Iamnothere000
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Let’s assume you did all the things normies told you to:
-workout
-dress nice
-learn to socialise
-lower your standards
-good haircut
-find interesting hobbies
-good hygiene
-build a social circle
-lots of therapy
And after maybe 5 years you would meet a girl who likes you and she became your girlfriend.
Would you even be able to really appreciate her?
Because, in all likelihood, she would have done very few of the thigs mentioned above to get into the relationship. She just had to be herself, unlike you.
Could you even see her as remotely equal?
Seeing her would make me think things like:
“If I were like you, I would never have been good enough for you.”
And I would be borderline disgusted by her.
There would be no real romance in the relationship. She would just be a price you won because you invested all this work and had luck.
What I’m trying to say is, if you have to work in order to get in a relationship, it will not be a relationship between equals but more like employment were you get fired as soon as you underperform too much.
-workout
-dress nice
-learn to socialise
-lower your standards
-good haircut
-find interesting hobbies
-good hygiene
-build a social circle
-lots of therapy
And after maybe 5 years you would meet a girl who likes you and she became your girlfriend.
Would you even be able to really appreciate her?
Because, in all likelihood, she would have done very few of the thigs mentioned above to get into the relationship. She just had to be herself, unlike you.
Could you even see her as remotely equal?
Seeing her would make me think things like:
“If I were like you, I would never have been good enough for you.”
And I would be borderline disgusted by her.
There would be no real romance in the relationship. She would just be a price you won because you invested all this work and had luck.
What I’m trying to say is, if you have to work in order to get in a relationship, it will not be a relationship between equals but more like employment were you get fired as soon as you underperform too much.