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Would you ever see a "cuddler" for love and emotional validation?

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To all incels who are still naive romantics:

A lot of guys don't like seeing prostitutes because they only offer the mechanical act of sex for release, without love or emotional validation. However, there are women who'll cuddle with you, validate you emotionally, hold your hands in public and even go for long walks on the beach with you. They'll do everything any gf or wife does in a relationship, and for a reasonable price. Why not go see one instead and have her cuddle with you over at your place? There may be a "cuddle-up" service in your town or city.

Cuddlers would also be an ideal substitute for religioncels whose beliefs forbid them from engaging in premarital sex.
 
There is a certain logic to it. The warning I'll offer is that you might feel sadder after it's over than you would after banging a hooker.
 
I'll be honest I'd do this TBH. It's not something I'd do until I'm like 27 or 28 when I've fully given up.
 
The prices are either the same or higher than they are for escorts, at least the ones I’ve seen.

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I realize the guy is older but ffs, he mogs every guy I’ve seen on here. Definitely could see myself getting rejected if I considered doing this.
 
I wish there were reverse-dominatrixes that let you tie them up and beat the shit out of em for a little cashola
 
I can't afford fucking bookers, this shit will be absolutely out of my reach. I just can't afford this.
 
The commercialization of the most basic things such as this can only be done by a certain (((tribe))).
What's next, are you going to pay me for breathing the air? Or maybe cost me for my own thoughts? JFL. This shit is dystopian.
 
No because i have a deficient oxytocin receptors. This would suck for me.
 
The commercialization of the most basic things such as this can only be done by a certain (((tribe))).
What's next, are you going to pay me for breathing the air? Or maybe cost me for my own thoughts? JFL. This shit is dystopian.

We're headed for dark times. 1984 is coming in full force.
 
Yes, I would try but only for a really good price. I don't know where to find such services anyway. What is it called? Cuddle buddies?

I wish there were reverse-dominatrixes that let you tie them up and beat the shit out of em for a little cashola
It's called slaves and bizarre ladies. Never tried it out because idgaf about bdsm and I suspect you would have to pay a huge bonus for the hooker to do it.
 
no i wouldnt pay for that
 
I read an article about cuddlers saying they were completely disgusted by their clients. So why would I pay to be intimate with someone who is disgusted by me?
 
I read an article about cuddlers saying they were completely disgusted by their clients. So why would I pay to be intimate with someone who is disgusted by me?
Sadism, baby :feelsokman:
 
Where the fuck can I find services like these? What do I Google? GF Emulator?

I'm not ready to do it just yet but I'm curious to read about it
 
of course not. you don’t even “get off” or anything, it’s just like paying someone to pretend to be your friend for a while. that’d only make me more depressed, if anything.
 
That exists? and i'm assuming cucks have to pay for it, must be a murica thing jfl
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paying to cuddle with a woman who is fucking multiple men for free

i think death via crucifixion is a better fate
 
Hell no because I would try to fuck
 
its purely artificial. there is no point.
 
Yeah, just to see what it feels like to cuddle with a woman.
 
No. Hell no. At least getting a prostitute there's release if you cum, this just seems like it'd be more frustrating.
 
I read an article about cuddlers saying they were completely disgusted by their clients. So why would I pay to be intimate with someone who is disgusted by me?
Do you remember what article
The commercialization of the most basic things such as this can only be done by a certain (((tribe))).
What's next, are you going to pay me for breathing the air? Or maybe cost me for my own thoughts? JFL. This shit is dystopian.
Dont give ((them)) any ideas.
 
I would do this over escortcelling
 
Only if she was a confirmed kissless virgin. Paying to cuddle with used up whores would be the greatest humiliation ever.
 
I'm not going to pay for pseudo affection. I take hot showers to make up for lack of physical touch.
 
Absolutely, I would have already done it, but there are no one in my area
 
So it's a prostitute, without the fun?
You can cuddle a prostitute you know.
 
