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It's Over Even if I were to meet a female who likes me, I'll screw up because I have no idea what to do and that will cause her to leave me.

B33troot

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Interacting with females (with the intention of establishing a romantic relationship) is a skill. Chads are good at it. In fact they have it down to a science because they've been doing it so frequently since their teen years. It just comes naturally to them. (Of course, there's the obvious fact that they are able to do so because of their looks but let's set that aside for a moment).

In my case, even if I were to miraculously meet a female who likes me despite my looks, I'll screw up because I have no idea what to and that would 100% cause her to lose interest in me and leave.

Let's say I charm her with muh personality. What happens afterwards? How do I escalate things? How do I initiate, say, a kiss? Or at least a hug? What the fuck do I do when she signals that she's comfortable with moving forward?

It will only be a matter of time before she senses that I'm an inexperienced virgin loser and leaves me to go be with a dude who knows how to handle women.

This is what a lack of romantic experience does to man. This is what anti-incelites don't understand.

It's over. It never began. And even if it begins, it will be over soon.
 
its not a skill, its ur confidence and inhibition which is caused by ur height and looks
 
its not a skill, its ur confidence and inhibition which is caused by ur height and looks
True. But if 2 equally good looking Chads approach a woman, she'll pick the one with the better interaction skills. That's where the "skill" aspect of handling women comes in.

Of course, if the "unskilled" Chad and a Sub5 approach the same woman, she'll pick the Chad.
 
True. But if 2 equally good looking Chads approach a woman, she'll pick the one with the better interaction skills. That's where the "skill" aspect of handling women comes in.

Of course, if the "unskilled" Chad and Sub5 approach the same woman, she'll pick the Chad.
chads have a variety to pick from so why tf would they go for the same girl
 
chads have a variety to pick from so why tf would they go for the same girl

I've seen it happen. Of course, the girl ends up fucking both Chads but at least initially she'll favor the Chad with better interaction skills.
 
its not a skill, its ur confidence and inhibition which is caused by ur height and looks
It's both. At least a bit of it is also practice and experience. Especially for us. We will be much more nervous and overwhelmed should we ever get that close to a girl on a personal level. And being that nervous will make us say and do stupid things, even dumber than what we would normally do. Another reason I would suggest escortelling, the same logic applies to sex as well. You will fuck up the first time, it's normal, but it's not normal to still make beginner mistakes at our age.
 
I've seen it happen. Of course, the girl ends up fucking both Chads but at least initially she'll favor the Chad with better interaction skills.
doesn't matter anyways cuz both of them will get to smash the hoe and move on to the next one
 
It's both. At least a bit of it is also practice and experience. Especially for us. We will be much more nervous and overwhelmed should we ever get that close to a girl on a personal level. And being that nervous will make us say and do stupid things, even dumber than what we would normally do. Another reason I would suggest escortelling, the same logic applies to sex as well. You will fuck up the first time, it's normal, but it's not normal to still make beginner mistakes at our age.

Exactly. Someone my age would be expected to have an abundance of experience with women. And here I am, pondering over how to initiate a hug with a woman.
 
Interacting with females (with the intention of establishing a romantic relationship) is a skill. Chads are good at it. In fact they have it down to a science because they've been doing it so frequently since their teen years. It just comes naturally to them. (Of course, there's the obvious fact that they are able to do so because of their looks but let's set that aside for a moment).

In my case, even if I were to miraculously meet a female who likes me despite my looks, I'll screw up because I have no idea what to and that would 100% cause her to lose interest in me and leave.

Let's say I charm her with muh personality. What happens afterwards? How do I escalate things? How do I initiate, say, a kiss? Or at least a hug? What the fuck do I do when she signals that she's comfortable with moving forward?

It will only be a matter of time before she senses that I'm an inexperienced virgin loser and leaves me to go be with a dude who knows how to handle women.

This is what a lack of romantic experience does to man. This is what anti-incelites don't understand.

It's over. It never began. And even if it begins, it will be over soon.
we never had that experience and no one wants an unexperienced man like us
 
This is why teen love etc is so important

Must normies etc learned how to initiate a kiss, touch her the right way etc in their teens

All women expect you to know this and do this. They 100% do notice that you don't know what your doing
 
Most of it is looks, why do you think a lot of woman stay with their abusive chads?
 
This is why teen love etc is so important

Must normies etc learned how to initiate a kiss, touch her the right way etc in their teens

All women expect you to know this and do this. They 100% do notice that you don't know what your doing
Brutal teenlovepill :cryfeels: :feelsrope:
 
This is why teen love etc is so important

Must normies etc learned how to initiate a kiss, touch her the right way etc in their teens

All women expect you to know this and do this. They 100% do notice that you don't know what your doing

Exactly. Those things need to be learned and practiced.

You can't just expect to get it right the first time.
 
True. But if 2 equally good looking Chads approach a woman, she'll pick the one with the better interaction skills. That's where the "skill" aspect of handling women comes in.

Of course, if the "unskilled" Chad and a Sub5 approach the same woman, she'll pick the Chad.
Very good point. I agree with everything you said up above. Even if we ascend, we'll be more lonely since she'll ditch us, and our .is community will ditch us leaving us nowhere to go except normtard social media like reddit, 4chan, etc.
 
Very good point. I agree with everything you said up above. Even if we ascend, we'll be more lonely since she'll ditch us, and our .is community will ditch us leaving us nowhere to go except normtard social media like reddit, 4chan, etc.

That's my fear. To ascend and then lose her and spend the rest of my life missing what I once had. A part of me thinks it's better to not ascend at all.
 
If she likes you, theres no screwing up. Every mistake is a falling into a higher place with a foid whos star struck
 
Interacting with females (with the intention of establishing a romantic relationship) is a skill. Chads are good at it. In fact they have it down to a science because they've been doing it so frequently since their teen years. It just comes naturally to them. (Of course, there's the obvious fact that they are able to do so because of their looks but let's set that aside for a moment).

In my case, even if I were to miraculously meet a female who likes me despite my looks, I'll screw up because I have no idea what to and that would 100% cause her to lose interest in me and leave.

Let's say I charm her with muh personality. What happens afterwards? How do I escalate things? How do I initiate, say, a kiss? Or at least a hug? What the fuck do I do when she signals that she's comfortable with moving forward?

It will only be a matter of time before she senses that I'm an inexperienced virgin loser and leaves me to go be with a dude who knows how to handle women.

This is what a lack of romantic experience does to man. This is what anti-incelites don't understand.

It's over. It never began. And even if it begins, it will be over soon.
GoER
 

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