Deleted member 8353
Former Hikikomori, Aimless Pleasure Seeker
-
- Joined
- May 29, 2018
- Posts
- 9,343
It's always the same bullshit, they'll gaslight you, and then give you false hope. Basically they'll distract you by promising that you'll feel better in the future, instead of actually attempting to address the problem in the present. If you seriously ask about ways to relieve the suffering associated with being sexually deprived and touch starved, you'll generally get nothing, or normies will pretend that the problem doesn't exist. Basically their only strategy for getting you to shut up is to invalidate your pain, and then shame you for having it. I mean the only legit solutions would be to either escortcel (which not everybody can do for one reason or another, and most men can't afford it consistently enough for it to be an actual solution), or to somehow find a way to at least mostly get rid of your libido, and to give up your desire for women. Of course the latter is nearly impossible to do, so that isn't much of a solution either.
Do they not understand that living like this is basically living with chronic pain that you feel everyday? No normie lurkers, it's not quite the same as those periods in your life when you were alone. Imagine always being alone, imagine never feeling a woman's body against yours. You can't cope with the idea that you'll have it in the future when you've never even had it in the past, when you've gotten constant negative reinforcement your whole life, and when your youth is essentially gone yet you have nothing. I would take some forms of mild-moderate recurring pain over inceldom easily, in fact to the point where pain actually distracts me from my deprivation, and makes me feel a bit better for a short time. Despite this, somehow sexual deprivation isn't considered a legitimate problem, despite it being capable of making you want to kill yourself
Do they not understand that living like this is basically living with chronic pain that you feel everyday? No normie lurkers, it's not quite the same as those periods in your life when you were alone. Imagine always being alone, imagine never feeling a woman's body against yours. You can't cope with the idea that you'll have it in the future when you've never even had it in the past, when you've gotten constant negative reinforcement your whole life, and when your youth is essentially gone yet you have nothing. I would take some forms of mild-moderate recurring pain over inceldom easily, in fact to the point where pain actually distracts me from my deprivation, and makes me feel a bit better for a short time. Despite this, somehow sexual deprivation isn't considered a legitimate problem, despite it being capable of making you want to kill yourself