality, the whole internet is like that
 
No one is what the fuck are you on about? Where have you seen this?
 
On the Maslov's pyramid of needs self improvement is on higher floor than sex and human companionship so there is no wonder so many incels do LDARing. Their brains don't signal them a need to self-improve so they could focus entirely on seeking a mate to breed.
 
No, no, no, no... I am not talking about shit normie advice to self-improve in order to attract foids. No. I am talking about self-improvement for your own sake (like eating healthy, exercising, getting a better job). Sure, being lonely sucks. But, being lonely AND poor, and sick, sucks even more.

because this site is mostly a crab bucket full of fakecels who could actually find happiness if they put in a tiny bit of effort.

You only have to look at the Rate Me threads to see most of these guys have nothing wrong with their looks but they'd rather LDAR because they're spoilt bitches who think everything should be handed to them. That's why they borderline homo worship chad because he's a guy who gets everything without doing anything.

I don't even fucking post here anymore because literally post anything remotely positive and you get retards calling you a fakecel or infiltrator. I used to try and give actual fellowcels advice but literally "go outside and get some hobbies" gets met with "fakecel! chad doesn't have to go outside" bullshit.

Join looksmax.org or better yet find some copes and get healthier. It's better than moping on this site.
 
No one is what the fuck are you on about? Where have you seen this?

LOL. Are you serious? Anytime someone wants to improve themselves for their own sake, they often get shot down as someone who is following silly normie advice. I see that crap all the time. Don't pretend you've never witnessed that.
On the Maslov's pyramid of needs self improvement is on higher floor than sex and human companionship so there is no wonder so many incels do LDARing. Their brains don't signal them a need to self-improve so they could focus entirely on seeking a mate to breed.

Self-actualization is on the higher floor. Sex is along with other basic needs (food, shelter, etc), for which you may need self-improvement to attain.
 
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LOL. Are you serious? Anytime someone wants to improve themselves for their own sake, they often get shot down as someone who is following silly normie advice. I see that crap all the time. Don't pretend you've never witnessed that.
Only time I see crab bucket mentality is with NEETs
 
your the one that's only butthurt about it
 
Self-actualization is on the higher floor. Sex is along with other basic needs (food, shelter, etc), for which you may need self-improvement to attain.
Yes it's true but remember that human brain is paleoitic device, it's not really adapted to function in post industrial society. What I mean is for example fact that our brain thinks, that the helthiest food out there is the one from fast-food chains. That is why McDonald is so tasty, because the brain consider it good for us, despite the fact, that it's outdated for 10000 years.

Continuing it may seem completely obvious that self improvement is the key to escape inceldom, it's not so clear to our instincts. Hunter-gatherers didn't use improving theirselves to attract foid and breed, so those instincts are not hardcoded in us.

Of course one may use his will to force himself to act against to his instincts, just like he can resign from fast-foods to get lean.
 
Anytime someone wants to improve themselves for their own sake, they often get shot down
Im not gonna lie, i have no clue what you are talking about tbh. For example i have never seen someone unironically say you shouldn't go to the gym if you can afford it.
This forum is also hostile to copes to boot
Aside from escort""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""celling"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""", no not really.
 
Im not gonna lie, i have no clue what you are talking about tbh. For example i have never seen someone unironically say you shouldn't go to the gym if you can afford it.

Not much hostility towards gymceling, but I often see people getting attacked for wanting to get education and advance their careers. For instance, "You're a cuck if you pay taxes" is often said on this forum. First, we don't have a choice over taxes. Second, a good-paying job always involve getting taxed (unless you're a mobster, which is highly unlikely for us incels). I see that as direct attack on incels who don't want to remain dirt poor for the rest of their lives.
 
No point in doing anything if I cant get sex and validation tbh
 
Since we can't attain relationships, acceptance and validation, we lose our motivation to keep our health and pursue money. After all, the end goal of money, exercise, career and health is procreation. Without the promise of procreation and family, life becomes meaningless.
THIS. Pin this shit somehow mods, it's the universal answer to all types of 'self-improvement' threads like this.
 
