Most of us have been mistreated. We are victims, that's why we ended up here. Most likely in school, middle school and high school, if you weren't bullied then at the very least you were marginalized. And then in college you weren't able to live properly cause you were carrying the wounds from school. And then it snowballed, getting worse and worse, missing your youth.
Tbh only now I'm realizing just how much of an effect it had on me. The way people treated me is why I've become who I am - depressed for ~12 years, many anxieties etc...
But we need to learn to love ourselves and realize that most people suck, but we must not let it affect us. Love yourself and try to find good people to have around you, as few as they are they do exist. Society mistreated us and now they forgot about it, living great and happy lives and not caring about us. And the only way to get back at them is living well, cause they forgot about you and don't give a shit, so you're the only one who you're hurting by holding on to that pain.
Controversial take: this refers to a small percentage of women too, I'm talking about all the people that suffered this way. There aren't as many as guys but there's a smaller % of autistic or ugly girls that had similar experiences. It mostly happens to the shy ones that take it, just shutting up and trying to endure it, like me. So I'm saying this for all the mistreated shy introverts of the world that had their lives ruined by the assholes in society. Because I feel a sense of kinship with all of those who were hurt like this.
What I'm trying to say is that people like us, who were mistreated and marginalized in school, have had their entire lives ruined. The psychological wounds snowballed and turned us into the anxious sufferers we are today. So love yourself, and ignore those fools (90% of society), who are just psychopathic assholes. Love yourself and if you're not too much of a socially anxious mess like me who is very uncomfortable being around people so he just holes up in his room, then try to surround yourself with good people and ignore the assholes in society, not worth paying them any attention.
Tbh only now I'm realizing just how much of an effect it had on me. The way people treated me is why I've become who I am - depressed for ~12 years, many anxieties etc...
But we need to learn to love ourselves and realize that most people suck, but we must not let it affect us. Love yourself and try to find good people to have around you, as few as they are they do exist. Society mistreated us and now they forgot about it, living great and happy lives and not caring about us. And the only way to get back at them is living well, cause they forgot about you and don't give a shit, so you're the only one who you're hurting by holding on to that pain.
Controversial take: this refers to a small percentage of women too, I'm talking about all the people that suffered this way. There aren't as many as guys but there's a smaller % of autistic or ugly girls that had similar experiences. It mostly happens to the shy ones that take it, just shutting up and trying to endure it, like me. So I'm saying this for all the mistreated shy introverts of the world that had their lives ruined by the assholes in society. Because I feel a sense of kinship with all of those who were hurt like this.
What I'm trying to say is that people like us, who were mistreated and marginalized in school, have had their entire lives ruined. The psychological wounds snowballed and turned us into the anxious sufferers we are today. So love yourself, and ignore those fools (90% of society), who are just psychopathic assholes. Love yourself and if you're not too much of a socially anxious mess like me who is very uncomfortable being around people so he just holes up in his room, then try to surround yourself with good people and ignore the assholes in society, not worth paying them any attention.
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