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I was/am friends with a normie (kind off on-off friendship). We were childhood friends and he managed to ascend after a growth spurt, getting social sucess and performing well academically/monetarily. Despite these contrasts in life quality we still hung out back then. In the summer holidays roughly four years ago he set up a Tinder account just as an experiment.
He uploaded shitty pictures he took with his mobile phone and looked at college-aged women in the area, he swiped roughly ~100 of them and had back then a success rate of 10%.
Then two years ago I saw that he was trying to get a photographer for becoming better with Tinder (because successes were getting rarer and rarer), he back then thought that with a better picture quality more success could be achievable. He once even contacted me because I was back then a tiny bit involved in photography.
Now a few days ago we again talked and he told me that there is no way of getting anything from Tinder anymore - even for him. And other friends (that were now in our age -18/19- back then) agreed with him, so this is not an isolated incidence. With COVID even more men started to become incel due to a greater usage of dating apps and rising standards, even more people (even those who were successful a few years ago) see that something is changing, even those who preached self-improvement now see that success becomes rarer and rarer despite more effort being putt into pursuing it.
Funny how a man that years ago still told me how easy everything was now expresses view points that he would have ridiculed/mocked years ago (as it affected people like me that he considered of lesser worth), back then he preached self-improvement and confidence, now he says that it's over for men - at least in online dating, condescending compassion at first as soon as it only affects those that you consider beneath you, then bargaining that you are better than those that were offed before you, then acceptance/resignation about your own fate. At first they only came for the Autists/Sub5s - "As long as it doesn't affect me" is a retarded mentality, sooner or later it will come to you - funny how that history repeats itself in the individual and wider social scope.
To Normalfags: Funny how quickly times change and how quickly you find yourself among the ranks of those that you previously looked down onto and despised because you thought that it was impossible to end up like that. And still you would probably -despite acknowledging this new reality- distance yourself from all blackpilled thoughts. This is a loser mentality you say - until in a few years the loser is you, but be complacent with the scraps as long as you still have them and never think about the future.
He uploaded shitty pictures he took with his mobile phone and looked at college-aged women in the area, he swiped roughly ~100 of them and had back then a success rate of 10%.
Then two years ago I saw that he was trying to get a photographer for becoming better with Tinder (because successes were getting rarer and rarer), he back then thought that with a better picture quality more success could be achievable. He once even contacted me because I was back then a tiny bit involved in photography.
Now a few days ago we again talked and he told me that there is no way of getting anything from Tinder anymore - even for him. And other friends (that were now in our age -18/19- back then) agreed with him, so this is not an isolated incidence. With COVID even more men started to become incel due to a greater usage of dating apps and rising standards, even more people (even those who were successful a few years ago) see that something is changing, even those who preached self-improvement now see that success becomes rarer and rarer despite more effort being putt into pursuing it.
Funny how a man that years ago still told me how easy everything was now expresses view points that he would have ridiculed/mocked years ago (as it affected people like me that he considered of lesser worth), back then he preached self-improvement and confidence, now he says that it's over for men - at least in online dating, condescending compassion at first as soon as it only affects those that you consider beneath you, then bargaining that you are better than those that were offed before you, then acceptance/resignation about your own fate. At first they only came for the Autists/Sub5s - "As long as it doesn't affect me" is a retarded mentality, sooner or later it will come to you - funny how that history repeats itself in the individual and wider social scope.
To Normalfags: Funny how quickly times change and how quickly you find yourself among the ranks of those that you previously looked down onto and despised because you thought that it was impossible to end up like that. And still you would probably -despite acknowledging this new reality- distance yourself from all blackpilled thoughts. This is a loser mentality you say - until in a few years the loser is you, but be complacent with the scraps as long as you still have them and never think about the future.
