Venting Have you been an antisocial child? And was your social life shit before puberty?

[Ugly_equals_Death]

Did you had behavoural problems as a child? I was very violent allways got into fights with other kids and was a true alpha in my young years 3-12. I was faster developed and at the top of the pecking order before foids where involved. Which means in a world without sexuality i had no problem.

Puberty and the fact that i lacked female validation ruined my life and made me to an social outcast.

But my question is: Was your life especially your social life shit before you did hit puberty? Or was everything ok before foids used there vaginas to screw social hirarchy?

 

[CrookedOzCel]

My social life is and always has been nonexistent. Got beaten up and made fun of by pretty much anyone at school because I had such a pathetic body. Fuck the world

 

[TheSecondComing]

I was always an outcast and had few friends and even fewer real ones, always invisible to foids

 

[FinnCel]

It was shit but after becoming an adult, I got incel friends

 

[tulasdanslos]

Holy shit, you actually used the word "antisocial" correctly, props to you man.
I voted that I was an outcast, but you don't need to be violent to be an outcast. I was just mute in class from 9 onwards. Before I had tried being a jester and I wasn't witty enough for it. I only had a friend when I was 11 or so. Dropped him after he asked me if I was gay in a Skype group call.

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[Ugly_equals_Death]

My social life is and always has been nonexistent. Got beaten up and made fun of by pretty much anyone at school because I had such a pathetic body. Fuck the world

Sorry for beating guys like you up, i got beaten up by my brother and what i learned from him was to beat the weak.

 

[Hate_my_life]

For the most part I was an outcast, I've met only 2 friends who I'd play vidya with online but they've probably roped or pissed off.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

it was pretty bad but i also fought against it and always had at least one friend at each life stage

the problem is there were never any romantic opportunities anyway where I could 'gather all my energy' and 'just be myself' to make the most of it

 

[Valiant Virgin]

At a very young age (6/7), I was very outgoing and would go up to strangers and talk with them whenever I wanted. I seemed to get that out at a young age, because by my early teens I had become very introverted.

 

[Braincel14w]

I hit puberty very early and was much bigger and stronger than everyone else in my year for a few years. For those few years I was treated much better by my peers and made friends easily. Before and after this period I am basically invisible, mediocre and forgettable to other people. I experienced the blackpill.

 

[Deleted member 17599]

Yes bro. I was violent as well and totally incompatible with other people when I was a kid. Now, I am high inhib and can at least barely pretend being a normie, but I could not control myself that way when I was younger.

 

[seija]

I used to be fine when I was a kid but puberty kicked in and foids ruined the hierarchy. Former friends that I used to relate to and have respect to have either gone to different schools or talk about holes or basic normalfag shit 24/7. Me and my current friends just dick around and sometimes play D&D.

 

[2340922]

a lot of frens
frens ?

 

[Insomniac]

I was more social and low inhib before puberty fucked me up

 

[Lubricure]

I wasn´t antisocial as a child, they made me like that. I was quiet, but I was also known to retaliate so aggressively that usually required the teachers to protect the bullies from me.

My social life has been always crappy at best, the only saving grace is that I have a few trusted friends, that´s all.

 

[Hell]

I was introverted but still had childhood low inhibition to help me out so I could usually manage socially to varying degrees.
Then right at the start of highschool I got hit with severe acne which made me truly aware of my appearance for the first time (outside of being bullied over my height before). I still managed to make a few friends based around my hobbies but by senior year they were gone.
As an adult I haven't had an acquaintance much less a friend, I think its because when you're a kid people are sometimes open to being around you just because you have vaguely similar interests but as an adult people usually have all the friends they'll ever want and only consider "ok what can this person do for ME."

 

[Words2_live_bye]

From Kindergarten to 7th grade i was somewhat an outcast, but was atleast able to try to talk to some people back then. In highschool i was basically an outcast for sure, along with the other incel type teens. We had a small group of 3 or 4. In my last 2 years of highschool i basically was a DEFINITE outcast and only socialised if i had to talk in class or attempted to crack a joke infront of a room of normies. Looking back i just embarrassed myself.
Now i'm a NEET who didn't graduate highschool, and only have 1 online friend, no IRL friends to speak of.

 

[EyesAreSoCold]

Did you had behavoural problems as a child? I was very violent allways got into fights with other kids and was a true alpha in my young years 3-12. I was faster developed and at the top of the pecking order before foids where involved. Which means in a world without sexuality i had no problem.

Puberty and the fact that i lacked female validation ruined my life and made me to an social outcast.

But my question is: Was your life especially your social life shit before you did hit puberty? Or was everything ok before foids used there vaginas to screw social hirarchy?

I was always the small and quiet kid and I had some experience of getting bullied but it was manageable, my life didn't really turn to shit until puberty tbh.

 

[MrIncelSaySo2000]

I was bullied thus my reason for being anti-social, as I grew up my social life got worse.

 

[Ugly_equals_Death]

So far the chance is 30% that puberty made you an incel.

 

[investigatorcel]

no before puberty i had a few friends even though i was very shy now i'm totally autistic

 

[DerPreuße]

I had friends and was integrated into the social group. But at a certain point after puberty, I started to deject myself. Friends became acquaintances. I ignored my male peers and they ignored me. I spend most of my free time playing video games and being in front of the computer. The lack of an allowance really pissed me off and depressed me. I was basically living without any money. I missed out on a lot of social trends that way.
I started to not take care of myself as much. I wasn't encouraged to take up any hobbies or extra curricular skills.
In addition to that puberty hit me really hard and kinda got crippling social anxiety. It might have been because of porn and fapping, I found out later.

