I'm black and my family doesn't accept my white boyfriend. What should I do?

[IncelCream]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/18x6q0r/im_black_and_my_family_doesnt_accept_my_white/?share_id=5K3LCOcgqQ7_yasPeemFl&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1


I'm a 17 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend who is also 17 for a few months now. The major issue is that he's white and all of my previous boyfriends have been black. I didn't think race was a big deal so I never mentioned to my family that my new boyfriend was white before they met him.

I'm the only sister and have 4 brothers - 2 older and 2 younger. My mom was cordial when she met my boyfriend but I could tell she wasn't thrilled. My dad refuses to even meet him or eat dinner with us, saying I'm betraying myself and my background. I lied and told my boyfriend my dad was just sick to avoid an awkward conversation about this.

My oldest brother is very into racial justice and black issues and he's been really angry that I'm dating a white guy now. He's giving me a lot of grief over this relationship. Another older brother who has only dated white and Latina girls is also being hypocritical and keeps glaring at my boyfriend and twisting his words.

My younger brothers don't seem to care much either way though my 11 year old brother likes my boyfriend and they've played video games together.

The worst part is both my older brothers sat my boyfriend down and gave him a "hurt our sister and you'll regret it" speech that was totally uncalled for and embarrassing.

I've tried explaining to my family that I really care about my boyfriend as an individual, not just because of his race, but they aren't listening. His family is more subtle with their disapproval, his mom especially makes sharky comments about me.

This whole thing is causing a lot of tension. I don't know how to get my family, especially my dad and oldest brother, to accept my interracial relationship. Any advice on how to deal with this situation would be greatly appreciated!

Edit: thanks for all the support I will definitely note your ideas. But I feel as though I left out an important information. His family at first displayed a very racist behavior towards me, specially his mom who outwardly disliked me and his dad who was ignoring me the whole time. But he successfully talked them into at-least being civil to me.

Another thing is that my family didn’t make any scene when my brother dated white girls. Other than funny comments here and there. They infact liked her and treated her normal, that’s why I didn’t mention that my boyfriend was white to my family

Edit: again thanks for all the tips but pls don’t use this post as an excuse to comment racist stuff. I’m only asking for tips on how to make my relationship work. I’m not into any of that stuff. If you have a negative opinion towards black people that isn’t related to this post. Keep it to yourself.

 

[Dr. Autismo]

It's not racist when niggers discriminate against whites.
It's empowering. ;^D

 

[IncelCream]

It's not racist when niggers discriminate against whites.
It's empowering. ;^D

Clearly she didn't she allow a white man to date her

 

[blackpillednigga]

based family

queue the reddit comments by seething white normies

 

[Arnocel]

its obvious that these niggers just feel like their sister is getting whited instead of blacked.

 

[ItsovERfucks]

sexhaver problems tbh

 

[IncelCream]

its obvious that these niggers just feel like their sister is getting whited instead of blacked.

Bleached

sexhaver problems tbh

 

[lazy_gamer_423]

It's not racist when niggers discriminate against whites.
It's empowering. ;^D

exactly, thats the double standard put in place by kikes

 

[IdontKnow45]

It's not racist when niggers discriminate against whites.
It's empowering. ;^D

 

[Ron.Belgrade]

sexhaver problems tbh

 

[IdontKnow45]

Total nigger death

 

[Hoppipolla]

its obvious that these niggers just feel like their sister is getting whited instead of blacked.

Exactly. It's because of who is dominant and who is submissive.

Weird world we live in.


... also, the term is bleached. XD

 

[Awake]

based family for save that white dude from their sheboon niggER daughter,he better find a cute asian foid

 

[Arnocel]

.. also, the term is bleached. XD

really? i never even knew there was a term for non whites getting fucked by white men tbh

 

[IncelCream]

really? i never even knew there was a term for non whites getting fucked by white men tbh

It was made to combat Blacked

 

[Hoppipolla]

It was made to combat Blacked

To be honest the real way to combat Blacked is to reduce immigration.

 

[Arnocel]

It was made to combat Blacked

based.

 

[M3llow3lectrician]

She wanted that Massa’ BWC

 

[The Abyss]

Males wanna take women of other races & not lose their own.

 

[greggymex7]

 

[greggymex7]

 

[greggymex7]

 

[greggymex7]

 

[greggymex7]

 

[greggymex7]

View: https://www.reddit.com/r/NoStupidQuestions/comments/18x6q0r/im_black_and_my_family_doesnt_accept_my_white/?share_id=5K3LCOcgqQ7_yasPeemFl&utm_content=1&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1


I'm a 17 year old girl and have been dating my boyfriend who is also 17 for a few months now. The major issue is that he's white and all of my previous boyfriends have been black. I didn't think race was a big deal so I never mentioned to my family that my new boyfriend was white before they met him.

 

[solblue]

She's 17, how many boyfriends has she had?

