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Something real interesting I noticed in the first 3 months of university are the groups and people that I feel comfortable and don’t feel comfortable with. The groups who you know accept you and the groups who you know don’t accept you. Since I’m not a autismcel, I can usually tell.
From my time online (Fakecel if you aren’t online for huge portions of your day), I was expecting mistreatment from straight white men and acceptance from white faggots. As with all things in life, it did not go as expected.
Before finding this site, I spent most of my time on normie social media outlets such as twitter, reddit and TikTok. Men in general are all demonized to a very high limit, but white men especially. (Ironically, the same bitches who demonize them are the same ones who want them).
So when uni started and the weeks went by, you could imagine my surprise when it was mostly straight white men who I hung out with. They are not at all that bad. Very accepting. It’s a calm, lax atmosphere with them. You can’t disregard that 98% of humans are shitty so not all of them are chill but most of them are. I had to larp a bit to get their respect but that’s just a part of the process.
Now, the gays on the other hand is an entirely different story. Every time, it feels as though I’m on eggshells when I speak to one. I just can’t act or be myself around them. I feel suppressed. For context, I go to one of the gayest schools in the country. According to my new friends for every 3 straight guys, there are 15 gay guys.
I’ve also experienced more micro aggressions and shit from them. I even managed to befriend one at one point but I gave up on that friendship. Story for another thread. They were too socially inept? Or they might’ve just disliked me because they called me a “weird black dude” to my face. Something my other friends wouldn’t have done or said with the same level of malice they did. With my straight friends it would’ve just been banter said in a joking way. But with them, it was said in a way that was meant to hurt me and it really did.
I am curious about the perspective of a black fag on this but I doubt I’d be able to find someone gay who’s emotionally mature enough and a black who’s well spoken/ written enough to have a conversation on this without them being offended or them reporting me to the school for homophobia.
TLDR: Faggots are far more emotionally immature compared to straight people. When given the opportunity, they will treat you far worse as an ethnic than any other white will. They are also less intelligent and far more judgemental than straight people ironically.
From my time online (Fakecel if you aren’t online for huge portions of your day), I was expecting mistreatment from straight white men and acceptance from white faggots. As with all things in life, it did not go as expected.
Before finding this site, I spent most of my time on normie social media outlets such as twitter, reddit and TikTok. Men in general are all demonized to a very high limit, but white men especially. (Ironically, the same bitches who demonize them are the same ones who want them).
So when uni started and the weeks went by, you could imagine my surprise when it was mostly straight white men who I hung out with. They are not at all that bad. Very accepting. It’s a calm, lax atmosphere with them. You can’t disregard that 98% of humans are shitty so not all of them are chill but most of them are. I had to larp a bit to get their respect but that’s just a part of the process.
Now, the gays on the other hand is an entirely different story. Every time, it feels as though I’m on eggshells when I speak to one. I just can’t act or be myself around them. I feel suppressed. For context, I go to one of the gayest schools in the country. According to my new friends for every 3 straight guys, there are 15 gay guys.
I’ve also experienced more micro aggressions and shit from them. I even managed to befriend one at one point but I gave up on that friendship. Story for another thread. They were too socially inept? Or they might’ve just disliked me because they called me a “weird black dude” to my face. Something my other friends wouldn’t have done or said with the same level of malice they did. With my straight friends it would’ve just been banter said in a joking way. But with them, it was said in a way that was meant to hurt me and it really did.
I am curious about the perspective of a black fag on this but I doubt I’d be able to find someone gay who’s emotionally mature enough and a black who’s well spoken/ written enough to have a conversation on this without them being offended or them reporting me to the school for homophobia.
TLDR: Faggots are far more emotionally immature compared to straight people. When given the opportunity, they will treat you far worse as an ethnic than any other white will. They are also less intelligent and far more judgemental than straight people ironically.
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