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Venting I would be okay with never having sex if I didn’t crave love and affection from women so fucking much.

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I just wanna be loved, but don’t think I’m worthy
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I would just masturbate if I ever got horny. I wouldn’t care about sex if I didn’t care about connecting with another person.

But my intense hunger for love, intimacy, a person who cares about me is what kills me. When I say I’m sexually frustrated, I mean that I’m frustrated that I don’t get to have sex with a girl I like both physically and as a person.

I have never been interested in “drowning in pussy” or hookups. I wouldn’t decline an opportunity but I’ve always wanted a nice relationship more. But I’m not good enough for one. I don’t deserve one. No girl would be insane enough to want me. Even if I did get a relationship I don’t think she’d love me. I doubt love even exists.

I only care about my virginity because it’s an indicator that I’m undesirable. Even if no one found it pathetic for a guy to be in his 20s and beyond to still be a kissless virgin, even if there was no shame about it, I still wouldn’t feel much happier.

That’s what hurts about being incel, to me.

I feel so alone...
 
I mean yeah, this is why escortcels are accepted here.

I wish it was just sex that I craved, but that's not reality.
 
Love doesn’t exist. Tbh I just want harems, cause JFL @ dealing with a foid if I’m not horny.
 
Love doesn’t exist. Tbh I just want harems, cause JFL @ dealing with a foid if I’m not horny.
It probably doesn’t but I want it so badly
I feel a lack of affection in my life and it hurts

Also I don’t think I could handle a harem. Maybe a polyamorous relationship with me and two girls if I like them both equally at most.
 
It probably doesn’t but I want it so badly
I feel a lack of affection in my life and it hurts

Also I don’t think I could handle a harem. Maybe a polyamorous relationship with me and two girls if I like them both equally at most.
Why could you not handle a harem? Just fuck her, then kick her out.
 
Why could you not handle a harem? Just fuck her, then kick her out.
Because I would probably get attached to her and catch feelings, especially if I like her personality.
Like I said I don’t want hookups. I don’t care for the idea of fucking a girl and then chucking her. I wanna date. I wanna spend time with her. I wanna experience all the positive things about relationships.
I don’t need multiple girls. Just one.
 
Because I would probably get attached to her and catch feelings, especially if I like her personality.
Like I said I don’t want hookups. I don’t care for the idea of fucking a girl and then chucking her. I wanna date. I wanna spend time with her. I wanna experience all the positive things about relationships.
I don’t need multiple girls. Just one.
Relationships me. Only time I wanna see a foid is if she’s on my dick lol.
 
Nah i want sex and a relationship. If she isnt fucking you someone else is, also she doesnt love you
 
Relationships me. Only time I wanna see a foid is if she’s on my dick lol.
Good for you.
I wish I had your feelings. Then I wouldn’t feel so bad.
 
Good for you.
I wish I had your feelings. Then I wouldn’t feel so bad.
Eh, it’s kinda a natural progression when you hate foids like I do. I don’t wanna spend any time with one at all, I just wanna use them.
 
Eh, it’s kinda a natural progression when you hate foids like I do. I don’t wanna spend any time with one at all, I just wanna use them.
Dunno if I’ll ever get to that point, even if my resentment towards women grows. I’ll still want their non-existent love.
 
Can relate. All i want and care for is affection and intimacy from a girl. If I could get that I wouldn't give a shit about how much chad gets to slay.
 
Can relate. All i want and care for is affection and intimacy from a girl. If I could get that I wouldn't give a shit about how much chad gets to slay.
Same. I would be okay with banging one girl for the rest of my life if we loved each other and we both made it work.
 
I just want to be hugged and loved. Humans require touch, it’s literally coded into us. Depriving humans of touch and love is torture and leads to resentment, anger, irrationality and sometimes even violent tendencies.
 