I would actually because I am pretty small so it would be a good experience except I am broke. If I had the money I would go but any money I get goes to food, rent, asia fund, and booze. I buy a shitton of ramen noodles and beans / rice so my food is pretty cheap.
 
Low IQ post

It’s not validation if you have to pay for it.
True validation is unconditional.

The cuddler wouldnt give two shits about you if she wasn’t getting her money.
 
This is legit the stupidest thing I've ever seen. Women found another way to milk money from betas and simps. Astonishing.
 
I live in Texas which some cities are like fucking hours apart. Last I checked for cuddlers this girl was charging 300/hr just to cuddle which is way overpriced and even more than a hooker. I could easily get a hooker for like 120/hr. Just the cuddler is easier to access and legal. Plus, she was like 4 hours away. Nobody was in my immediate area and I don't have a vehicle so no way to get her. But yes. I am so pathetic that I actually did have an interest in purchasing a cuddle girl. I had also looked into being a friendship member. I forgot which site it was. I saw it on 4chan. Some guy was making fun of it like, "Who would even use this?" and so I clicked on the link and it was to a site where you can pay people to be your friend. It was about 80/month and once a month you get to join a group gathering of people and go to an event. If you don't like group gatherings there were workers on the site that you can pay to be your personal friend for that day. You get to go through their profiles and pick gender or color of your friend. Even which activity you want to do for that day. It is still only once a month though. A lot of normies were laughing and making fun of it. So shocked that there would be such LOSERS out in the world that some people have to pay for fucking friends which is like the EASIEST thing in the world to acquire. Really made me mad. And sad. And disgusted with myself that if I had a credit card I know I would join this site.

Sorry I went on a rant. When I went to this cuddle site a long time ago the only woman near my area was a woman in her early 40s with very big breasts. In her description she said you could put your face between her breasts as you cuddled. She also said she has 3 children and has a young child who is breastfeeding so she is still lactating. That part seemed odd and seemed like she was doing more than cuddling because why would you put that in there when most of your pictures are cleavage shots? I really wanted to visit her but she was hours away from me and again as I said no vehicle.
 
To all incels who are still naive romantics:

A lot of guys don't like seeing prostitutes because they only offer the mechanical act of sex for release, without love or emotional validation. However, there are women who'll cuddle with you, validate you emotionally, hold your hands in public and even go for long walks on the beach with you. They'll do everything any gf or wife does in a relationship, and for a reasonable price. Why not go see one instead and have her cuddle with you over at your place? There may be a "cuddle-up" service in your town or city.

Cuddlers would also be an ideal substitute for religioncels whose beliefs forbid them from engaging in premarital sex.

romantic validation can be faked thats the problem

if you could buy love then i wouldnt be here,even looks sometimes cant get real love
 
The prices are either the same or higher than they are for escorts, at least the ones I’ve seen.

No they aren't. A professional cuddler is considerably less expensive than an escort. For example, according to this site, for $330 you can get 8 hrs of overnight snuggle time with a cuddler of your choice: http://snugglebuddies.com/pricing/.

For $330, you can get a decent-looking escort for an hr.
 
I would want to do this but they'd probably be unable to contain their laughter at me.
 
So it's a prostitute, without the fun?
You can cuddle a prostitute you know.

A lot of incels say they don't want to visit prostitutes because it's not about sex, but love and emotional validation. Well, here's a chance for them to hire a woman who'll do everything a gf or wife does, except fuck them.
Low IQ post

It’s not validation if you have to pay for it.
True validation is unconditional.

The cuddler wouldnt give two shits about you if she wasn’t getting her money.

No, low IQ response.

There's no such thing as "unconditional" validation. Sex and love are always business transactions for women. You don't get sex or love unless there's something in it for her.

Furthermore, how do you know someone really loves you or not if you don't have direct access to their inner mental life?
 
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