[Venting] Why is there insta-ban if someone gets a GF? (especially oldcels)

VirginAutistManlet

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How does it disregard decades of alienation, ostracism, no friends, no relationships, no sex and having 0 normie life whatsoever?

Especially when you know that the guys probably going to end up in the same situation again soon once incels girlfriend realizes shes made the mistake of getting with a guy whose completely abnormal, socially retarded and completely "off" and then leaves him at a whim.


I can understand this if the """incel""" is young <21???, but can we all agree at a certain point, no matter if an incel manages to get a GF and get laid, that the ex-incel is forever permanently psychologically/emotionally damaged and will never recover no matter what?



DISCLAIMER: This isn't about me, I've just noticed this with other people here, this isn't anything Id personally ever have to worry about because I would never be able to get a GF
 
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because at least the "incel" had a chance at a romantic relationship while we were left out
 
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Having a girlfriend = not involuntary celibate

I wouldn’t be opposed to them staying but I see why they are banned
 
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alienation, ostracism, no friends, no relationships, no sex and having 0 normie life whatsoever?
There should be a site that caters for people going thru all that shit. Incel boards are the closest thing but they have a higher focus on dating and foids n stuff
 
VirginAutistManlet

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because at least the "incel" had a chance at a romantic relationship while we were left out
Having a girlfriend = not involuntary celibate

I wouldn’t be opposed to them staying but I see why they are banned

Im almost 32, lets say at 38 years old, that I manage to some how get a GF by 1 in a billion luck. Does that automatically disregard the last near 4 decades? I dont know but there's something off about some 20 year old """"incel"""" saying Id now be a full blown normie/chad because of lucking out ONCE after nearly 40 years of being invisible to the opposite sex.
 
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they are secretly hinting at the fact there is a site way better than this overmoded crybaby faggot site called lookism.net
 
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when someone is exposed as a sexhaver is always through external sources.
so the thing is:
if somone lies about being sexless, he could also lie about all the rest.
those people don't get banned because they have a gf(blackpilled normies are allowed as long as they don't brag), but because they are pretending to be incels.
 
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Let me be a little more detailed about this. This example ex-incel, would still be a socially retarded, alienated, ostracized, psychologically and emotionally damaged individual. Just because they FINALLY managed to get a GF after 30-40 years as incel, it does not mean their life in every other aspect would suddenly and magically become normal, it's still fucked up, they only change to their life is they finally got a GF and can have sex, but everything else about them remains the same. It would be stupid to think that a guy after decades of inceldom, even if he got a GF, would some how have a massive shift in personality and mindset, the guy would still lack any social circles, he'd be in an unhealthy kind of relationship with his GF where it's just him and her, nobody else, and the relationship would probably die off because the girl would get sick of the incel just being a shut-in aloof person, which is something I dont think will ever change about a guy whose suffered through decades of inceldom.

Remember inceldom is not just about putting your dick in a vagina, it's something that impacts the guys entire life, every aspect of it. FFS we say this everytime normies just go on about "JUST PAY A WOMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU LOL".

As we say, normies are already fucking by 15, by 25, theyve got 10 years experience in dating, relationships, sex, by 35 they've got 20+ years, now you're telling me some incel who manages to finally get a GF by age 35, that he is now considered the same as that normie whose spent the last 20+ years fucking? :feelswhat:
 
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If anything they should be banned for being stupid enough to tell everyone.
 
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Only those who went shamefull way of betabux should be excluded
 
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Having a gf here is not bannable but larping like u dont have one in threads/posts :banhammer:
 
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How does it disregard decades of alienation, ostracism, no friends, no relationships, no sex and having 0 normie life whatsoever?

Especially when you know that the guys probably going to end up in the same situation again soon once incels girlfriend realizes shes made the mistake of getting with a guy whose completely abnormal, socially retarded and completely "off" and then leaves him at a whim.


I can understand this if the """incel""" is young <21???, but can we all agree at a certain point, no matter if an incel manages to get a GF and get laid, that the ex-incel is forever permanently psychologically/emotionally damaged and will never recover no matter what?