 

[Phosphorus]

To be honest the real way to combat Blacked is to reduce immigration.

 

[Eugenicelsarefunny]

sexhaver problems tbh

 

[Made in Heaven]

based family for save that white dude from their sheboon niggER daughter,he better find a cute asian foid

Jfl. Mulattos mog Hapas. Hope the white guy gets blacked by his GF

 

[IncelCream]

Jfl. Mulattos mog Hapas. Hope the white guy gets blacked by his GF

 

[BELOW_Average_Joe]

Males wanna take women of other races & not lose their own.

If only strict anti-miscegenation laws were a thing. I know a cel on discord, 19 and virgin but I suspect that either he's overeating his looks or is really that fucked up mentally. He doesn't wanna join .is despite being blackpilled for a fairly long time, he just says its too depressing. He's white, 6ft and lives in the west but says he's never gotten any IOIs from any race of foids and he lives in NY.

 

[Regenerator]

sexhaver problems tbh

 

[Balding Subhuman]

 

[diedlonely]

View attachment 1028522

That is just wild!

 

[Incline]

I sure would fuck a nigger girl, some of them are cute but most got a nasty attitude but tbh they are less into lookism than many white women.

 

[diedlonely]

I sure would fuck a nigger girl, some of them are cute but most got a nasty attitude but tbh they are less into lookism than many white women.

True, they are more interested in resources.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

nice rainbow lil nigga

 

[Incline]

True, they are more interested in resources.

tbh tbh

I observed this, why is that? Is it because most of them come from broken homes and have no access to wealth at their young age so they lust over it later?

Most modern problems can be traced back to the breakdown of a family unit tbh.

 

[NeverEvenBegan]

I like the color formatting of your post

 

[The Abyss]

If only strict anti-miscegenation laws were a thing. I know a cel on discord, 19 and virgin but I suspect that either he's overeating his looks or is really that fucked up mentally. He doesn't wanna join .is despite being blackpilled for a fairly long time, he just says its too depressing. He's white, 6ft and lives in the west but says he's never gotten any IOIs from any race of foids and he lives in NY.

He needs to move to sea or get facial surgery.

 

[BELOW_Average_Joe]

He needs to move to sea or get facial surgery.

He only wants a white girl, which imo is valid bc every man should be with a woman of their race (and looksmatch). He's pretty fucked in the head, mentally speaking, mental illness + drug addiction. He's real tho, one of the few real ppl i can speak to bc we're on the same level, in terms of understanding how fucked everything is. I actually have considered doing a SEA link-up in 2025 with a few other ppl i know online, one is a curry who is above avg for a curry but 5'9" and lives in the UK (not incel but hasn't had action in a long time and has low smv) and the other is a mulatto living in the east coast. Would be funny to do that irl unironically.

 

[The Abyss]

He only wants a white girl, which imo is valid bc every man should be with a woman of their race (and looksmatch). He's pretty fucked in the head, mentally speaking, mental illness + drug addiction. He's real tho, one of the few real ppl i can speak to bc we're on the same level, in terms of understanding how fucked everything is. I actually have considered doing a SEA link-up in 2025 with a few other ppl i know online, one is a curry who is above avg for a curry but 5'9" and lives in the UK (not incel but hasn't had action in a long time and has low smv) and the other is a mulatto living in the east coast. Would be funny to do that irl unironically.

Well you get what you can, not what you want at the end of the day. A meet up sounds good, hopefully it works out well.

 

[BELOW_Average_Joe]

Well you get what you can, not what you want at the end of the day. A meet up sounds good, hopefully it works out well.

Yeah let's hope. Idk, I know the curry is def down for it, I speak to him a lot in DMs, he's very blackpilled, but yeah idk its still worrying bc it could end in failure. I think I will try the "improovement" shit but mostly to spite people who say "muh u haven't even tried" and shit

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

The post had cool colors.

 

[diedlonely]

tbh tbh

I observed this, why is that? Is it because most of them come from broken homes and have no access to wealth at their young age so they lust over it later?

Most modern problems can be traced back to the breakdown of a family unit tbh.

Think you may be onto something with that actually. If you grew up poor I suppose some part of you would want to know what it’s like to be rich. But with some women it’s intensified in that they make it their purpose to find someone to be with where they don’t have to work for anything.

 

[Trec]

He should just breakup with that colored foid. The only kind of white man who would date a colored foid is gonna be the most sissy faggot who's giga desperate

 

[Blackpill Monk]

She's 17, how many boyfriends has she had?

Whores gonna whores

 

[FakeFakecel]

its obvious that these niggers just feel like their sister is getting whited instead of blacked.

For sure. This is why they didn't complain when this girl's brother blacked a white girl

 

[Zozizo]

how is this even remotely linked with inceldom if they're having sex ?

 

[IncelCream]

For sure. This is why they didn't complain when this girl's brother blacked a white girl

Yeah they are hypocrites