Deleted member 7448
Name is Abdu, live in Laos, born on 24.08.1992.
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The one sort of advantage I have over most of you guys is the fact that I'm very far from neurotypical (maybe even autistic idk). Of course this has a huge negative effect on every facet of my life (crippling depression, extreme avoidance of people etc...), BUT it has one big advantage.
That advantage is that I can withstand somewhat better not experiencing affection/love/sex/a relationship.
You see, I've spent 16 hours a day laying in bed with my laptop vegetating and consuming random shit NOT because I was forced to. No, I chose this lifestyle. This is the only thing I find comfy, not tiring, not inducing anxiety and even remotely interesting. Actually going out in the world doing all the shit required to get into a relationship and maintaining being in one sounds like a mild version of hell to me.
So all I really have to deal with is my urge to have sex and cuddle (only really painful once a week or so) and the need to love someone and be loved and trust each other completely (it sucks hard but I don't trust people anyway and I'm very cynical).
But for you more normal guys it must be even worse (especially if you're high T). Cause my million problems are all caused by my own brain, and so I can at least cope with it better. It doesn't matter to me that much that I'm bald and have missing teeth and I'm ugly etc... I don't really depend on the whims of women that much since sex and love is not that big on my list of problems.
That advantage is that I can withstand somewhat better not experiencing affection/love/sex/a relationship.
You see, I've spent 16 hours a day laying in bed with my laptop vegetating and consuming random shit NOT because I was forced to. No, I chose this lifestyle. This is the only thing I find comfy, not tiring, not inducing anxiety and even remotely interesting. Actually going out in the world doing all the shit required to get into a relationship and maintaining being in one sounds like a mild version of hell to me.
So all I really have to deal with is my urge to have sex and cuddle (only really painful once a week or so) and the need to love someone and be loved and trust each other completely (it sucks hard but I don't trust people anyway and I'm very cynical).
But for you more normal guys it must be even worse (especially if you're high T). Cause my million problems are all caused by my own brain, and so I can at least cope with it better. It doesn't matter to me that much that I'm bald and have missing teeth and I'm ugly etc... I don't really depend on the whims of women that much since sex and love is not that big on my list of problems.