DISCLAIMER: This isn't about me, I've just noticed this with other people here, this isn't anything Id personally ever have to worry about because I would never be able to get a GF
I don't think you get insta-banned for it. But I understand what you're saying, I think it's bad when youngcels who have never even approached calls out for zero tolerance against 30+ oldcels.
 
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they arent instabanned. fakecels live on tutorial mode here.
 
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Let me be a little more detailed about this. This example ex-incel, would still be a socially retarded, alienated, ostracized, psychologically and emotionally damaged individual. Just because they got a GF, it does not mean their life in every other aspect is normal, it's still fucked up, they only change to their life is they finally got a GF and can have sex, but everything else about them remains the same. It would be stupid to think that a guy after decades of inceldom, even if he got a GF, would some how have a massive shift in personality and mindset, the guy would still lack any social circles, he'd be in an unhealthy kind of relationship with his GF where it's just him and her, nobody else, and the relationship would probably die off because the girl would get sick of the incel just being a shut-in aloof person, which is something I dont think will ever change about a guy whose suffered through decades of inceldom.
this works only like a hypotetical situation because the traits you mentioned(socially retarded, alienated, ostracized, psychologically and emotionally damaged individual) will prevent an incel from getting a gf.
I also rember seeing this graphic showing that the chances of having sex and entering ltrs drastically drop after 18
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so after decades of inceldom the only option is paying an escort.
 
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this works only like a hypotetical situation because the traits you mentioned(socially retarded, alienated, ostracized, psychologically and emotionally damaged individual) will prevent an incel from getting a gf.
I also rember seeing this graphic showing that the chances of having sex and entering ltrs drastically drop after 18
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so after decades of inceldom the only option is paying an escort.
Interesting, you could be right. I have known guys online who were virgins and GFLess till a very late age, but were able to LARP as a normie in say a workplace environment, and eventually did get a gf, but its always very short lived fucked up relationships that they have, and these guys ALWAYS end up back playing video games every night again home alone all the time like they were before for all of their 20s and most of their 30s. These guys are usually in denial about being incels because they lucked out one time and had some short lived very abnormal “relationship”

I still consider those guys incels, as they still live like incels, isolated from all aspects of normie life, outside of getting lucky and having a short lived experience with a woman, one time, after an eternity.
 
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Probably be banned as = There not incel
 
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I know people are gona assume I’m projecting here and that I’m not a virgin and really not incel. I wish that were the case. I cant even LARP as a normie for my own good, I can’t even betabuxx because I’m on autismbux, it’s that bad for me. I have nothing to offer any kind of woman, no looks, no status, no money, etc. if anything I could point the finger at careercels and say they aren’t incels because they could betabuxx a single mother roastie, I couldn’t even get a single mother roastie because i don’t have the betabuxx
 
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Because it's not an instaban, read the rules.
 
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Im almost 32, lets say at 38 years old, that I manage to some how get a GF by 1 in a billion luck. Does that automatically disregard the last near 4 decades? I dont know but there's something off about some 20 year old """"incel"""" saying Id now be a full blown normie/chad because of lucking out ONCE after nearly 40 years of being invisible to the opposite sex.
If you get a gf rn

you have ascended

congratz

now get out
Only those who went shamefull way of betabux should be excluded
this really

but they should break up asap if deal is no good
 
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Im pretty sure he's still incel if he has not fucked said girl. He has to fuck to ascend. Having a girlfriend who is probably using him is not enough.
 
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Im almost 32, lets say at 38 years old, that I manage to some how get a GF by 1 in a billion luck. Does that automatically disregard the last near 4 decades? I dont know but there's something off about some 20 year old """"incel"""" saying Id now be a full blown normie/chad because of lucking out ONCE after nearly 40 years of being invisible to the opposite sex.
I understand your point and I agree with it. It's true that oldcels have a strong case to make. However. Just like in ordinary law, when you start making exceptions you will not be able to control or enforce the rules properly. It will become a huge mess. So in name of greater good, you must abide by the rules even if they are unjust to your personal circumstance.
 
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you don't get banned. you get banned if you brag about it.
 
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