Since we can't attain relationships, acceptance and validation, we lose our motivation to keep our health and pursue money. After all, the end goal of money, exercise, career and health is procreation. Without the promise of procreation and family, life becomes meaningless.
 
I don't have any problem with this
 
The only real "self-improvement" is getting surgeries.
 
Since we can't attain relationships, acceptance and validation, we lose our motivation to keep our health and pursue money. After all, the end goal of money, exercise, career and health is procreation. Without the promise of procreation and family, life becomes meaningless.
Beautifully said
 
No, no, no, no... I am not talking about shit normie advice to self-improve in order to attract foids. No. I am talking about self-improvement for your own sake (like eating healthy, exercising, getting a better job). Sure, being lonely sucks. But, being lonely AND poor, and sick, sucks even more.
whats the point? you make money for what? so you can consoooooooooom and buy worthless useless consoomer copes? you work hard for what? so you can come home to an empty house with no beautiful wife with beautiful and healthy children to greet you?

self improvement needs to have a purpose, self improvement for its own sake is pointless,

there needs to be an end goal. and if the end goal isn't attainable then what is the point? then everything becomes useless then. whats the point? no wife no kids nothing.
 
If you improve for your sake then there's no issue.
If you claim it increases your rating by more than a point, you're a bluepilled faggot and should go back to reddit.
 
it's a crab-in-the-bucket mentality, the whole internet is like that
on the money this one

Its not even that, its way more pathetic, people just don't want to be reminded that improvement is possible or even an option, because then that ruins the enjoyment of their martyr complex

They seriously aren't even thinking about others to even bother contemplating "keeping others down with them"

They literally just don't want you to burst their bubble, so they can continue doing nothing and pat themselves on the back for "struggling"

The large majority of incels on this forum have a martyr complex, and anything that threatens that makes their psyche lash out at it

They don't want to hear about any alternative means to build wealth, become successful, get sex, etc, they just want to be without those things so they can keep feeling bad for not having those things, and thereby now congratulate themselves for "enduring"

You see for these individuals their only accomplishment is that they have "survived" inceldom and that they "endure its trials"

To later succeed in life for them is a consolation prize, they'd much rather keep seeing themselves in their current light


THEN there are the nth level retards who are in a category all on their own, who I'd classify as "man children", who are really just immature and don't want to face reality, so its not even that they have a matyr complex, they are legit just that stupid, common sense and logic will always be out of their reach, they are perpetual idiots who NEVER CHANGE and NEVER ADAPT and that's out of choice, childishly holding onto pointless ideals

I only know of two examples @FrustratedWhiteMale and @FrothySolutions

Both delusion 50+ year old virgins, who in every conversation speak as if they don't exist in your reality, literally nothing can be explained to them, no matter how hard you try, because they don't care what you have to say, they only care about their ideals, and they clung to those ideals so strongly that they are virgins into their 50's and will likely die virgins

One has multiple sex dolls and speaks about them as if they are persons, the other is still chasing some dream of fucking college girls at some frat party, even asking redditors how he'd get invited to such parties

I half think both of them are trolls (and there's a 25% chance they are the same person on that note), because they are that dense, they are that deluded, every conversation with them is frustrating and feels like you are speaking to someone who is mentally ill, you may actually lose brain cells speaking to them, beware

I have never seen levels of delusion so strong other than these two individuals on this site
 
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Its not even that, its way more pathetic, people just don't want to be reminded that improvement is possible or even an option, because then that ruins the enjoyment of their martyr complex

They seriously aren't even thinking about others to even bother contemplating "keeping others down with them"

They literally just don't want you to burst their bubble, so they can continue doing nothing and pat themselves on the back for "struggling"

The large majority of incels on this forum have a martyr complex, and anything that threatens that makes their psyche lash out at it

They don't want to hear about any alternative means to build wealth, become successful, get sex, etc, they just want to be without those things so they can keep feeling bad for not having those things, and thereby now congratulate themselves for "enduring"

You see for these individuals their only accomplishment is that they have "survived" inceldom and that they "endure its trials"

