every human being is a cheater
What does this mean? This is clearly false. There exist people who don't cheat. They don't cheat on their long-term sexual partners, business partners, school tests, taxes, and games of competition. Why? You guessed it: principles.
why would it change just because you want kids out of the deal
Because for the sake of a stable and healthy environment for my children to grow up and be emotionally, socially, and psychologically well-adjusted members of the tribe known as society, I would need such an environment at home. Part of keeping that way is not putting the mother of my children at risk for psychological and emotional damage. It's a known fact (if it wasn't obvious
a priori) that unstable homes create maladjusted humans: delinquents, criminals, and degenerates.
it doesn't really matter but im attempting to test my theory that intending not to cheat on a hypothetical bitch is foid worship
It could be, but it's not the case by default in all cases. It depends on your values and beliefs.
this is what i mean by principles is just a word and that it's a social answer. it is objectively better for a society if every romantic relationship was one on one and cheating/divorcing is discouraged. but even if my hypothetical is a hypothetical, i still want to base it in the current real world. in the current real world, no one gives a fuck about those principles, especially foids. someone who adheres to good-for-society principles when no one else in the society is following them, they just get fucked and taken advantage of.
Nobody gives a fuck about those principles because we, as a society, stopped punishing this kind of destructive behavior, and in fact rewarded half of society for engaging in it. A married, middle-aged woman with children wants to feel 14 again and experience the wild side of her life with that BBC gangbang she's always wanted to experience? No problem. Just throw her marriage. The state will give her the husband's house, half of his current money, be receiving alimony in addition to child support, and have full custody of the children. Then she'll drop off the kids at her parent's house and buy a plane ticket to the Caribbean. All of her friends will, of course, support her and tell to, "slayyy kween," so she'll have that validation (what other women of think of her is paramount) and be comfortable in the feeling that she made the correct life decision, all for the sake of her wanton hedonism.
You're right. You playing by a certain rule that isn't practiced or enforced by society is you willingly handicapping yourself within that society. But such a rule is for the good of all societies. If the current one isn't principled enough to maintain social order, then the only sensible thing to do as a principled person is not participate and let the chaos burn it all down.
is the crux of your intention to not cheat on a bitch really for the sake of society? i think that's backwards in and of itself but you're saying that even in a society you notice has degenerated into chaos and debauchery, you'd still act for the good of it. what is motivating you to do this?
Perhaps not lost societies such as many Western ones that promote the happiness of the individual above all else, often to the detriment of the society itself, but yes, for the good of society in general. When society burns down (and it will eventually, but i won't be around to give a fuck), you need people with the wherewithal to be able to build a new one that's more stable. Imagine a world run by AI and labor bots to the point where we forget basic mathematics. You need minds to be able to build everything back up, if it ever all comes crashing down.
I'm an anomaly in that way: both a cynic and an idealist. I may want something for the good of society, but I would refuse to participate to try and let the current beast die of hunger.