Venting i hate being fat but i eat to cope with life and enjoy it

[My Name Jeff]

currently weigh 290 lb

i have tried dieting many times, tried incorporating exercise, can never stick to it

i hate being fat, i know i look gross, but i love to eat, it's the only enjoyment i get in life. and depriving myself of it seems pointless

seriously. when i try to lose weight i can't help but think why? what will it benefit me. i won't get dates, won't improve any aspect of my life, nothing really will change except my self perception which is pretty irrelevant

a brutal cycle

 

[Govid_Dorious]

currently weigh 290 lb

 

[My Name Jeff]

 

[Govid_Dorious]

dis y u inkwell

 

[Moroccancel2-]

1000 calories a day, 2 liters of water, walk 2 hours a day or 10,000 steps and a cope to kill hunger, like tobacco or drugs.

40-50 kilos in a year.

 

[My Name Jeff]

dis y u inkwell

wth is this image

 

[My Name Jeff]

1000 calories a day, 2 liters of water, walk 2 hours a day or 10,000 steps and a cope to kill hunger, like tobacco or drugs.

40-50 kilos in a year.

but why

 

[Govid_Dorious]

wth is this image

obese corpse all layers are literal lard

 

[My Name Jeff]

obese corpse all layers are literal lard

meh. does it matter really? no corpses look too stellar

 

[Moroccancel2-]

but why

If you want to die, it's better to die with something that doesn't make you suffer terribly. Having diabetes, heart problems and other diseases can be fucking hard. And then, if you don't have the balls to commit suicide, you will suffer until the end of your days.

It goes beyond the cope, since for an incel having a good body is useless except to avoid future suffering in the face of a life that wants to sustain itself with copes.

 

[Mortis]

but why

There's no reason other than health benefits

 

[NirvanaFan1988]

Are you brown? If so then it's really over for you buddy mang

 

[Celius]

I’m really scared to footcope. I don’t wanna end up getting too fat.

 

[My Name Jeff]

If you want to die, it's better to die with something that doesn't make you suffer terribly. Having diabetes, heart problems and other diseases can be fucking hard. And then, if you don't have the balls to commit suicide, you will suffer until the end of your days.

It goes beyond the cope, since for an incel having a good body is useless except to avoid future suffering in the face of a life that wants to sustain itself with copes.

tbh even if you live till you are old you can be healthy or unhealthy you still suffer from age and become some vegetable who pisses themselves i can't see living past 40 being too enjoyable

 

[Govid_Dorious]

does it matter really?

yeah, its disgusting having all this shit inside you

 

[My Name Jeff]

Are you brown? If so then it's really over for you buddy mang

white

 

[My Name Jeff]

yeah, its disgusting having all this shit inside you

about as disgusting as being short and bald

 

[My Name Jeff]

There's no reason other than health benefits

and for me that doesn't even matter

if i was 120 lb, 290 lb, or 600 lb, i don't think my romantic situation would change.

 

[DarkStarDown]

Eating can be a good cope, but try to get some exercise in to balance it out.

 

[Govid_Dorious]

about as disgusting as being short and bald

yeah but its natural and unchangeble, all this lard is from kiked goyslop products buddy boyo

 

[My Name Jeff]

Eating can be a good cope, but try to get some exercise in to balance it out.

yeah, i need to, i'm just so mentally drained after work + 2 hours of commuting it's hard

 

[DarkStarDown]

yeah, i need to, i'm just so mentally drained after work + 2 hours of commuting it's hard

Ah fuck dude that’s tough, try and do it on days off if possible

 

[Moroccancel2-]

tbh even if you live till you are old you can be healthy or unhealthy you still suffer from age and become some vegetable who pisses themselves i can't see living past 40 being too enjoyable

If that is your wish, nothing can be done brocel. All these diseases with obesity are terribly suffered. It only makes your coping worse,.terribly worse.

 

[My Name Jeff]

If that is your wish, nothing can be done brocel. All these diseases with obesity are terribly suffered. It only makes your coping worse,.terribly worse.

it's hard to make a change so drastic when the benefits will be negligible, but you have a point.

 

[Moroccancel2-]

it's hard to make a change so drastic when the benefits will be negligible, but you have a point.

It is an investment in the future for your health, just that. And then, losing weight is very hard at first, because weight loss is progressive and in a month, realistically, you will not lose more than 4-5 kilos. Hence, a drink such as cigarettes or a drug such as amphetamines are the most effective way to reduce hunger and keep the mind calmer.

Every journey begins with the first step.

I wish you the best of success, brocel.

 

[Mortis]

If that is your wish, nothing can be done brocel. All these diseases with obesity are terribly suffered. It only makes your coping worse,.terribly worse.

I deserve to suffer.

 

[Moroccancel2-]

I deserve to suffer.

Why?

 

[Linesnap99]

food is good, but being fat is not

 

[My Name Jeff]

food is good, but being fat is not

yes, exactly

 

[mrlunatic]

currently weigh 290 lb

i have tried dieting many times, tried incorporating exercise, can never stick to it

i hate being fat, i know i look gross, but i love to eat, it's the only enjoyment i get in life. and depriving myself of it seems pointless

seriously. when i try to lose weight i can't help but think why? what will it benefit me. i won't get dates, won't improve any aspect of my life, nothing really will change except my self perception which is pretty irrelevant

a brutal cycle

290 lbs depends on what height, what's your height ?

 

[Suicide Sheep]

seriously. when i try to lose weight i can't help but think why? what will it benefit me. i won't get dates, won't improve any aspect of my life, nothing really will change except my self perception which is pretty irrelevant

Self perception is important for your self esteem. You wouldn't be as sad about being an incel if you had a healthier body.
I was a bit chubby at some point in life, but I managed to lose about 18 pounds in some months by slowly but surely getting used to eating less and healthier. This also saved me a decent amount of money I used to spend buying ingredients and stuff.
I would have to create a whole thread to properly explain everything but, in short, NEVER starve, just learn how to eat until you are not hungry anymore.

 

[My Name Jeff]

290 lbs depends on what height, what's your height ?

5ft10/178cm

 

[wastedcodeine]

do you have noticeable facial asymmetry? if not then try to leanmaxx and you might be able to ascend if you have decent bones (assuming you're white).

you really only need to be in a calorie deficit everyday, and you don't need to diet or anything you just gotta consume less than you use. you burn about 1.8k calories per day doing literally nothing so you don't gotta start gymceling either.

i get how hard it can be to do any of this considering your current situation in life but honestly just for your own health you should try lose some of that weight. i'd also try finding another cope to make it easier but again that's gonna be kinda hard considering your life rn