To later succeed in life for them is a consolation prize, they'd much rather keep seeing themselves in their current light


THEN there are the nth level retards who are in a category all on their own, who I'd classify as "man children", who are really just immature and don't want to face reality, so its not even that they have a matyr complex, they are legit just that stupid, common sense and logic will always be out of their reach, they are perpetual idiots who NEVER CHANGE and NEVER ADAPT and that's out of choice, childishly holding onto pointless ideals

I only know of two examples @FrustratedWhiteMale and @FrothySolutions

Both delusion 50+ year old virgins, who in every conversation speak as if they don't exist in your reality, literally nothing can be explained to them, no matter how hard you try, because they don't care what you have to say, they only care about their ideals, and they clung to those ideals so strongly that they are virgins into their 50's and will likely die virgins

One has multiple sex dolls and speaks about them as if they are persons, the other is still chasing some dream of fucking college girls at some frat party, even asking redditors how he'd get invited to such parties

I half think both of them are trolls (and there's a 25% chance they are the same person on that note), because they are that dense, they are that deluded, every conversation with them is frustrating and feels like you are speaking to someone who is mentally ill, you may actually lose brain cells speaking to them, beware

I have never seen levels of delusion so strong other than these two individuals on this site

Wha? Why would I of all people be against things like being healthy and getting a better job?
 
No, no, no, no... I am not talking about shit normie advice to self-improve in order to attract foids. No. I am talking about self-improvement for your own sake (like eating healthy, exercising, getting a better job). Sure, being lonely sucks. But, being lonely AND poor, and sick, sucks even more.
That's why there is an incel forum and a separate looksmaxxxing forum.
 
Because this forum focuses on the blackpill and not redpill/whitepill.
 
That's why there is an incel forum and a separate looksmaxxxing forum.

JFL I don't know how the fuck @BrazilianLambda can literally tell you he's not talking about looksmaxxing and then you respond with - "there's a looksmaxxing forum"

I swear talking to some of you guys feels like you are being trolled, its like you are trying not to understand

Being healthy and having resources has nothing to do with looksmaxxing, that should be a basic goal for any man
 
JFL I don't know how the fuck @BrazilianLambda can literally tell you he's not talking about looksmaxxing and then you respond with - "there's a looksmaxxing forum"

I swear talking to some of you guys feels like you are being trolled, its like you are trying not to understand

Being healthy and having resources has nothing to do with looksmaxxing, that should be a basic goal for any man
I just wanted to add that. This place is just to vent and troll.
 
whats the point? you make money for what? so you can consoooooooooom and buy worthless useless consoomer copes? you work hard for what? so you can come home to an empty house with no beautiful wife with beautiful and healthy children to greet you?

self improvement needs to have a purpose, self improvement for its own sake is pointless,

there needs to be an end goal. and if the end goal isn't attainable then what is the point? then everything becomes useless then. whats the point? no wife no kids nothing.

Ironically everybody who speaks like this never seems to kill themselves huh

Whats the point of you waking up everyday to a shitty life?, copes?

Whats the point?

How do you not see the irony of questioning the point of doing things that make living more enjoyable, yet you somehow see the point in clinging to a life of perpetual failure

That's completely contradictory

ITS REALLY SIMPLE:
You already know "the point", take the same reasons you use not the kill yourself and extrapolate them onto anyone elses reasoning to pursue self improvement

Its ridiculous to argue that you don't see the point in improvement (persisting due to goals) but you do see the point in just existing (persisting for the sake of existing)

If you won't kill yourself, its not rocket science for you to now fathom why incels would seek improvement
 
Don't we encourage responsability for your weight?
 
I just wanted to add that. This place is just to vent and troll.

Nope, that's what it is to you based on your own actions and those you choose to interact it, there's a reason why my ban list is significant, so I don't have to interact with idiots, and I instead end up with a small list of worthwhile "compatriots" and "advisors"

Heck I even met one in an argument yesterday lol, such individuals are drawn to arguments and they argue seriously
 
JFL I don't know how the fuck @BrazilianLambda can literally tell you he's not talking about looksmaxxing and then you respond with - "there's a looksmaxxing forum"

I swear talking to some of you guys feels like you are being trolled, its like you are trying not to understand

Being healthy and having resources has nothing to do with looksmaxxing, that should be a basic goal for any man

Reading comprehension is not the strongest suit in here.
 
