Lv99_BixNood
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How can we prevent weaponized loners from striking?
<p>Recent mass shootings in Highland Park, Illinois; Buffalo, New York; and Uvalde, Texas, have produced the same futile debates that always follow such tragedies. Conservatives blame mental illness, and liberals blame gun access.</p>
www.hawaiitribune-herald.com
When testosterone-fueled competitive men (built by natural selection) find strong social bonds in the form of intimacy, they self-domesticate into reliable boyfriends, husbands and fathers. Culture can help or hinder this. Alternately, our cultures of creation and service (e.g., art, sport, religion, activism, etc.), can transform aggression into creativity.
But when a young man has been unlucky in social life and has no cultural ways to steel himself against misfortune, he can become vindictive. Family cultures create methods to interpret feelings of rejection and loneliness, helping young people accommodate pain into the larger life story of positive and negative feelings. But if we live in a blame-based culture — where others are always blamed for our grievances or misfortunes — then the taste for vengeance grows.
That's a lot of flowery words to say they are incels
Everyone knows the feeling of resentment, but compare two cultural approaches to disappointment: a stoic approach, and a blame-based approach. The stoic culture asserts that “life isn’t fair.” Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. But there is no enemy that’s preventing you from your happiness. This approach reduces envy and increases resilience. There is no one to blame, to obsess about, and no one to launch a campaign of violence against.
More proof that stoicism = cuckoldry. Life isn't fair bro, just be a good little cuck and accept you will die alone without blaming the party responsible for your misery: women.