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I got this from a spanish forum, but it's so good I'll spend the time to translate it for you guys. Here's the original version in case someone speaks spanish.
Translated:
Good morning guys,
I have to tell you something that's happening to a friend and left me a little confused... Just to know your thoughts on it
As it turns out, my friend got married about 10 years ago, and around 7 years ago, his dad lended him some money to buy a flat, under the condition that it'd be legally only his and not his wife's. Before doing the paperwork for the separation of property between him and his wife (idk what that's called in english exactly), the lawyer (foid) "forgot" to include a business that the guy had started, therefore that was still owned by both.
All these years, my friend has been working his ass off for his family, supporting the two children they have, as well as his wife who decided to stay at home taking care of them, so that the four of them lived off his salary. Well, 3 months ago, after a lot of hard work and suffering, this guy sold his business and got a good chunk of cash, which due to the (foid) lawyer's "mistake", has been split between him and his wife. Since this happened, their relationship got very bad and they're considering divorce.
My friend decided to go to a lawyer to know his options, and the lawyer told him the following:
So many red flags here. This is what society has become, once again it's proven: IF YOU WORK HARD YOU'RE A CUCK. This guy worked really hard for a job + his own business, all that while his wife was fucking chad on the side for sure, and this is how he's rewarded for being a good betabux lmao. Not to mention this is how a marriage based on Reddit's principles of "just have something to offer bro" will usually go.
Buenos días Shurs,
tengo que contaros una cosa que le está pasando a un amigo y que me ha dejado trastocado...para saber vuestra opinión.
Resulta que mi amigo se casó hace cosa de 10 años y hace cosa de 7 su padre le dejo un dinero para comprar un piso pero con la condición de que antes hiciera separación de bienes puesto que la deuda sería de mi amigo con su padre y el piso de mi amigo...hasta aquí bien.
Antes de dicha separación mi amigo montó un empresilla que la abogada "olvidó" meter en la separación con lo que estaba en gananciales.
Todos estos años mi amigo ha trabajado como un negro para dar lo mejor a los dos hijos que vinieron después y a su mujer quien se quedó en casa para cuidarlos, viviendo los 4 del sueldo de mi amigo, resulta que hace 3 meses tras mucho sufrimiento la empresa se vendió dando unos beneficios considerables, los cuales debido al "olvido" han hecho que tanto el, como su mujer reciban bastante dinero y esto parece mentira ha hecho que el matrimonio se tambalee hasta el punto de estar planteándose el divorcio.
Mi amigo ha decidido por su cuenta ir a visitar a un abogado para ver cual sería su situación si decidiera divorciarse y ha alucinado cuando le han puesto el siguiente escenario:
- Aquel piso que compró en separación será usado por la mujer y los niños.
- Mi amigo usará el dinero recibido para pagar la deuda con su padre, con lo que se quedará como si no hubiera recibido nada.
- La mujer se queda disfrutando el piso y la cuantiosa cantidad de dinero recibida por la venta de la empresa y podría comprarse otro piso para alquilarlo o montarse un negocio.
- Mi amigo se tendría que ir de alquiler y perder piso y dinero.
- Al dejar de trabajar, mi amigo tendrá que pasarle una compensatoria a la mujer y al tener un sueldo y la mujer no, hacerse cargo de los gastos de los niños.
Pues resulta que solo por esta situación mi amigo plantea aguantar la situación hasta que no de más de si.
¿Soy yo o esto es una locura?
Translated:
Good morning guys,
I have to tell you something that's happening to a friend and left me a little confused... Just to know your thoughts on it
As it turns out, my friend got married about 10 years ago, and around 7 years ago, his dad lended him some money to buy a flat, under the condition that it'd be legally only his and not his wife's. Before doing the paperwork for the separation of property between him and his wife (idk what that's called in english exactly), the lawyer (foid) "forgot" to include a business that the guy had started, therefore that was still owned by both.
All these years, my friend has been working his ass off for his family, supporting the two children they have, as well as his wife who decided to stay at home taking care of them, so that the four of them lived off his salary. Well, 3 months ago, after a lot of hard work and suffering, this guy sold his business and got a good chunk of cash, which due to the (foid) lawyer's "mistake", has been split between him and his wife. Since this happened, their relationship got very bad and they're considering divorce.
My friend decided to go to a lawyer to know his options, and the lawyer told him the following:
- The wife would keep his house, even if it's legally only his
- My friend would have to spend his part of the money to pay off the debt he took to buy the flat, leaving him with nothing
- With her share of the money and her free flat, his wife could buy another apartment to rent out, or start her own business
- My friend would have to rent a place to live for himself
- Since she has no job, he'd still have to pay her a monthly allowance + child support
So many red flags here. This is what society has become, once again it's proven: IF YOU WORK HARD YOU'RE A CUCK. This guy worked really hard for a job + his own business, all that while his wife was fucking chad on the side for sure, and this is how he's rewarded for being a good betabux lmao. Not to mention this is how a marriage based on Reddit's principles of "just have something to offer bro" will usually go.