Being open to self improvement means being open to admitting you don't know everything, and this forum is composed of teenage loudmouths and crybabies who think they know everything.
On the Maslov's pyramid of needs self improvement is on higher floor than sex and human companionship so there is no wonder so many incels do LDARing. Their brains don't signal them a need to self-improve so they could focus entirely on seeking a mate to breed.
Good thing Maslow's hierarchy is made up bullshit and contradicted by basic observation of human beings.
 
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Nope, that's what it is to you based on your own actions and those you choose to interact it, there's a reason why my ban list is significant, so I don't have to interact with idiots, and I instead end up with a small list of worthwhile "compatriots" and "advisors"

Heck I even met one in an argument yesterday lol, such individuals are drawn to arguments and they argue seriously
Most people exaggerate the hell out of things, and sewers is one of the biggest troll pages I've ever seen.
I think it is obvious most of the time when people are trolling or serious based on their post history and seeing what things they have said before.
 
it's because we are stupid losers that are incapable of learning anything new
 
I guess I should register for looksmaxx
 
because this site is mostly a crab bucket full of fakecels who could actually find happiness if they put in a tiny bit of effort.

You only have to look at the Rate Me threads to see most of these guys have nothing wrong with their looks but they'd rather LDAR because they're spoilt bitches who think everything should be handed to them. That's why they borderline homo worship chad because he's a guy who gets everything without doing anything.

I don't even fucking post here anymore because literally post anything remotely positive and you get retards calling you a fakecel or infiltrator. I used to try and give actual fellowcels advice but literally "go outside and get some hobbies" gets met with "fakecel! chad doesn't have to go outside" bullshit.

Join looksmax.org or better yet find some copes and get healthier. It's better than moping on this site.
Based
 
these guys have nothing wrong with their looks but they'd rather LDAR because they're spoilt bitches who think everything should be handed to them. That's why they borderline homo worship chad because he's a guy who gets everything without doing anything.

This, I've talked about this weird almost homosexual obsession many incels have with "Chad" too, and I have often pointed out that they don't apply the same logic to other aspects of life (like money)

If your logic is to "do nothing" because someone good looking can "do nothing" and have a successful romantic life, then by that logic because some people are born into rich families and never have to work you should do nothing too and be homeless, both mindsets are equally as idiotic but they just can't comprehend that

It seems like they are trying to "spite" society, but they just end up "cutting off their nose to spite their face"

On the Maslov's pyramid of needs self improvement is on higher floor than sex and human companionship so there is no wonder so many incels do LDARing. Their brains don't signal them a need to self-improve so they could focus entirely on seeking a mate to breed.

You are a retard if you are seriously arguing you have to get laid first before you acquire the desire to be financially successful, guys like you literally legitimize the basement dweller meme, its like you don't live in real life

Last time I checked, most men pursue wealth and status TO GET SEX, NOT BECAUSE THEY ALREADY GET SEX
 
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this is .co not looksmax.org
 
this is .co not looksmax.org

No, no, no, no... I am not talking about shit normie advice to self-improve in order to attract foids. No. I am talking about self-improvement for your own sake (like eating healthy, exercising, getting a better job). Sure, being lonely sucks. But, being lonely AND poor, and sick, sucks even more.

There is something seriously wrong with reading skills on .co
 
Even though i say "I'm ok with my poverty" i am still always looking for - and creating - opportunity to make money (or trade) in the future, via agriculture. (Rare plant sales/trade) And other (offline) skills...

Basically, i mean to come from a place of "contentment" but also continually strive to improve my base contentment level...

Be ok with my life yet seek to improve it. That's why i constantly learn stuff.

You never know what will be the "thing" that can quickly improve your situation unless you are constantly seeking input.
 

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