I just want to be hugged and loved. Humans require touch, it’s literally coded into us. Depriving humans of touch and love is torture and leads to resentment, anger, irrationality and sometimes even violent tendencies.
There’s nothing we can do about it
We can’t make women love us
Even if we could by force I wouldn’t enjoy it. I wouldn’t enjoy it if she doesn’t do it out of love, because she wants to.
 
There’s nothing we can do about it
We can’t make women love us
Even if we could by force I wouldn’t enjoy it. I wouldn’t enjoy it if she doesn’t do it out of love, because she wants to.
It hurts bro :feelsrope:
 
Cope. You would still want sex because that's how you're wired. I don't want a relationship but I really want sex.
 
Cope. You would still want sex because that's how you're wired. I don't want a relationship but I really want sex.
I never said I wouldn’t not want sex or want to experience it at some point. I just wouldn’t be crazy depressed about not having sex because sex alone isn’t the thing that makes me sad, unlike loneliness or lack of intimacy.
I feel more sad about not having a girlfriend than I do about solely not being able to get my dick wet
 
I never said I wouldn’t not want sex or want to experience it at some point. I just wouldn’t be crazy depressed about not having sex because sex alone isn’t the thing that makes me sad, unlike loneliness or lack of intimacy.
I feel more sad about not having a girlfriend than I do about solely not being able to get my dick wet

I feel sad about not being able to get my dick wet because its a reminder of how much of a subhuman I am.
 
I feel sad about not being able to get my dick wet because its a reminder of how much of a subhuman I am.
I don’t deny your sadness

but I am just talking about how I feel

you probably wouldn’t feel that way if you had access to escorts

even if I did I wouldn’t be any happier
 
Just become a hikikomori, OP. Works for me and other guy i know on internet. I guarantee you if you won't leave your room for 6-9 months straight you will turn into asexual, If you don't see women they don't interest you.
 
Just become a hikikomori, OP. Works for me and other guy i know on internet. I guarantee you if you won't leave your room for 6-9 months straight you will turn into asexual, If you don't see women they don't interest you.
I’ve been NEET since November when I got fired and it hasn’t made me feel better. Now I just get unhealthily obsessed with fictional women in cartoons and movies and TV shows that will never exist and would never go out with me if they were real because I need to cope with what ails me.
And for the record I do very much want sex. But I want to love someone. I want to love the one I have sex with. I want sex to be the icing on the cake that is a nice relationship. I want sex to just be one component of a nice relationship. I want sex and I want cuddles equally.
 
Better to not miss out on the experience of having sex ngl
 
I would just masturbate if I ever got horny. I wouldn’t care about sex if I didn’t care about connecting with another person.

But my intense hunger for love, intimacy, a person who cares about me is what kills me. When I say I’m sexually frustrated, I mean that I’m frustrated that I don’t get to have sex with a girl I like both physically and as a person.

I have never been interested in “drowning in pussy” or hookups. I wouldn’t decline an opportunity but I’ve always wanted a nice relationship more. But I’m not good enough for one. I don’t deserve one. No girl would be insane enough to want me. Even if I did get a relationship I don’t think she’d love me. I doubt love even exists.

I only care about my virginity because it’s an indicator that I’m undesirable. Even if no one found it pathetic for a guy to be in his 20s and beyond to still be a kissless virgin, even if there was no shame about it, I still wouldn’t feel much happier.

That’s what hurts about being incel, to me.

I feel so alone...
Same. I would be okay with banging one girl for the rest of my life if we loved each other and we both made it work.
Nah i want sex and a relationship. If she isnt fucking you someone else is, also she doesnt love you
 
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Even if you don't want to have sex, just knowing you are sexually attractive and the validation that comes with a woman actually wanting to have sex with you (not including betabux obviously), has got to feel fantastic. Just the sexual and romantic validation alone would be enough
 
"I'm not sex deprived, I'm love deprived"
 
Give me enough NEETbux+drugs and I'm fine.
 

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