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Thinking back, I had friends. During my primary school years, I was essentially a normie, albeit with an asterix.
In high school I had friends too.
In college I also had some friends but due to weird circumstances I lost them all (they left the college).
For the past 7-8 years, I have been 100% friendless.
I don't have a single friend.
No one calls me on my birthday except one former collegue, but this is not a real friend since we haven't seen each other IRL since I DON'T KNOW WHEN.
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This lead me to the blackpill conclusion that it is close to impossible to remake your circle after you lose it.
People just look at you as a creep.
Reasons?
1.In school, all people are under the same rules. Yes, some kids are richer and prettier but even they follow the school's rules. You feel like brothers.
The same is true for college and high school. But once you leave and enter the work force, your friends or you will travel and separate ways.
2.You can't make friends at work in most cases
Colleagues are fakes. You are unlikely to befriend any of them. Once you or they leave the job, it's over
3.The biggest problem is that people at that age already have a HUGE circle of friends and are not willing to expand
By 25, most normies are done making friends. They have like 40-50 online now chat windows in CB and don't feel the need to add new ones. Thus the creepy oldcel looknig to go to the movies with them is blocked.
This leaves many oldcels, young adults, in isolation like me.
Every interaction I have is transactional - I pay someone to give me something or do something for me.
This leaves a huge void in your life.
IMO this is the biggest reason for inceldom for guys who are 5+
In high school I had friends too.
In college I also had some friends but due to weird circumstances I lost them all (they left the college).
For the past 7-8 years, I have been 100% friendless.
I don't have a single friend.
No one calls me on my birthday except one former collegue, but this is not a real friend since we haven't seen each other IRL since I DON'T KNOW WHEN.
-------------
This lead me to the blackpill conclusion that it is close to impossible to remake your circle after you lose it.
People just look at you as a creep.
Reasons?
1.In school, all people are under the same rules. Yes, some kids are richer and prettier but even they follow the school's rules. You feel like brothers.
The same is true for college and high school. But once you leave and enter the work force, your friends or you will travel and separate ways.
2.You can't make friends at work in most cases
Colleagues are fakes. You are unlikely to befriend any of them. Once you or they leave the job, it's over
3.The biggest problem is that people at that age already have a HUGE circle of friends and are not willing to expand
By 25, most normies are done making friends. They have like 40-50 online now chat windows in CB and don't feel the need to add new ones. Thus the creepy oldcel looknig to go to the movies with them is blocked.
This leaves many oldcels, young adults, in isolation like me.
Every interaction I have is transactional - I pay someone to give me something or do something for me.
This leaves a huge void in your life.
IMO this is the biggest reason for inceldom for guys who are 5+
