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I like to look back to the past and sometimes I have the tendency to whitewash the past, downplay shitty experiences I had and to idealise it as something perfect or at least more desirable than the current year. Be it with video games or life in general - probably because childhood/life before puberty was the only time when an autistcel could really fit in, afterwards everything became a minefield.
Back then stuff was easier and you could create good memories, after puberty everything because connotated with sexuality, something we all were excluded from, the developmental milestones just didn't exist that allow a normal transition from childhood to adulthood. The important memories after puberty were just not collected by you.
I am a person who has an extreme obsession with his own past and I live in it, the present/future is almost without any importance for me (probably because it's very bleak looking). I like to recreate scenes from it by visiting places I liked to visit again. Looking at the older/easier times is the only thing that makes me genuinely feel good, but it's also something that makes me very angry at some times, when I look at the years in my life that were wasted while others had the time of their lives (an injustice/wound that doesn't heal/go away) - it's the source of both pain and bliss, something that can be contrasted against the grey and utterly meaningless existence I nowadays have, even getting bullied and then retaliating for it was something that gave me life energy as a child (unlike the complete sensory deprivation nowdays).
Due to everything that happened (or to say it better: didn't happen) I am definetely developmentally retarded when it comes to personality/emotions/etc. (a defect that doesn't imply a deficit in mental capabilities/intelligence but only the systematic denial of formative experiences), despite having studied/worked I still have the mentality of a child.
I have no capabilities on a social and also experience-based basis to connect to most people my age. I have no experiences worth memorising that have something to do with people. I avoid them as much as possible, which in turn only increases the gap between my world and their world.
I hate how much of the past that gave me positive feelings gets erased, I don't even recognise many of the places I liked to visit anymore. Most of the city I was raised in is unrecognisable. Where once my favorite fish shop stood is now a gambling hall (a development that could be exemplary for the entirety of my country) and the webpages I spent hours with as a child are now completely shut down. The laws also destroyed many of the stuff I liked (especially regarding what was legal a few years ago and what's legal now). Everything turns shittier. I don't belong here, the past is all there is. Anterograde amnesia would make no difference for me at this point, retrograde amnesia would probably drive me to suicide.
Back then stuff was easier and you could create good memories, after puberty everything because connotated with sexuality, something we all were excluded from, the developmental milestones just didn't exist that allow a normal transition from childhood to adulthood. The important memories after puberty were just not collected by you.
I am a person who has an extreme obsession with his own past and I live in it, the present/future is almost without any importance for me (probably because it's very bleak looking). I like to recreate scenes from it by visiting places I liked to visit again. Looking at the older/easier times is the only thing that makes me genuinely feel good, but it's also something that makes me very angry at some times, when I look at the years in my life that were wasted while others had the time of their lives (an injustice/wound that doesn't heal/go away) - it's the source of both pain and bliss, something that can be contrasted against the grey and utterly meaningless existence I nowadays have, even getting bullied and then retaliating for it was something that gave me life energy as a child (unlike the complete sensory deprivation nowdays).
Due to everything that happened (or to say it better: didn't happen) I am definetely developmentally retarded when it comes to personality/emotions/etc. (a defect that doesn't imply a deficit in mental capabilities/intelligence but only the systematic denial of formative experiences), despite having studied/worked I still have the mentality of a child.
I have no capabilities on a social and also experience-based basis to connect to most people my age. I have no experiences worth memorising that have something to do with people. I avoid them as much as possible, which in turn only increases the gap between my world and their world.
I hate how much of the past that gave me positive feelings gets erased, I don't even recognise many of the places I liked to visit anymore. Most of the city I was raised in is unrecognisable. Where once my favorite fish shop stood is now a gambling hall (a development that could be exemplary for the entirety of my country) and the webpages I spent hours with as a child are now completely shut down. The laws also destroyed many of the stuff I liked (especially regarding what was legal a few years ago and what's legal now). Everything turns shittier. I don't belong here, the past is all there is. Anterograde amnesia would make no difference for me at this point, retrograde amnesia would probably drive me to suicide.
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