Girls still invited me to their birthday parties long after I became a complete loner and was already a Ghost for some reason, but I never went.

 

[Anoncel123]

I was bullied thus my reason for being anti-social, as I grew up my social life got worse.

 

[happiless]

Im asocial because of my autism, and I have a decent verbal IQ but I'm mentally slower than average which cancels it out. So I was bullied because of looks and behaviour. I hate normies as much as I hate myself, but them bullying and isolating me is only part of human nature. I'm a subhuman because I'm too far from being a normie. A 70 IQ retard is less of a subhuman than me, if he can act like a normal human and/or looks like one. Thanks nature

 

[Napoleon de Geso]

It was easy in childhood to have friends, in teen years social hell started

 

[Deleted member 1783]

I will never forget being ostracized since the first grade, when a group of stuck up rice and white bitches started mocking me while laughing at me for no reason.

 

[ihaveno1]

Always had very few irl friends, before puberty only had a couple

 

[Nothingness]

I dont remember

 

[Deleted member 16455]

been an outcast since kindergarten. Very young age. My parents def had an effect on this

 

[TheRealChincel]

I was asocial but girls sometimes seemed to like me before puberty (not a brag, I was not into them at that age) then puberty came along and I was a pariah.

 

[BitterStill]

No. I was forced to adapt to that.

 

[LittleDarkAge]

Yeah, if you're not NT it's impossible to make friends even as a kid. My only friends are other incels

 

[Incline]

I always had some friends in various chapters of my life but my pool of friends progressively decreased every stage of my life and usually just revolved around mildly autistic guys and retards. Also a couple of chads here and there.

Lately I haven't met anyone new. I have no friends now. None. I am ok with that though. I am pretty sure it's hard to call any of my friends I knew 'real' friends. They were just people I hanged out with and done things together with but nobody I could speak freely to like I do here.

That in fact, makes you guys my only real friends. And we don't even know each other. How ironic.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

I was really popular and had a good social life before puberty. Then it all stopped in 5th grade, when I moved.

 

[Mainländer]

All my problems started around age 11 (beginning of puberty). I was a normal kid before that.

 

[PEETER]

yeah. my problems started around the age of 12 when i developed social anxiety out of nowhere and combine this with moving to another country and you have a recipe for disaster.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Ever since I was a kid, I was a weirdo who used to stand by a far off tree by myself as all the future chads played football and basketball. I just stood by the tree thinking about movies and wanting to be home.

 

[Neggr]

Because I was handsome pre-puberty, I had a good social life until 5th grade. That was the first time I experienced lonelyness and sadness because of my lacking social life.

 

[GetFucked]

Completely terrible, starting from kindergarten I was a quiet autistic weirdo. Luckily in middle school I formed a tight knit group of low status rejects. We've drifted apart but that got us all through school until we separated. After high school we coped with weed and just cruising around town at night, probably the only positive social stuff I had.

 

[Deleted member 18435]

Yep. Yet the cucks around me will insist I have a good life JFL. 99% of people in my area giga lifemog me to hell and back. Just one of the many reasons I hate normshits and foids.

 

[GeneticFilth]

I lived a decent life and then I had to wear glasses and became ugly. After that my life ended because your life is a direct reflection of the way that you look.

 

[GetFucked]

I lived a decent life and then I had to wear glasses and became ugly. After that my life ended because your life is a direct reflection of the way that you look.

The glassespill is brutal bro, If I didn't wear glasses I would've been a jock normie, I don't wear them anymore thankfully. Squintmaxxing is the way to go

 

[GeneticFilth]

The glassespill is brutal bro, If I didn't wear glasses I would've been a jock normie, I don't wear them anymore thankfully. Squintmaxxing is the way to go

It's so comically bad. Glasses are supposed to help your trash genes, but have the consequence of making you look ugly as fuck unless you have a decent-good forward grown maxilla and mandible. You can't even wear contacts when you're young because your eyes aren't done growing. Shit is cancer. Everyone that has bad eyesight wears contacts after puberty except for tallfags.

 

[GetFucked]

It's so comically bad. Glasses are supposed to help your trash genes, but have the consequence of making you look ugly as fuck unless you have a decent-good forward grown maxilla and mandible. You can't even wear contacts when you're young because your eyes aren't done growing. Shit is cancer. Everyone that has bad eyesight wears contacts after puberty except for tallfags.

Too right man, plus everyone assumes you're intelligent and they can bum answers off you while in school. I stopped wearing glasses because I legit thought they we're making my vision worse, they do the exact fucking opposite of their intended use.

 

[Lux]

Constant fights, against school authorities and everyone on school who tried to mock me or touch me to fight, but always idealized a life never meant since them; gladly, i never were nor will ever tolerate people in real life trying to put me down or submit me to their will at the expense of my autonomy and Ego. It is surprising i was not considered delinquent by their standards; Today, i know the risk that exists, so more cautious and less choleric approach, but i wish things were better back them, instead of choking, beating and cursing the hordes of "classmates" that wanted to bully me, this was 2017 to before.